A Very Sad October 1 For Me.

Juliaacv

@Juliaacv (51467)

• Canada

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 I hope that everything is worked out for everyone's best interests. When we are grieving we should not have to be worrying about anything else, I am sorry that you are going thru this. Big hugs to you.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

@Juliaacv Thank you again.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you. His extended family is very large - some arrived at the house as early as yesterday evening. My nephew will have a lot of support and l am hoping there will be no future disputes over land and property.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (137908)

• India

2 Oct 22

Sad news indeed. My deepest condolences.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (137908)

• India

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 What I have obsereved lately is people leave this world without notice.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you for your sympathy. Mylot is helping me through this.

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Trebor Ika

@Treborika (17853)

• Mombasa, Kenya

2 Oct 22

@allknowing And in very large numbers in deed

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@DaddyEvil (137698)

• United States

2 Oct 22

I'm so sorry. My sincere condolences.

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@DaddyEvil (137698)

• United States

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 You're always welcome, Dearheart.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you De. Knowing that l could come here and express my grief has been a big help. Thank you.

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solxee

@sol_cee (38219)

• Philippines

2 Oct 22

My condolences to you and your family. Stay strong and hang in there

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you. These responses have been a great help.

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Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (83581)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

2 Oct 22

Sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences. It's not easy to bear the pain of losing someone we loved

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Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (83581)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 our eldest brother passed away 7 months ago and 3 weeks ago my beloved nephew passed away too. It breaks my heart and the hearts of my family, relatives and friends. Feeling devastated.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

He and my sister headed the family -- now they are both gone....

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

@cacay1 l am so very sorry. Stay strong.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 I understand why you are very sad. I am so so sorry about the loss to you and your family. Since both parents are gone are there any kids and if so, what will happen to them with no parents.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 You are welcome. Since they are all adults will they take care of the autistic sibling?

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 You should keep an eye on how things go and are and step in if needed.

@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

There will be a lot of changes for me as well. His three children with my sister (he was married before) are all adults, but the eldest is autistic. Thank you for the condolences.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (182344)

• United States

2 Oct 22

So sorry Kandase, your heart must be breaking!

. I too love my brother in law. He is a good guy, and has been a good husband to sis. I can imagine the pain.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (182344)

• United States

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 I hope not, nobody needs that.

@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

He has been the head of the family for so long, now a lot of changes are ahead. I just hope there won't be any disputes about land and holdings in the coming months. Thank you.

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (112995)

• El Paso, Texas

2 Oct 22

My condolences for your loss.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

I thank you for your kind response.

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rebelann1949

@rebelann (112995)

• El Paso, Texas

2 Oct 22

You are welcome.

OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90481)

• Arvada, Colorado

3 Oct 22

I am so sorry Kandase..how many children did they have? RIP

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OceanTiara

@RebeccasFarm (90481)

• Arvada, Colorado

3 Oct 22

@Kandae11 You will no doubt be suffering greatly at this time Kandase. I understand grief very well. We are here for you anytime.

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grief

@Kandae11 (55175)

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5 Oct 22

@RebeccasFarm Thank you all.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

One girl, two boys - all adults. Thank you for the condolences, these kind responses have helped immensely.

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (61691)

• Centralia, Washington

2 Oct 22

That is awful. I truly am sorry for your loss.

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Krissttina Isobe

@oahuwriter (26777)

• United States

3 Oct 22

Know how you feel, my loved ones has passed too

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

Thank you. It is hard but we must be strong.

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Krissttina Isobe

@oahuwriter (26777)

• United States

4 Oct 22

@Kandae11 Yes. But I believing in grieving, because it's natural thing to do.

CarolDM

@CarolDM (203422)

• Nashville, Tennessee

2 Oct 22

So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you and the family. Life can change so quickly.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you so much. There will be some changes in the coming weeks and months and l am hoping there will be no disputes over land and property.

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CarolDM

@CarolDM (203422)

• Nashville, Tennessee

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 I hope for a peaceful transaction. Things can be crazy during these times. I hope it is peaceful.

Nocturnal Writer

@Nakitakona (56486)

• Philippines

9 Nov 22

That's too painful. I know it couldn't be easy to forget it. But that's how life is. My condolence to you.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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9 Nov 22

Thank you.

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Nocturnal Writer

@Nakitakona (56486)

• Philippines

12 Nov 22

@Kandae11 You're welcome.

M Cheung

@Beestring (14699)

• Hong Kong

2 Oct 22

Very sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you deeply for your response. It will be a hard couple of weeks ahead, with relatives arriving from all over.

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M Cheung

@Beestring (14699)

• Hong Kong

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 Take care.

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celticeagle

@celticeagle (168420)

• Boise, Idaho

2 Oct 22

I am so sorry for your loss. We are never ready for these things to happen. Take care and may he RIP.

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celticeagle

@celticeagle (168420)

• Boise, Idaho

3 Oct 22

@Kandae11 ......You never are.

@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

Thank you. I was definitely not prepared for this.

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much2say

@much2say (56142)

• Los Angeles, California

2 Oct 22

So sorry to hear this about your brother in law. My deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts

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much2say

@much2say (56142)

• Los Angeles, California

3 Oct 22

@Kandae11

@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

Thank you. Thank you all for the kind responses.

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37383)

• Toccoa, Georgia

2 Oct 22

I'm so sorry to read this.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

When l woke up on the morning of October 1, of course l never dreamed my day would unfold like this - but that's life.

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37383)

• Toccoa, Georgia

3 Oct 22

@Kandae11

Anna

@LadyDuck (472087)

• Switzerland

2 Oct 22

I am so very sorry for your loss. Did he die of a heart attack? It seems so sudden. My deepest condolences.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472087)

• Switzerland

3 Oct 22

@Kandae11 - When it is sudden and unexpected it is a terrible shock.

@Kandae11 (55175)

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3 Oct 22

We must wait for an autopsy to be done. Thank you so much for the condolences, These responses have been a great help.

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Marie

@Tampa_girl7 (50546)

• United States

6 Dec 22

I am so sorry for your loss.

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@Kandae11 (55175)

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6 Dec 22

Thank you. I am afraid l haven't been the same since , l am also suffering from a prolonged case of writer's block.

Ruby Hawk

@RubyHawk (99405)

• Atlanta, Georgia

2 Oct 22

I know it doesn’t help but I’m so sorry for your loss. The family has my sympathy.

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Ruby Hawk

@RubyHawk (99405)

• Atlanta, Georgia

2 Oct 22

@Kandae11 l know. It’s been a big help for me.

@Kandae11 (55175)

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2 Oct 22

Thank you so very much. Being able to come here and express my grief has been a big help.

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