wedding prep

@1creekgirl (41433)
United States
February 21, 2022 4:56pm CST
Well, the marathon has begun. Dale and I went to a men's shop and he was fitted for a tuxedo. I tried to talk him into a lovely red one, but no... So the measurements are taken (black tux with vest and bow tie. Again, no red, only black.) He's walking our granddaughter Kristin down the aisle which is so special for him. She's never been close to her biological father (long story) and Dale has been the closest thing to a daddy she's had. Robert and Nathan are going tomorrow to be fitted for their tuxedos. There was a bridal dress shop almost next door to the men's wear store, so I looked around a bit there. They have some really lovely mother/grandmother of the bride dresses. I don't plan to wear anything low cut or slit up the leg. But I don't want to look like an OLD grandmother, either. We're planning to drive to Raleigh to some of the larger department stores there, but it sure would be wonderful if I found the perfect formal dress in Greenville at the bridal shop. I'll go back one day soon and try some on. I've RSVP'd for the wedding, reception, and Sunday brunch. You'd think once I found the perfect dress, I could relax. Oh, no. There's an outfit for the rehearsal dinner, a little more casual outfit for the Sunday brunch, then of course there's shoes. And a little jewelry. Oh, and I hate to even think about hair and makeup. Tammy's going to have her makeup and hair done in Mt. Pleasant before the wedding, but what if she ends up looking clownish? Pay all that money, go home and wash it off, then fix it herself. So, I'll be doing my own. The wedding is the middle of May, but with the supply chain issues and orders being delayed, we don't dare try to order anything. If I can't buy it right then and carry it home, I'll just have to shop somewhere else. It's rather stressful, but what a wonderful stress it is! I pray Kristin and her fiancé will have a beautiful wedding, but most of all a blessed and happy marriage. I'll post a photo when I find that "perfect" dress, lol!
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@Juliaacv (51219)
• Canada
21 Feb 22
Oh I hope that you find that perfect dress that looks devine and feels comfortable. I would do my own make up also, a bride, I can see having it done, they are nervous and with shaky hands could drop something on the dress which would cause a stain.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Kristin's nervous that the woman will put makeup that's too heavy.
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@Juliaacv (51219)
• Canada
22 Feb 22
@1creekgirl Maybe she should cancel it then, she needs to feel comfortable and not stressed on her big day. Talk to her about it.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@Juliaacv I think I will. She knows she will need some makeup, but she could do it exactly like she wants it.
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@RebeccasFarm (89883)
• Arvada, Colorado
22 Feb 22
You are so right not to order online. This is so exciting, I can't wait to see photos!
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• Arvada, Colorado
22 Feb 22
@1creekgirl I am sure you will..that red tux would have been nice
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Hopefully I'll have some to show!
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@RebeccasFarm I thought it was striking, lol.
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Feb 22
I am sure you will find the perfect dress soon and it will be beautiful.
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@Tina30219 (81931)
• Onaway, Michigan
23 Feb 22
@1creekgirl Right. I never had to do it when I got married it was justice of peace and not by choice
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
23 Feb 22
@Tina30219 No one in our family has ever had a black tie wedding. Her fiance is a lawyer and comes from money, but he seems really down to earth. The important thing is we want them to be happy together. Money can't guarantee that.
@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
23 Feb 22
I hope you're right!
@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
22 Feb 22
I love the classic black tuxedo, this is what my husband wore when we got married. I remember when I wanted to try a place in Florida to have my hair and makeup done. I rushed to the Hotel and washed away everything, then I washed my hair and combed "my way".
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@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
22 Feb 22
@1creekgirl - I have the feeling that, no matter what you ask, they always overdo. My niece is a make up artist and I noticed that she also always overdo.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@LadyDuck I understand that the makeup needs to be a little heavier for photos, but then the ladies look strange in person.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
That was frustrating, I'm sure. I would like to have my makeup done if they didn't over do it, but not my hair.
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@JudyEv (340116)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Feb 22
Weddings can become a bit of a minefield especially with the pandemic hanging around. I'm looking forward to seeing photos when you find the perfect dress.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Kristin and Dave postponed the wedding until this spring because she didn't want any of the guests to be wearing masks. But who knows now?
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@JudyEv I'm sure there will be guests wearing masks even if the bridal party doesn't.
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@JudyEv (340116)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Feb 22
@1creekgirl I really don't like her chances. They are forecasting huge numbers here so we've had so few for so long.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Feb 22
How sweet for Dale to walk her down the aisle. This will be such a happy time for all of you. I don't blame you for getting prepared now. And I am sure you will find the perfect dress and other outfits soon.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
21 Feb 22
I hope you're right~
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@CarolDM Thanks...it will be a relief to have the outfit and shoes.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Feb 22
@1creekgirl You got this.
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@rebelann (112879)
• El Paso, Texas
22 Feb 22
Thankfully you have a little time to find a dress that you'll really love. I hope it won't be way too pricey.
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@rebelann (112879)
• El Paso, Texas
22 Feb 22
I have my fingers crossed for you.
@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
I hope I can find something really nice, but that doesn't cost a fortune.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
24 Feb 22
I look forward to seeing your perfect dress. So much preparation is needed for a wedding.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
24 Feb 22
We've never had a wedding like this in our family before, lol.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
A wedding! So exciting! But why do you want Dale to wear red?
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
23 Feb 22
I just think a red bow tie would make his black tux really "pop!"
@JESSY3236 (19949)
• United States
22 Feb 22
I hope you find the perfect dress.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Thanks!
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Feb 22
I hope the bridal couple has a long happy marriage.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
I appreciate that, Ruby.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Feb 22
@1creekgirl You’re welcome. Enjoy the wedding.
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@LindaOHio (178708)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Wedding planning is such fun. A little stressful, yes, but so much fun. I hope you find the perfect dresses.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Thanks. I hope to try on some dresses this week at that bridal shop. It would be nice to find something locally and not have to drive a hundred miles to Raleigh. Then the impossible effort to find dress pants and two nice tops that actually fit. Then shoes which are terribly difficult for me to find that don't kill my feet. I gotta stop complaining and enjoy this wedding.
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@LindaOHio (178708)
• United States
23 Feb 22
@1creekgirl Yes, get in the spirit of the occasion!
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@Spontaneo (14700)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Have a wonderful adventure in getting ready for the wedding.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Thanks, I'll try to look at it as an adventure.
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@Faster16 (3182)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 22
I wish the happy couple all the best
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
Thank you!
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@Faster16 (3182)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 22
@1creekgirl you're welcome
@RasmaSandra (79886)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Feb 22
Good that he got the tux, I know what an honor it is to walk his grandaughter down the aisle, I hope you find the right dress, Perhaps if not bridal wear cocktail wear ,
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
I need to find a long formal dress since the wedding is black tie. But the rehearsal dinner and Sunday brunch will be less dressy.
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• United States
22 Feb 22
Dress shopping can be fun and stressful. Hope you find the perfect dress for the wedding. May will be here in the blink of an eye
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
It will be here way too soon!
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@franxav (13837)
• India
21 Feb 22
It sounds like a marathon sure. All those preparations add up to the grandeur of the ceremony and are necessary too. Yet, there are some other preparations our church insists on for a happy and blessed marriage.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
21 Feb 22
What is a normal wedding in your country like? Customs that are different from America?
@Kandae11 (55036)
21 Feb 22
A beautiful event to look forward to. I wish the happy couple all the best.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
21 Feb 22
Thank you so much!
• Belews Creek, North Carolina
22 Feb 22
That all sounds exciting!
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
22 Feb 22
I think it will be a really special event!
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