My neighbor is so unlucky, she married a man with HIV
@cacay1 (83595)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 11, 2022 6:48am CST
My neighbor didn't know the man she married has an HIV. They were married 3 weeks ago and only just recently learned her husband has an HIV. He met the man through her friend. Her friend didn't also know.
Many neighbors learned for that day our neighbor was running around the street shouting in madness. 
. She wanted to kill her husband. She calmed down when the police intervened. Her husband lied to her this eternal health problem on HIV.
She was advised to see a doctor for a blood test. This time they were separated to avoid constant war. The newly wed wife wanted to commit a suicide. She's so desperate. The husband should have used protection if he truly loves his wife. He's a shameless human spreading his endless virus
It will be better for both parties to submit health certificate before something else happens. Would you agree for both lovers to submit a health certificate?
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. She wanted to kill her husband. She calmed down when the police intervened. Her husband lied to her this eternal health problem on HIV.
She was advised to see a doctor for a blood test. This time they were separated to avoid constant war. The newly wed wife wanted to commit a suicide. She's so desperate. The husband should have used protection if he truly loves his wife. He's a shameless human spreading his endless virus
It will be better for both parties to submit health certificate before something else happens. Would you agree for both lovers to submit a health certificate?
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24 responses
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
11 Aug 22
It's good to go for the check before anything
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@merrybelle2021 (1393)
• Philippines
11 Aug 22
When she has calmed down, maybe she can go to the PAO (Public Attorney's Office) and ask if their marriage can be annulled.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@merrybelle2021, I'll tell her about your suggestion. She's so unfortunate.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@sjvg1976, it's horrible, that sickness is transmissible. The wife surely be infected. It's so sad, the man didn't disclose he has HIV. He ruins the life of his wife. I agree to the idea to have full medical check up before getting married.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
11 Aug 22
So sad I can imagine how thee lady feels
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@Laurakemunto, she's counselled.
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@DevMrSamEleazar (14058)
• Philippines
11 Aug 22
oh that is so bad. Well I am new in that kind of virus but does that thing can kill?
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@DevMrSamEleazar, it's AIDS, it's no curable but life could prolong with some medications for it. You have to be careful to who you would want to be in a relationship.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@DevMrSamEleazar you're welcome Sam.
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@DevMrSamEleazar (14058)
• Philippines
12 Aug 22
@cacay1 oh I see thanks for letting me know.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Aug 22
I guess the only remedy I see there is they could annul their marriage since now disclosing this disease is annullable in so many angles. As to her condition, I think if they already had many intimate contacts with him then there is a high probability that she has the virus as well. I think it is indeed best for them to separate already since they cannot live as a couple anymore. The trust is broken already and is irreparable for now. HIV is a serious and life time disease that once you have it, it will stay with you forever.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Aug 22
@rsa101, so true their marriage is good as nothing , irreparable, trust gone and hatred prevails. The husband is to blame. He's an idiot for not disclosing his lifetime sickness. The wife sad to say infected with HIV as per result of the blood test.
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@jobelbojel (36108)
• Philippines
12 Aug 22
So it is important nowadays to really know the person first before making the decision to get married. That's a shame.
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@jobelbojel (36108)
• Philippines
13 Aug 22
@cacay1 exactly.. I feel sorry for the wife and feel bad about the husband.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@jobelbojel this day her mom told me the blood test result confirmed she's infected with HIV. 
@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@jobelbojel, it's very necessary to avoid problems. Regrets come at the end so better be prepared than sorry.
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@sathviksouvik (19712)
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12 Aug 22
i think easy solution is to get divorce and marry some one else
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@sathviksouvik, how could she remarry if she's infected with HIV?
@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@58lordstreet she's positive of HIV test results revealed this afternoon. Her mom told me.
@58lordstreet (1668)
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12 Aug 22
@cacay1 she can take tablets so she doesnt pass it on and also use protection
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@pitsipeahie (5011)
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12 Aug 22
Usually couples would undergo full medical check up before marriage. What happened that they did not even think of it?
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@58lordstreet (1668)
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12 Aug 22
is that usual ? Ive never been married so I wouldnt know
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@pitsipeahie, they might have trusted each other. She's so badly hurt.
@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@58lordstreet, it's not usual if one doesn't engage sexually with a person with HIV so better have a full medical check up before getting married.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Aug 22
@cacay1 Oh my, that's a very devastating news for her. How old is the new wife? How did she know her husband is affected with it. It's alarming Cacay, we live in the same area so no one can tell the disease could be rampant.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Aug 22
@florelway, she's turning 29.Her husband confessed to his wife 1 week after their marriage.
@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 22
Just like Anna said,same thing here people get tested before getting married. Pre-marital health screening in Malaysia is often required when couples submit their wedding registration. I hope that your friend get a full medical check up after this.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@sica98, that's a good law I hope Congress would submit a law like that to protect the citizens of the Republic.My friend is scheduled for a blood test tomorrow morning at 8 and she will be accompanied by her parents and some close relatives to protect her from harming herself.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@sica98 , I hope for a miracle be upon my neighbor for we all know how this virus transmits to others. The wife learns only after 3 weeks after their marriage plus those moments they cannot resist their urges. The husband is to blame for his cruelty.
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@LeaPea2417 (37387)
• Toccoa, Georgia
12 Aug 22
Yes they should both submit health certificates. Also if I were the woman, I would divorce the guy.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@LeaPea2417, she surely divorces her husband. her parents are planning to see the court next week. Tomorrow is also her schedule for the blood test. She is accompanied by her parents and some close relatives to comfort her in case she is positive of the HIV
@RasmaSandra (80925)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Aug 22
The man should be hanged, but of course, that won't happen, If the wife has a good health checkup, she should get an immediate divorce and start all over again and next time, have the guy get a health check-up but I guess she won't trust anyone for a while,
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@RasmaSandra my friend is scheduled for a blood test tomorrow morning at 8. She's so afraid. She will be accomplished by her parents and some close relatives to protect her. They're afraid what she would do if infected with HIV
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@58lordstreet (1668)
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12 Aug 22
that would be a horrible thing to learn considering that the person with HIV can take a tablet and wont pass it on to their partner....its called prep as far as I know
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Aug 22
@58lordstreet, the guy was so careless and selfish. He should have told his wife so they can both solve his problem. They're now at a total loss.
