Fancy speaking your own language!
By Fleur
@Fleura (30382)
United Kingdom
October 3, 2022 3:19am CST
A few days ago I was at a social function where we were all seated at tables of six or seven, most of whom didn’t know each other. So people were trying to make polite conversation, asking how we knew the host, where we lived etc.
One lady explained that she had lived in the village for a few years, but had originally grown up in the area and then moved away.
I asked what brought her back after 20 years living in Cardiff (capital of Wales) and she asked ‘Have you tried being an English person living in Wales?’
I replied that on the contrary, I was a Welsh person living in England.
She then went on to complain what a nuisance it had been at work when she had to answer the ‘phone and the caller expected her to speak Welsh. She also told us that an English friend’s children went to a Welsh school and do you know, the homework they brought home was in Welsh and they had to translate it into English before their father could help them with it!
At this point another man at the table joined in and said he was planning a trip to Wales in a few weeks, and he had heard that some people in Wales actually spoke to each other in Welsh! And that this was not because they were forced to speak it at school, but they spoke it of their own free choice!
I didn’t really know what to say to all this. Of course I didn’t want to start a big argument, and thankfully the host then called everyone to attention for a presentation.
But can you imagine having this same conversation concerning any other language? Remarking on the outlandish idea that people in Spain speak Spanish of their own free will, for example, or that children in Greek schools get their homework in Greek? Such comments would be called racism, pure and simple.
I’m including a picture of daffodils because the daffodil is the emblem of Wales.
All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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19 responses
@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
3 Oct 22
Like the US dollar which has established itself as a world currency, the English language has also become an accepted universal language around the world. It's no wonder many native speakers of English expect other foreigners to use English as a communication tool even in their own country. Call it a form of arrogance.
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@Juliaacv (51190)
• Canada
3 Oct 22
That was not really a very polite conversation that she brought about.
My hubby and I lived in a French-English (Francophone) village for over 20 years.
We often were engaged in conversations in English, which everyone knows, and then it would suddenly switch to French. It was rude, but we would make light of it and people eventually came around stopped being that way.
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@Fleura (30382)
• United Kingdom
3 Oct 22
If you go to some cities in England (were you would expect people to speak English) you will find that the majority of people speak Urdu or Punjabi - but no-one would dare mention this for fear of being called racist. And yet they think it's OK to say things like this about speaking Welsh in Wales.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
3 Oct 22
I don't mind learning any new language if it's the language of the land where I chose to live or have been living due to some reason.
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@BarBaraPrz (47308)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3 Oct 22
Substitue French for Welsh and you could very well get the same conversations here in Canada.
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@BarBaraPrz (47308)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Oct 22
@Fleura And resented in other parts, too.
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@Fleura (30382)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 22
@BarBaraPrz I see. Which part do you live in?
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16763)
• China
3 Oct 22
Today, I know the daffodil is the emblem of Wales.There seems to be a big difference between Wale and English,not sure if it is the same as our local dialect.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16763)
• China
4 Oct 22
@Fleura Thanks for clearing lt up ! I have known of Anglo-Saxons who are frequently refered to on internet and are born with sense of superiority,but not clear why they are.
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@wolfgirl569 (106226)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Oct 22
She should have expected to speak that while living there.
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@xFiacre (13011)
• Ireland
3 Oct 22
@fleura Outrageous!! And wasn’t this the attitude in the colonies as well? I do like the way in which Welsh is spoken in everyday situations and not just as an academic exercise. I love getting to speak Irish when in Donegal. I also enjoy it when waiters abroad ask if I’m English and do I want an English menu and I ask for an Irish one but agree to make do with an English one if that’s all they’ve got.
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@xFiacre (13011)
• Ireland
4 Oct 22
@Fleura I hate being asked where I’m from when on holiday. To say Ireland is technically incorrect even though I carry an Irish passport; to say the UK is technically true but I’m not a citizen of the UK and anyway that would probably be understood as me being English. To declare myself as being from Northern Ireland is just too pedantic and risks misinterpretation. Bother. I get myself all tangled up in my identity and person enquiring isn’t really all that interested - they’re just a stranger trying to make small talk. I’m from the earth and unto the earth I shall return.
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@Fleura (30382)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 22
I can't tell you how many times I have explained to people that I'm not English. Of course it's even more complicated now because I live in England so that just confuses everyone more. And so many people around the world use 'England' as the name for the whole of the UK.
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@Shiva49 (26680)
• Singapore
4 Oct 22
@Fleura Thanks, English language gave me wings to fly.
My mother tongue helped me to understand my culture and traditions.
I studied two other languages in India to communicate with others.
I worked in Indonesia for five years and had to have decent working and communication skills in Indonesian.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
3 Oct 22
Learned something new from you that there's a separate language for Wales.
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 22
Each country hass their own law to educate the people and children. Malaysia mother tongue is malay language. Hence all the citizens, regardless of race of religion are force to learn it. If you fail, you cannot graduate from school. Imagine, chinese and indian to learn a different laanguage besides english. Anyway, we are used to it already.
@allknowing (136369)
• India
4 Oct 22
There are 22 official languages in India!!
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@allknowing (136369)
• India
4 Oct 22
@Fleura Everyone is proud of their language and talk as much as they can although while interacting with those from other States normally they speak in English or Hindi
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@HomewardBound (552)
•
4 Oct 22
Oh my, what a racist and arrogant attitude! You were a good guest, holding your tongue and not debating with them.
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@NatsuYeung (264)
•
3 Oct 22
wherever it happens it is racism- I am sorry that there are people like this to have an ethnicity in their own area conform to them.
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