How to know the guy who i dating deserve to get married
By Mila -zhang
@Mila_0123 (50)
Suzhou, China
January 23, 2023 6:36am CST
Hi, Nice to meet you here . currently I have my problems that trouble me . it's will be great to get your suggestions and I would appreciate it . thank you for reading my text. My case is as below , thank you. I would like to steele down this year .unfortunately, I have no love experience in the past and I don't know how I can better know a guy if we match in this short time to get married. I think it's disaster if get married with the wrong person. so would you pls share your suggestions, thank you . have a good day ~~
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
23 Jan 23
Welcome to myLot. I hope you enjoy the site and the people you find here.
We need more information on the situation, please. How long have you known the young man? Do you like him? Does he like you? Is money important in your culture? If so, does he make a good living? (Will you need to work, too?) If you marry him, will you have your own home or live with his or your parents? Do you have to make up your mind quickly about this situation?
I hope my questions aren't too personal and you won't mind answering them. Thank you.
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@Mila_0123 (50)
• Suzhou, China
23 Jan 23
Thank you for your comments. currently I still looking for by blind date . Sure, money is important in our culture. well I think it's not essential for me . because I would like to create better future together with him in case of his not good situation. For me I more care about his characters and moral standing and which city we will live if get married. I like Suzhou china , I hope Steele down this city . thank you ??????
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
23 Jan 23
@Mila_0123 You're welcome. It sounds like you know what you're looking for, at least.
Look for a young man who makes you smile and laugh. Ask him about his goals in life. Ask if he likes kids.
In my opinion, someone who can make you smile and laugh will be easier to live with and tend to make more understanding partner in life. If he will let you meet any of his friends, ask them what kind of person the young man is and listen carefully to their answers.
Where you live isn't as important as being happy together.
I hope you find someone you can love and want to live with for the rest of your life. Good luck.
@Mila_0123 (50)
• Suzhou, China
23 Jan 23
@DaddyEvil Thank you for your comments. it's helpful for me . have a good day .
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
23 Jan 23
Hello and welcome to myLot.
You need to know first what you value most in a relationship. In a marriage trust is important, but you also have to like the person with whom you want to share the rest of your life. Do not be in a hurry to get married, try to know the guy better first.
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
24 Jan 23
@Mila_0123 You are welcome, take care and good luck to find the right companion for you.
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@Mila_0123 (50)
• Suzhou, China
24 Jan 23
@LadyDuck Thank you and I hope too. ??
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@Mila_0123 (50)
• Suzhou, China
23 Jan 23
Hi Anna , thank you for your comments. it's value suggestion for me who has no love experience . thank you .
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@GoAskAlice (5826)
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23 Jan 23
Hello @Mila_0123 and welcome to myLot. The first thing you should do when you get a chance is to follow the link I have provided to read the site FAQ and Guideline pages so you can become familiar with them.
Links to earning information can also be found at the same place.
I hope you enjoy your time here.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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23 Jan 23
Can you read his hand writing? Can you read his facial features or postures or body languagues (one can generally read others' personality traits somehow.)? How sincere is the guy and if his values in life match yours (this is very important if you want to settle down with someone).
Do you know this well known quotation? "Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction." Antoine de Saint-Exupery
How do your trusted friends or relatives think about this person?
In the end, if you personally don't feel good towards the guy, then don't do it.
Destiny will do the rest.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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24 Jan 23
@Mila_0123 
You know this saying, 'Man plans, God decides'?
I was brought up with this teaching, 'a lucky female will find a good partner in life' - on that note,
- Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity (Seneca)
- Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them (William Arthur Ward)
- If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door (Milton Berle)
- A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty (Winston S. Churchill)
Good luck 
You know this saying, 'Man plans, God decides'?
I was brought up with this teaching, 'a lucky female will find a good partner in life' - on that note,
- Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity (Seneca)
- Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them (William Arthur Ward)
- If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door (Milton Berle)
- A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty (Winston S. Churchill)
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@Mila_0123 (50)
• Suzhou, China
23 Jan 23
Thank you for your wisdom comments. it's important for me . thank you and have a nice day.
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