i don't like to become an elder siblings

By Dini
@Andini (3209)
Indonesia
August 14, 2022 6:00am CST
hello guys, good afternoon friends, today sunday but my days not going well as my expectations started my day with 5 hours zoom meet study after that mom ask me for housework eve i have 2 younger siblings. i dont know why mom choose me to do housework. i am tired but forcely do housework. even when my dad need any work then they ask my help first. so guys, Do you also think to become elder siblings not good?
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@DaddyEvil (137786)
• United States
14 Aug 22
I don't know. I am next-to-the-youngest sibling. I still did housework when mom needed help. I think parents just need help so ask the kids to help them.
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@DaddyEvil (137786)
• United States
14 Aug 22
@Andini No, that's not it. The eldest is always the first to be asked for help. When you get married, then the next eldest will be the one asked for help when it's needed. Your mom is showing you what life with a new husband will be like...
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
@DaddyEvil but i told about when none married
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
But my mom ask my help more than my younger siblings. just like i am not her daughter
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
14 Aug 22
I'm an elder sibling ... sort of---my disability makes my maturity (or responsibility) 'not a sure thing.' (My little sister is one of my legal guardians.) It's sort of like Spider-man (or maybe Peter Parker's uncle or -aunt) said, "With great power comes great responsibility." I would be PROUD if my parents asked me (instead of my little siblings) to do a chore---because the little ones cannot be TRUSTED to co the task as well as I can!
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
yea i also feel same
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
14 Aug 22
@Andini You're a good Big Sibling!
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
@mythociate yea i care much my younger sister just like I am her mom
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
14 Aug 22
I don't think only the eldest kid is asked to do the household chores. The parents ask it any kid if he/she can do that. I was younger than the eldest one and I had to do several works asked by my parents but I never complained but used to do them happily and so should you.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
14 Aug 22
@Andini maybe she knows that they won't be able to do that work so she asks you to do that.
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
i complaint sometimes when my siblings still in home but mom ask me for do anything.
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@Adie04 (17360)
14 Aug 22
I'm not sure how does that feel because I'm the youngest in the family.
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@Adie04 (17360)
17 Aug 22
@Andini Not really. Still equal I guess.
@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
then your parents less to ask your help in housework
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@ankurdini (1798)
16 Nov 22
Ahahah yea elder siblings more responsible than other
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 22
Yeaa you are right about elder child....i also take care my younger sister as mom ....and my mom also ask for housework more than my 2 younger sisters.
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 22
@ankurdini i know im good sister. I take care both little siblings also u take care ur nephew and yourself too
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@ankurdini (1798)
17 Nov 22
@Andini u r good sister
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 22
I just posted a few minutes ago on a discussion over being an only child and wanting a sibling in my life.I take it that your the eldest in the family.I never had any sibling in my life so I cannot judge in your situation.
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
yeaa if you have siblings then you will understand my situation.
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
@sica98 yeaa i do more housework than my siblings. .my friends also tell me that YOU ARE VERY GOOD IN HOUSEWORK.
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@sica98 (2441)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 22
@Andini Even though you may feel forcefully doing this housework it shows that you care enough not to let the your younger sibling do them.I think that makes you good daughter and big sister.
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@Kandae11 (55172)
14 Aug 22
I have one brother after me and two older sisters so l was not pressured to do things in the home.
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 22
you have 2 older sisters then you don't need to do much housework
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21 Nov 22
Yeaa it make more responsibility
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@Andini (3209)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 22
This time i become elder ahhaha but it's so stresd to be elder and just like 2nd mom and many housework and college task