Where The Heart Is.

@Kandae11 (55162)
February 8, 2023 10:03am CST
Have you ever considered leaving your home country to live in another? What would be some of your reasons for wanting to leave? And which country would be your country of choice? I like my homeland and life in the Caribbean, but if l am tempted to leave - then my country of choice would be New Zealand. Why? Apart from the beautiful landscapes and very clean appearance, New Zealand is number 2 on the list of the world's safest countries. Which means- a low violent crime rate, strict gun control laws, no terrorism etc, etc. Of course, my heart will always be in my homeland Guyana. What say you? Pinterest image
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@marguicha (223783)
• Chile
8 Feb 23
I am too old to go elsewhere but I do love some other places. I don´t think about safety reason anymore because I have seen violence everywhere. Besides my country, I love Mexico (specially Ciudad de Mexico). And I love to go for vacations to Aruba.
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@marguicha (223783)
• Chile
8 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I love Mexico and I love Mexican and their culture.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
@marguicha you have visited there l presume. I know Mexican food is very popular in most countries.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
I too do not plan to pack my bags and go elsewhere, but who knows, my mind could be changed. I know you love Aruba.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
8 Feb 23
We had thought to go to live in New Zealand. The process to obtain a permanent VISA to live there was what made us decide to find another destination. So we came to Switzerland and where we live is the safest place I know on earth.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 The big Swiss cities are a lot less safe than this area of Switzerland. I would not go to live in Geneva, Lausanne or Zürich, those are cities I do not consider safe.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
@LadyDuck seems like cities all over the world are not the safest places - where the concentration of people is very high. In the country l live there is quite a bit of crime in the city, but next to nothing in the rural parish where l live.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
Switzerland is listed in the safest countries list. At # 11.
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@shaggin (72241)
• United States
8 Feb 23
New Zealand definitely is gorgeous and sounds amazing with how low the crime is. I’m sure there are negatives to living there though just like every country. I’m not sure where I would go personally. I’d just love to live somewhere warm year round.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
I am happy where l am , but things can change.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
8 Feb 23
Oh many times I have Kandase and have done it for a long many years. I had lived both in Ireland and England for many years outside the US. These days, it would take a good deal more money for me to do so.
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• Arvada, Colorado
10 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I wish you could see where you would like to go then Kandase.
@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
You have? The only two countries out of the Caribbean l have lived and visited would be the U.S and Canada. Ireland is on the 20 safest countries list.
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@Juliaacv (51361)
• Canada
8 Feb 23
At one point in our lives, my hubby was offered a transfer to another country. Neither one of us were keen on leaving Canada, we love our country and all that it has to offer. The economics of moving to that country did not prove to be beneficial to us, so we did not pursue it further. If I had to leave Canada for another country, I would look to Luxumbourg as both my hubby as well as myself, have family that hails from there, either there or the UK. But I really hope to live out my days here in my beloved country of Canada.
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@Juliaacv (51361)
• Canada
8 Feb 23
@Kandae11 I was not aware of that. I know that other countries refer to Canadians as 'nice' people, which is a very broad term. We are easy going for the most part, which is part of the beauty of the people in our country.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
@Juliaacv. Canada is listed 12th.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
Canada is in the top 20 safest countries in the world.
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• United States
8 Feb 23
I've never had any desire to live outside of the US. I do agree though that New Zealand looks absolutely beautiful
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• United States
8 Feb 23
@Kandae11 it certainly is. However I'd love to travel and see other places and maybe stay for a little longer than just a vacation but I don't think I'd want to live permanently anywhere else than here
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
Your heart is definitely in your homeland.
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Feb 23
I spend the first 15 years of my life in Asia and Europe. I now just want to live in the states.
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Every country in Europe. We had a month vacation every year and went to Egypt to see the pyramids and to Africa to see the wild animals.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
You did? Which countries?
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
8 Feb 23
Do not wish to leave my country one bit.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
Your heart is in your homeland.
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@1creekgirl (41747)
• United States
8 Feb 23
I would love to travel and visit other countries, but I like where we live. I would love to have a house on the Atlantic Ocean near Myrtle Beach SC, but I'd want at least ten acres so unless we win a huge lottery, that's not happening!
