A Note on A Right

@porwest (92666)
United States
January 9, 2023 12:28pm CST
Sometimes in America people are confused. People assume rights that they do not actually have. Here's one you DO have. You have the right to be offended, and others have the right to offend you. Is it right to offend someone? Depends on what the offensive act is. Nowadays almost any act or phrase or symbol could be considered offensive to someone. So where do you draw the line? You don't draw any line, because let's be clear about one right that YOU DO NOT HAVE. You do not have the right to NOT be offended. You have the right to voice your own opinion about what you find offensive. But it does not make the offense necessarily wrong, at least in the eyes of the law. Even if your opinion about what offends you offends someone else... YOU still have the right to voice it and the other person has the right to find it offensive.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jan 23
I am offended that I don't have the right to be offended.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
9 Jan 23
And that is your right. Gosh, we could go in circles here.
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@FourWalls (69061)
• United States
9 Jan 23
@CarolDM — Hey, I’m offended that you’re offended by my offense!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Jan 23
@FourWalls And it continues around and around.
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@Kandae11 (55174)
9 Jan 23
Some people get offended easily. Even by the sound of someone's voice.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
We live in a time when pancake syrup offends people. Anything is possible. lol
@kaylachan (71828)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 23
You have the right, as a human being, to feel however you wish. While you cannot control the actions of others, you can control yourself. This meaning, you have not only the right, to feel things, you have the ability and right to chose how you allow something to make you feel. More people should keep this in mind, before they get offended and shoot off their mouths.
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@kaylachan (71828)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Jan 23
@porwest It's mainly why I kind of stopped caring what people think. I am not rude by any stretch, but I won't hold back my opinion either. You can't please everyone.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
18 Jan 23
This is exactly right. The hard thing to do is NOT offend someone because nowadays anyone can be offended by anything. Some of it you just aren't going to know. Like that someone would be offended by pancake syrup.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
19 Jan 23
@kaylachan Nope. You sure can't. And frankly, it's not worth trying to. Even around here, obviously I say what I want and sometimes it offends someone or pisses them off. Some of them block me. Frankly, I don't give two damns. lol It won't change who I am. It won't get me to start parsing my words. And it won't make me care any more or less than I do already.
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 23
Absolutely, everyone can get offended by something but everyone else can still do that 'something'!
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@Fleura (30541)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 23
@porwest I really hope so, I feel like most of us are being picked on by a minority but people are starting to speak out and refuse to be silenced.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
This is the thing, I think, which has gotten out of hand, and that is that only certain people are "allowed" to be offended these days—the rest of us are supposed to just take it. In other words, there are certain groups who can be offended and force everyone else to shut up or be demonized while they can do whatever they want. I think the tide it turning just a little bit because I think people are getting tired of it. But we shall see.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
18 Jan 23
@Fleura I definitely agree with you on this. And it is high time the majority gets VERY loud.
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@NJChicaa (120158)
• United States
9 Jan 23
and other people/companies have the right to issue consequences as a result of your offensive speech.
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@NJChicaa (120158)
• United States
9 Jan 23
@porwest I didn't directly reference TikTok. I don't even do TikTok. I have no idea what your post has to do with TikTok. There is no reason for you to bring transgender people into the discussion.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
9 Jan 23
@NJChicaa Yes you DID. Otherwise why would you have commented in the way you did after the comment you posed to me in reference to my post on TikTok? The two are directly related, otherwise there would have been no reference in THIS post pointing to a "company who provided me with a consequence for offensive speech." Of COURSE that is what you were directly referring to, because without that reference your comment really makes no sense at all. There IS a reason to bring transgenderism into the discussion (and by the way it is my discussion and I can do whatever I want) when the comment you made in this post was related to another post that contained a reference to transgenderism which was, considered by TikTok, a company, as offensive speech. Funny how that all just sort of miraculously comes together, hey? But see, what you sort of did here was redirect (another word for deflect) from the larger point that the company you agree with also disagrees with you, and you did not see fit to have a comment on that part of it.
@porwest (92666)
• United States
9 Jan 23
My post has nothing to do with TikTok, nor do I disagree with your statement. With the exception of people of course. People, individually have no legal recourse for any speech they dislike or disagree with or otherwise deem offensive. I should point out, though, since that is YOUR direct reference in your comment, you may be interested to know that TikTok is a Chinese company. You may ALSO be interested to know that in China, transgenderism is considered legally, a mentail illness, and while I agree with hardly anything China does, I agree with their legal definition of transgenderism as a mental illness.
@LindaOHio (181821)
• United States
10 Jan 23
I'm offended that Carol is offended that she doesn't have the right to be offended. WTH?
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@LindaOHio (181821)
• United States
10 Jan 23
@porwest I think we're all losing it.
@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
I know, right? Me too. This world has completely gone off the deep end. lol
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@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
10 Jan 23
Being offended can become a decision.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
Oh. I think it absolutely is a decision. Especially when it comes to certain things. The funny thing to me is that who is most offended by most things? The ones who a decade ago you would have found a "coexist" sticker on their bumper.
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Jan 23
I can be offended but I can't sue.
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
True. But the point here is that no one is technically in the wrong who offends you.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 Jan 23
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Jan 23
a friend hurt me and i laughed. ha ha ha he laughed too so who's offended....?
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@porwest (92666)
• United States
10 Jan 23
If more people reacted this way, I think the world would actually be a much better place. Sometimes people just need to not take things so seriously and laugh a little.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
11 Jan 23
@porwest correct. laugh a little so as not to stress easily