How MyLot and an acting out kid made me an extra seven dollars and fifty cents or so today.
By The Horse
@TheHorse (218798)
Walnut Creek, California
April 7, 2022 5:26pm CST
I worked from 8:30 AM to 12:30 PM at my friend's preschool today. I am a child psychologist who is good with kids who act out.
As I have written about before, I am currently working with a kid who curses out his teacher in Spanish when she tries to get him to take a nap.
Today, I was asked to stay late to get him to sleep.
I patted his back to the rhythm of the sleepy music she was playing on the little boom box.
I told him that was what I was going to do.
He fell asleep to a piece that was in 3/4 time within a few minutes.
I let him slide through that first bit of REM sleep into deep sleep and then went home.
While patting his back, I thought up a hypothesis about why a slow beat on ones back to a 3/4 time tune would help a kid sleep.
It has to do with the rhythm of a mother's heartbeat when one is in the womb.
Have you read "This is Your Brain on Music" by Daniel Levitin?
He is a neurologist who studies the psychology of music as well. I have met him and conversed with him a couple of times.
I may run my "theory" by him and see what he thinks.
I will summarize thus: If you have a kid who struggles to get to sleep, try gently patting their back in rhythm to a musical piece in 3/4 time. Bach's famous Minuet in G is a simple example.
Maybe we can all publish a paper together.
I'll write more about my hypothesis once I do a bit more research on the sound/feel of a mother's heartbeat and the timing of a slow 3/4 time piece of music.
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@TheHorse (218798)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
I'll have to "test that hypothesis"! This one is in 4/4. But "Lullabie and Goodnight" is in 3/4. Lets come up with others.
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@kaylachan (69665)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Apr 22
That does sound interesting. Similar to the theory about why we like the sound of rain at night.
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@RasmaSandra (79833)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Apr 22
I have heard many times that babies and toddlers do better when hearing music as they go to sleep, In fact, many of those above the crib dangly things forgot what they are called have a mechanism to turn on and play some kind of lullaby
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
8 Apr 22
Sounds like a good hypothesis.
Will check this one out.
Where do I find someone who will pat my back until I get to sleep though? LOL!
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@TheHorse (218798)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@allen0187 You may get so many responses you get lost.
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@wolfgirl569 (106226)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Apr 22
@TheHorse You could have faked it for a little bit more
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@TheHorse (218798)
• Walnut Creek, California
8 Apr 22
@wolfgirl569 Dang! Why didn't I think of that?
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@oahuwriter (26777)
• United States
8 Apr 22
It makes sense that the rhythm of the patting, to a Mother's heart beat is so comforting to woo child to sleep. As a child in the safe womb, it's the sound baby heard for about 9 months.
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@TheHorse (218798)
• Walnut Creek, California
9 Apr 22
@oahuwriter I hope these lines of thought can lead somewhere. If I could create the perfect baby song, end all hatred and war, and be remembered as a kind soul...or...make millions of dollars from my genius and be just like...other rich people...which would I choose?
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