Another era over for our friends as life moves on

@JudyEv (340150)
Rockingham, Australia
January 27, 2023 8:29pm CST
Vince finished his working life as a bursar/business manager in a school. A bursar friend retired about the same time Vince did and bought a few acres in Ferguson Valley, Western Australia, not too far from where we lived. He and his wife planted an olive grove and eventually were able to bottle some of their own olive oil. We always thought it would be very satisfying to produce something like this, doing everything from go to whoa with your own hands. His wife also became very involved in felt-making and made some very nice garments and hats. Now, however, they have had to sell their dream as the husband is increasingly frail and looking after the olive trees became too much for him. We have just finished the bottle of olive oil that they were kind enough to give us.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
28 Jan 23
I would like so much to taste that olive oil, I wonder how it is the taste. We have a lot of olive oil in Italy and the taste is so different from region to region. I also like the Greek and Spanish olive oil, but not the French olive oil, that has a bitter taste.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv The taste and also consistency can be very different. Also the colour is not the same. The olive oil produced here around the lake is pale yellow. The olive oil from the south of Italy is light green and a lot more dense.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
I can't really differentiate between the different oils. I need to take more notice.
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@1creekgirl (41444)
• United States
28 Jan 23
That's sad about your friend. Life does bring many changes, good and bad.
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@1creekgirl (41444)
• United States
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv Ain't that the truth. God was wise to not let us know the future. That way we rely on Him.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
It does indeed. And the changes are not always what we'd choose for ourselves.
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@shaggin (72141)
• United States
28 Jan 23
Aww that is so nice you got to have a bottle. So very sad they had to sell it. Would have been nice if they could have hired someone to run it for them instead. They may have just enjoyed doing it themselves and didn’t want someone doing it for them might take the joy out of it. Felting is so neat! My daughter had me buy her a felting kit for Christmas.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
I guess it might have been best just to finalise it all while they were well enough to do it.
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@wolfgirl569 (106362)
• Marion, Ohio
28 Jan 23
Sorry they had to sell. I know they have a lot of memories from there
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
That's true. They will have lots of good memories from those days.
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@xFiacre (13034)
• Ireland
28 Jan 23
@JudyEv A life well-lived, pursuing dreams will always be rewarding but we need to roll with the punches and accept our limitations. Bitter sweet.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
Yes, that's exactly right. Nothing lasts forever.
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
28 Jan 23
It's nice that they could do what they loved for awhile . Sooner or later everything comes to an end.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
That's correct. At least they did what they wanted for quite some time.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Jan 23
@JudyEv That is good. Many never get to do what they love.
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@jstory07 (139739)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Jan 23
That is to bad they have to sell. I hope they find a nice place to live.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
The property was a second place. They kept their house in the city.
@Tampa_girl7 (50256)
• United States
28 Jan 23
How sad that they had to sell. The label is pretty.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50256)
• United States
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv it does look lovely.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
The label is of the simple accommodation that they had on the property. They had a lovely view over the olive trees.
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@Fleura (30402)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 23
What a great second career they had and sad is has to come to an end. Old age is no fun.
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@Fleura (30402)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv I'm dreading getting to that stage.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
@Fleura I was going to say 'you do well to dread it' but it's not all bad. But it does come with limitations.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
At least they had a go and made a success of it, but you're right. Old age is not for the faint-hearted as they say.
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• Eugene, Oregon
28 Jan 23
So true that "life moves on." One of my ping pong friends and an instigator of our games lost his wife a little while back. Now he is selling his home & moving to an "independent living" place where two meals per day are provided, along with no yard to keep up. He promises to keep coming back twice a week to play. I hope he does.
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• Eugene, Oregon
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv I hope so, he is one of the nicest guys I have met in many years.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
There is a point where, what used to be fun, becomes hard work. That really sounds a good solution for your friend. Some men have trouble looking after themselves as regards meals and yardwork can become overwhelming. Hopefully he'll continue to play for a while longer.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Jan 23
That’s so sad for your friends. Life can change so quickly.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
30 Jan 23
@JudyEv Very true
@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
Certainly changes can come quickly and we are forced to make decisions.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Jan 23
It's sad they had to sell their dream because he's getting too frail for the work.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Jan 23
@JudyEv I'm sure they will.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
It is sad but hopefully they'll have some wonderful memories of the olive farm.
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@aninditasen (16397)
• Raurkela, India
28 Jan 23
That's very sad indeed. Where are they shifting to? Leaving one home and shifting to another at an old age is really depressing.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
They had retained their home in the city so they were lucky in that respect.
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@aninditasen (16397)
• Raurkela, India
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv That's nice. At least they owned another house to shift into.
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@LindaOHio (178780)
• United States
28 Jan 23
That's very sad when life gets to the point when you can no longer do what you love.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Jan 23
@LindaOHio Me too. I liken it to a grieving process.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
It is sad but it's going to happen to all of us.
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@LindaOHio (178780)
• United States
29 Jan 23
@JudyEv I'm already there. :-(
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@snowy22315 (180805)
• United States
28 Jan 23
That is so sad when people grow old and can't do what they once did. Too bad they couldn't have hired someone to tend to the trees for them. The bottle reminds me a bit of once that I have. It is lemon infused. I almost didn't buy it, as I thought the lemon might not be right for certain dishes, but honestly, you can't tell it's in there.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
I'd had truffle-infused this and that but can never taste anything different.
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@RebeccasFarm (89873)
• Arvada, Colorado
28 Jan 23
Oh dear I am so sorry to hear of the frailty of the husband bless. But they accomplished a lot didn't they Judy.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
Yes, that's true. They worked really hard on the olive farm but now it's time to rest.
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@FourWalls (68082)
• United States
28 Jan 23
I hate how old age gets in the way of things like that. At least they did live a dream.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
They had some really pleasant years bringing their dream to fruition. No-one can take that from them.
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@Juliaacv (50979)
• Canada
28 Jan 23
What a wonderful dream to realize. Although it is sad when we have to give up our passion due to health issues, it was marvelous that after a great career he still fullfilled a dream. I hope that you can find something to do with the bottle as a memento to remember your friend's glory days.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
At least they gave it a go and achieved a great deal apart from successful careers.
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@sallypup (61152)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Jan 23
All the phases of life! I hope your friends find other joys. They've done well. They have much to be proud of and remember.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
That's true. They achieved a lot throughout their life.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
28 Jan 23
We do not know when we too are no more able to stand on our own two feet. Life takes a turn we do not expect will happen that soon. Man proposes, but God disposes. I hope they have a meaningful life for years to come.
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@JudyEv (340150)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Jan 23
My mother always said that 'Man proposes but God disposes'. We are not always in control as much as we think we are.
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