Is ‘identifying as’ something enough to make you into that thing?

@Fleura (30620)
United Kingdom
December 5, 2022 5:04pm CST
This is another post on the subject of transgender. Long ago such a situation was simply not possible of course, then decades ago a person with gender dysphoria was able to undergo extensive surgery and ongoing hormone treatments in order to ‘become’ the other gender to which they felt they belonged. But nowadays it seems it’s much simpler than that; a person simply has to say that they ‘identify as’ a particular gender and ‘Bob’s your Uncle’ (or perhaps your aunt) – they are! So why is this the case for gender, but not other characteristics? For example in 2018, a man lost a legal bid to change his age. Yet if you are ‘as old as you feel’, why should changing gender be allowed but not age? And is simply stating you are something enough to make it so? Imagine if life was that simple! Any sick person could just say they were well, and they would be cured! Any blind person could just say ‘I can see’ and they would! Any disabled person would just say ‘I identify as able-bodied’ and voila! - they would be! In my head I’m still 25, yet if I went round telling everyone that, they would not treat me as a 25-year-old, and if I applied for special discounts or grants for young people, training opportunities or competition entries, I would be barred or possibly charged with fraud. So I’m going to be controversial and say no, just saying you are a man or woman is not enough to magically make that happen. If it was, then perhaps I would be a man – or a horse – or a tree! All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@Namelesss (3365)
• United States
6 Dec 22
No, that's the short answer. The long answer: if you tell me you are a cat I'm putting your kitty butt outside and you can sleep in the barn and eat rats. Just sayin.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 22
@LadyDuck (472322)
• Switzerland
6 Dec 22
Why should I pretend to be younger? Surely not, I would lose my pension and I should go back to work, what a horrible idea.
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@noni1959 (10113)
• United States
7 Dec 22
Lately, I've come across two women who identify as a cat. It was in two different stores at different times. Both would purr, meow, and rub in-between talking to others.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec 22
Did they eat cat food and catch mice? Presumably they didn't own any property or have a job. Did they see a vet if they were sick?
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
13 Dec 22
@noni1959 You can't have everything, if you want to be a cat, fine, but then you relinquish human rights!
@noni1959 (10113)
• United States
13 Dec 22
@Fleura My son-in-law said there is a woman at the office on one of the bases he travels to for work and she does this as well. I don't know if they eat cat food or mouse, but I would think if they identify, shouldn't they? I do have respect for all how they feel and identify but wonder how it affects their lives as a whole.
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@JESSY3236 (20110)
• United States
6 Dec 22
My mother doesn't get it either. I do forget how old I am sometimes. It's always a shock to realize that I'm 42.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec 22
And do you get it?
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@JESSY3236 (20110)
• United States
14 Dec 22
@Fleura not really.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Dec 22
I say live and let live. It’s not up to me to say what gender anyone else is. I can only speak for myself.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 22
Yes that's fine, unless people take advantage over others, for example by winning sports competitions, being named 'man/woman of the year', gaining access to financial awards earmarked for certain sectors of society and all that sort of thing. In everyday life no-one really cares what you call yourself or how you look, but it matters when it impacts others.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Dec 22
@Fleura I’d say, the best man or woman wins regardless of any other factors.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
7 Dec 22
@RubyHawk That means that men are almost always going to win everything in sports, for example. Apart from sports such as horse-racing, there would be little point in any women participating at all.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Dec 22
These days it seems anything goes. A very sad part of the world right now. But I would say no, to answer your question.
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@RasmaSandra (81331)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Dec 22
That is a lovely horse. That is what happens to me I don't feel my age and then I get a look in the mirror and I am glad I can still recognize myself. When I do my surveys, I constantly get reminded about who I am by answering their questions.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 22
Yes it's a horrible shock isn't it? I definitely 'identify as' a younger person.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 22
And thanks, the photo is Ascot, he belonged to a friend.
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@JudyEv (342945)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Dec 22
Your posts really raise some philosophical questions at times - which is no doubt a good thing but it sometimes makes my head hurt.
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@Fleura (30620)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 22
I like to raise questions, maybe I should have studied philosophy
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