Fewer friends after marriage. / myLot

Vietnam

March 25, 2022 3:25am CST

After being married for 11 years, I have only a few close friends left. Unfortunately, I don't have a group of friends. I also rarely hang out with friends. Most women are like that, right?

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4 responses

youless

@youless (112584)

• Guangzhou, China

25 Mar 22

I am the same. I think we have spent quite a lot of time for our family after marriage. It is similar to other married friends and this is why we don't often hang out as much as in the old days.

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Polang

@tkonlinevn (6438)

• Vietnam

26 Mar 22

That's right. I even have a meeting with a closefriend after 15 years. Althought we're still talk together via internet or mobile.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140127)

• Philippines

25 Mar 22

I think it is. Welcome to myLot again.

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Polang

@tkonlinevn (6438)

• Vietnam

26 Mar 22

Thank you. I haven't used Mylot for a long time, partly because my family takes up a lot of my time :)

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140127)

• Philippines

28 Mar 22

@tkonlinevn You are very much welcome.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

29 Mar 22

I guess that is one thing you have to deal with when getting into married life. You have to focus on raising a family and not much about external friends. But at times you get to know who your real friends are those that stick with you even when you are married and less time with them but choose to stay a friend with you.

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Polang

@tkonlinevn (6438)

• Vietnam

30 Mar 22

You're right. I rarely see friends. But I realizes friends are closer and closer, even though I haven't met them. I feel so lucky.

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Nocturn Person

@amelied (117)

• Indonesia

26 Mar 22

I'm not married yet and I also rarely hang out and talk to my friends. I just think they're busy, so I don't wanna bother them.

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Polang

@tkonlinevn (6438)

• Vietnam

26 Mar 22

When I was not married, I used to meet friends, although not much, only on weekends or evenings. But after I got married, I could only contact them over the internet.