A most difficult post
@1creekgirl (41392)
United States
December 3, 2022 12:18pm CST
I've only known this for three days and I still can't really wrap my head around it. I had a biopsy almost four weeks ago and my Gynecologist called me to tell me I have breast cancer. Actually, I have two different kinds in the same breast which is extremely rare.
Dale and I saw the surgeon who will do the surgery on December 13. Not sure if it will be two lumpectomies or one mastectomy. A lot of questions I have will be hopefully answered that day. He said I may need some radiation, but hopefully not chemo. Thank God. I know radiation can be rough, but I have a horror of chemo.
That's about all the information I have right now. We've told the kids and a few friends about it, but I'm just not ready yet to really make it public around here. I do want people praying for me....you can never have too many prayers being said for you...but it's just still so unreal.
I consider you all my friends. And I know so many of you have experienced a lot of pain and heartache. I wanted to share this with you.
I have nine days to get some things done because after surgery, I don't know how long recovery is. The surgeon doesn't think it has spread which I'm so very grateful for.
My best friend in MA had breast cancer two years ago, so I learned a little from her over the past two years. I absolutely trust God through this and I have a wonderful husband and family. And all of y'all.
I was reading my Bible, just kind of skipping through the Gospels, needing to read the words that Jesus himself spoke. I was crying, telling God how afraid I am. I opened my eyes, looked down at the Bible and read where Jesus said, "Don't be afraid."
If that doesn't tell me God speaks to us, nothing will. It meant the world to me.
That's all I have for now. You already know how much I'll appreciate your prayers and well wishes. I'll keep you updated when I can.
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@kaylachan (69370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Dec 22
I don't know what to say, but stay strong. As hard as that will be, and know I'm silently rooting for you.
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@kaylachan (69370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Dec 22
@1creekgirl I am glad I was able to offer something.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
3 Dec 22
I appreciate your kind words, Kayla.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Dec 22
YOu will be in our prayer Vicky, from today forward:)
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
3 Dec 22
Thank you Kharla. I appreciate your prayers.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Dec 22
@1creekgirl We have a friend in Seattle, who was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Anita's family was devastated, she was given at the most, six months to live. We all went to our prayer closets, asking for Anita's healing. The survival rate for victims of pancreatic cancer, is 1%. And this was six years ago! In November 2022, Anita was given a clean bill of health:) She's doing beautiful! And now, it's Vicki's turn to receive a miraculous healing from God!
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
@kobesbuddy What a great example of how God still does miracles! He healed my husband many years ago of Emphysema, so I know first hand how He's with us.
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@popciclecold (38637)
• United States
3 Dec 22
Prayers made for you daily. You have prayed for us.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
3 Dec 22
Yes, I did pray for y'all and I truly appreciate your prayers, too. I know God hears every prayer that's said.
@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
3 Dec 22
I will pray for you and hold a good thought. That's rotten news, but you will get through it. I would refuse chemo personally, but you have to do what is best for you and your family.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
3 Dec 22
@1creekgirl I don't even know what to say without sounding so cliche. But please know, I mean this with all my heart. I'm so sad to be reading this. My heart goes out to you and I am putting it out there that you will be as brave as you can during this journey. But also know it's totally ok to not feel ok. I wish you to have all the support you need and always speak up when you feel like you need more. (meaning I hope you never feel alone during this time).
I'm wishing you ALL the very best and I hope you can update us as much as you possibly can but more than anything, I wish you strength and all the love.
You got this! You can do this!
You got this! You can do this!2 people like this
@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
8 Dec 22
@VivaLaDani13 Thanks and merry Christmas!.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
You have no idea how much your comment means to me.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
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3 Dec 22
Psalm 121, verses 1 to 3:" l will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the Lord who made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber".
Try not to be afraid God will take care of you - and he never reneges on his promises.
Prayers going up for you.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
Your comment brought tears...the Bible has so many words of encouragement.
