My Girly Student Cried: Why?!?

@Shavkat (140119)
Philippines
February 23, 2022 2:06am CST
To cut the chase, she cried because I scolded her for not studying her lesson. I am fine with this reason. But then, I got pissed off when she was asking every word of every paragraph of her lesson last night. I cannot let this pass so she heard the ugly truth of her performance. She cried the whole class with the sobbing episodes. After the class, she canceled all her classes the whole week. Should I feel bad about this course of action? A big NO because I do not want to see her again. Can you have all the patience for a lazy student like her? Image Credit: i.pinimg.com
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Anna
@LadyDuck (472108)
• Switzerland
23 Feb 22
She has only to blame herself, this is a lesson you gave her for free.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
The bad thing is that she is measuring me up. I find it so rude and she did not show respect. That's the reason why she got some words that even dogs cannot swallow.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
24 Feb 22
@LadyDuck I agree. I can still remember my teachers before. They are stricter than now.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (472108)
• Switzerland
24 Feb 22
@Shavkat - I remember that our teachers had a way not to be rude, but to be firm. Because also scolding must be an art, a way to teach and not to be simply rude or insulting.
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Rashna Gandhi
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
23 Feb 22
Sorry to hear. You did the right thing. You have lot of patience dealing with kids, if you find it not to let it pass, it's right. Don't feel stressed or guilty. Take care
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
I am cool when scolded her last night. In my book, she needs to study before the class. It is not all be carried out by her virtual teachers.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
24 Feb 22
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Rashna Gandhi
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
23 Feb 22
@Shavkat ok dear
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (108144)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Feb 22
Hopefully she learns the lesson
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
Good luck if she did not to her other teachers online.
Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Feb 22
I have so many of them in college but I don't insult. We need to be resilient and compassionate. I message a lazy student privately. In the case of that young child who cried desperately, it will be better if you didn't say about the ugly truth of her performance. You'll surely be reported.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
24 Feb 22
Our students are far better than them. I can be that person you mentioned. The culture thing is totally different. If I am not going to call her attention to this concern, she will definitely swallow you alive.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (342077)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Feb 22
Hopefully she will learn a lesson from this even if she doesn't come back.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
I am sure she will. She received words that can make her be a better person even she's not going to book my classes.
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Jojo
@Sojourn (13837)
• India
23 Feb 22
You are on course hero, right?! Maybe for the girl you are now a villain . Just kidding.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
23 Feb 22
Yes, I am working on Course Hero as a part-timer, I am referring to my online student through video calling. I am her number one villain and it cannot be denied.
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