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
We can always dream , and there are times when those dreams are unexpectedly realised.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 Feb 23
New Zealand is a beautiful place, but I would never choose to leave the USA and live anywhere else.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
8 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Thanks for understanding
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
I understand, certainly.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Feb 23
I can't really imagine living elsewhere. My part of Australia is pretty safe. There are always exceptions of course but I'm happy here.
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@JudyEv (342112)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 That would not surprise me. Compared to some countries, it would be very safe.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
The important thing is being settled and happy. I think Australia is in the top 20 safest places too.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
8 Feb 23
I want to go to another country for a while and see something new. New Zealand sounds like it would be a perfect place to relieve my blood pressure from the stress of the city. City Life has become a poor quality of life for many people with crime and congestion. I think I would like to stay in Paris and London for a few months which were my dream cities.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
It would be wonderful to be able to travel and visit new places - even if it is for a short period. I suppose that is the reason cruising on cruise ships is so popular.
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@thelme55 (77165)
• Germany
8 Feb 23
I left my home country Philippines to live with my German husband in Germany. That was more than 4 decades ago. I didn’t regret my choice. New Zealand is a beautiful country and one of the safest country, too.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
Yes indeed, having a spouse from another country would make one migrate to that country. Germany is also in the 20 safest countries list.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Feb 23
I used to think about moving. But the way the world is these days, too dangerous in my opinion. I will stay at home.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
I agree.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 There are a few parks in my state I want to visit soon. That will probably be the extent of my travel.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
8 Feb 23
I've often entertained the idea of living ex-pat outside the US for a while either on the Atlantic Coast of Ireland or on one of the islands in the Scottish Hebrides. I feel these would be great places to live while giving my all to my writing.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
Ireland is number 3 on the list of the worlds safest countries. So those two are good choices. Perfect to relax and write.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
8 Feb 23
@Kandae11 When I was in the US Military, I spent two-years stationed in South Korea and, while that's not exactly the same a living there due to all the American type stores, etc ... on base, I did spend as much time as I could learning about the culture and the people who lived near the base. I even rented a room in the village for several months to learn more and become better acquainted with the folks. I like to think that came back to the US with a much broader vision of the world.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
8 Feb 23
@DWDavis. Oh yes , you were in the military. That would be a great learning experience indeed.
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@rakski (126055)
• Philippines
9 Feb 23
New Zealand is a pretty place too live. As long as my family is with me, that is my home.
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@rakski (126055)
• Philippines
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
Good to have family around us.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Feb 23
I love America, and would only leave if forced. Should that be the case, I would choose Australia. I've always wanted to see the Land Down Under.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 True.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
That's right. Most persons who live in first world countries would leave only in extreme circumstances, marriage, or simply wanting a change.
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@innertalks (22088)
• Australia
9 Feb 23
My heart is nowhere, not even where I have spent my whole life in Australia. I would not like to move to another country, though, and have to relearn the customs, laws and ways of living too. I have always tried to lift my heart into Heaven, already in my life, rather than plant it down here on the Earth somewhere else.
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@innertalks (22088)
• Australia
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Yes, l just thought l would add another unearthly, or outer worldly, view to it. New Zealand is a sister country to Australia, and l wouldn't mind living there either.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
Yes indeed. My title - Where the heart is - simply means where one prefers to live while on earth. We must live somewhere.
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@Shiva49 (26776)
• Singapore
9 Feb 23
I am from India but resident of Singapore for many years. I was in Indonesia too for five years. I take the positives of all the countries and love the variety that has enriched my life.
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@Shiva49 (26776)
• Singapore
9 Feb 23
@Kandae11 Yes, it is a model country where everything works 24/7. It is totally safe and lively too.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
Singapore is in the list of the top twenty safest countries in the world. I hear it is very clean too.
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@pureme (1526)
9 Feb 23
i am moving out of my country soon to live in another country.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
9 Feb 23
Hope it works out well for you.
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@pureme (1526)
13 Feb 23
@Kandae11 i believe it will. thanks