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@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
4 Dec 22
The one thing I will say Vicki first of all is that they surely can perform miracles these days with this cancer.
Now I am not saying it isn't scary..I know you are scared and so would I be.
But you, the shining example of a woman of intense and unrelenting exemplary faith ...all I can say is He's got you Vicki and you got this!!
Wish I were there now to help out and do all I can, you know I would.
Of course you know prayers here for you.
Wish I were there now to help out and do all I can, you know I would.
Of course you know prayers here for you.1 person likes this
@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
4 Dec 22
@1creekgirl You would I know Vicki.
You never know if I'd get down to you there
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
Your comment means so much to me. I know you'd be right here if you could and I would do the same for you.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
Thank you, I need all the prayers I can get. But I know God is with me.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
@LeaPea2417 I'm so happy your sister is doing well. Thank you for the encouragement.
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@LadyDuck (471337)
• Switzerland
4 Dec 22
I was so sad to rad this post, as soon as I read the title I felt that something was wrong.
My heart goes on to you, I know that you are strong and I know that your faith is going to help you through this difficult moment. I wish you all the best and to get well soon.
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@LadyDuck (471337)
• Switzerland
5 Dec 22
@1creekgirl I can only imagine the stress and the fear you are experiencing.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
5 Dec 22
@LadyDuck I'm trying to not get too awfully stressed, but I have my moments.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
You're very kind Anna and I appreciate it.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
3 Dec 22
Keeping you in my thoughts. I know you'll be okay.
I know you'll be okay.1 person likes this
@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Dec 22
The word cancer is what scares us, but as it was written " don't be afraid" means God is with you. You're a fighter and I know you will be okay.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
I sure appreciate the encouragement, Angie. Is your new job still going well?
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
4 Dec 22
@1creekgirl
I am so sorry what you are going through. Please let us know what happens. I understand how hard it is to talk about it. You are right that G-d does speak to us.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
5 Dec 22
@1creekgirl
You are so welcome Vicki and I hope it all works out for you.
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
4 Dec 22
Oh, wow. That's really hard news to get. No wonder you're overwhelmed with it all!
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
It still seems like a dream or rather a nightmare.
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
4 Dec 22
@1creekgirl I can imagine, almost like there's a mistake or you got someone else's news. I am so sorry.
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@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
4 Dec 22
I am so sorry to read this. Of course we are all on your side and will be praying for you. This comes as such a shock. You are such a wonderful person; and I hope everything goes smoothly for you. Please take care of yourself and PM me any time if you need to talk to someone.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
Linda, I will sure keep your offer in mind. This is such a caring community.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
5 Dec 22
@LindaOHio Thanks, I'm blessed with a wonderful husband, family, and all you guys. God's with me through whatever happens.
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@LindaOHio (178131)
• United States
5 Dec 22
@1creekgirl Just try and stay positive. I'm sure you will have the best of care.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
4 Dec 22
I count on your prayers, Julia. It means so much to feel the love and support of our community of friends here at myLot.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
11 Dec 22
I really am blessed with a good husband and kids.
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@Dena91 (16587)
• United States
14 Dec 22
I will be praying for you as you go through this.
We have a dear friend who had a double mastectomy in Jan.. She had to do some chemo as this is her second time dealing with cancer. But when she had some of her scans later in the year all of her markers were perfect and she is cancer free.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
14 Dec 22
I'm really glad to hear that about your friend. Thank you so much for your prayers.
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@dgobucks226 (35574)
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10 Dec 22
I hope everything turns out well for you. I hope having God by your side watching over you during this difficult time brings you peace and strength to overcome.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
10 Dec 22
Oh, thank you, DB! I love that quote and your kind words.
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@MarieCoyle (37227)
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4 Dec 22
I am rather at a loss for the right words here, please forgive me. Brings to mind the saying of Let Go, and Let God...., and never give up. I know it won't be easy. You have my thoughts and well-wishes.
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