My maid sudden leave gives me a back ache.

@aninditasen (16389)
Raurkela, India
June 9, 2022 8:25am CST
Today my maid stayed away from work without prior information. Doing all the household cleaning and washing gave me a severe back ache. I had to be fast for as the Sun rises high it becomes impossible for work because of the heat and profuse perspiration. Really these Indian maids are sometimes unpredictable. I always paid extra to the substitute she sent whenever she took a leave. Inspite of that she took a leave without notice. I think my old age is telling on me as a few years ago I used to do the household work effortlessly whenever the maid was absent.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
9 Jun 22
You have to do things slowly
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
I can't work slowly in this heat for after the Sun rises high it would be difficult to work.
@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
9 Jun 22
I am so sorry she did this today. Yes that is very difficult for you especially hurrying before the heat comes. I wish I were there to help. I pray you have something for your back?
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• Arvada, Colorado
10 Jun 22
@aninditasen I am so happy to know your back is better. Oh to be sure, you are most welcome and I would be so happy to help a good friend Anindita. I hope the maid will be more present.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
11 Jun 22
@RebeccasFarm I am happy to have a friend like you. My maid did turn up.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
That's so sweet of you. I can't make my friends do my household chores. I did finish up my work of cleaning and watering the plants in the garden by 8am. My back ache is better now.
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@rebelann (112873)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Jun 22
Sometimes I wish I had a maid but at least I can do the work myself but I do it in small increments so I do not strain my back or other parts of my old body.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
Cleaning has to be done regularly in my city as it's very dusty here.
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@rebelann (112873)
• El Paso, Texas
10 Jun 22
It is very dusty here too but I cannot do as much as I used to so I just do what I can.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
@rebelann I too do as much as I can. I didn't sweep the portions around the house which is my area.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
9 Jun 22
When employees skip work without notice, it creates a problem for everyone. I hope your back feels better soon.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
I am better now and my maid has turned up today.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
10 Jun 22
@aninditasen I'm glad you're feeling better. Did she have a good reason for skipping work?
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
11 Jun 22
@DWDavis No good reason. She went to her village for half a day and stayed back. She is building a house in her village.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
10 Jun 22
So sorry to hear. Yes they aren't bothered no matter what is done for them. Please take care of your health. Hope you recover soon
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
You are right. The back ache is due to work stress. I am better today. The maid did turn up today.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
14 Jun 22
@Rashnag Thank you.
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
14 Jun 22
@aninditasen Glad to know. Take care of your health. Have a good day
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jun 22
I hope you can rest your back soon.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
I took rest in the evening.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Jun 22
@aninditasen Good to hear.
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@jobelbojel (35577)
• Philippines
9 Jun 22
I am sorry she left without notice. Take it slowly dear as you look for replacement.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
I won't replace her as this is after long years that she stayed away without notice. I am searching for a full time maid.
• Quezon City, Philippines
10 Jun 22
I already had 5 maids since February. All of them dissapeared without notice. After getting their salary they vanish. Take it easy, do not exhaust yourself in one day. Hope you feel better soon.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
Here some maids do behave in an ungrateful manner but my maid is not that mean. She has been working in my house since 7years, but she is out and out to extract more money more than the rate that's going on here.
@Kandae11 (55005)
9 Jun 22
I won't call 61 old. Just take your time with the work , it won't be an everyday thing.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
I can't work slowly as when the heat of the Sun increases it will be difficult to work. And yes, my maid has turned up today.
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
9 Jun 22
That's too taxing for an old woman to do household chores.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
10 Jun 22
Yes, I agree with you.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
11 Jun 22
@aninditasen Thank you.
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