If you found your Best friends GF Cheating on them would you tell your friend

Oh yes, the best laid schemes o' Mice an' Men... Good old Rob Burns knew it. I guess, I would do the same as you did. Perhaps in a bit more gentle way, like at first I would ask her, what will she do if her BF finds out etc., and then suggest her to stop immediately or to tell, otherwise I'll do it. The alternatives are even worse. If you'd went straight to your friend and tell him, he's cheated he probably wouldn't believe you at first and maybe even begin to suspect, you want to have her yourself.

I would have done the same thing as you did and I would then after the gf told him talk to my friend about it. I think u did a good thing making er confess to it herself...

sometimes its better to mind your own buisness really,, I mean I understand its wrong but i see as if thier not hurting me really only hurting themselves , and besides its thier life and eventully the guilt will get to them if not hurt them,I stay to my ownself, I do not praise upon making someone miserable by doing such things, everyone is differnt and will do differnt things but in my own way, its not my place and would not take a chanece in ruining a friendship let alone giving them a reason to blame it all on me when to begin with it was thier fault!

Oh yes, the best laid schemes o' Mice an' Men... Good old Rob Burns knew it. I guess, I would do the same as you did. Perhaps in a bit more gentle way, like at first I would ask her, what will she do if her BF finds out etc., and then suggest her to stop immediately or to tell, otherwise I'll do it. The alternatives are even worse. If you'd went straight to your friend and tell him, he's cheated he probably wouldn't believe you at first, and maybe even begin to suspect, you want to have her yourself.

NO.I 'll only change my behavior to tell her indirectly.

i dont knoe because in some cases your best friend just might not believe what you have to say or just not want to believe that she could be doing such a thing.

I think I would have went to her and kind of demanded she told him. Then I would have went to him and reminded him how much you value the friendship then suggest to him that maybe he should talk to her because you think shes cheating and you dont want to see him get hurt.

Hello camo. Knowing about some one cheating in this situation really put one in a bad spot. It's a case of darned if you do tell and darned if you don't You are caught between a rock and a hard place and no matter what you do, your friend is going to be mad at you.

Well I wouldn't have said anything did it once same thing they were mad at me saying I broke them up. she would have gotten caught,because what done in the dark will come to the light no matter what

first of all, i would beat the crap out of my so-called friend, and break up wid my gf, and tell dem dat they dey deserve each other, i would never speak to any o them ever again, there is no way, i would wanna have a friend, a backstabber, or a gf who cant keep her pants on, while you are away.

I guess if was in your situation, I would have done the same thing. But if I were not friends with the GF, I would tell my friend to be careful and talk it out with her.

I know in those situations you think you are doing the right thing but it is usually a case of killing the messenger. No one wants to feel like they have been made a fool of and I know being cheated on and having your friend find out before really makes you feel foolish. Also there is that anger when you think that other people might have known for a while and be laughing at you. Either way I would still tell my friend and just have them be mad at me for a bit. I would rather my friend to be angry at me for being honest than have them find out through other means and be angry at me for keeping a secret from them. I know the fact that you know ALL parties involved makes you feel worse but really when someone does wrong like that they have to be prepared to get caught :(

YES. I WILL,AFTERALL HE IS MY FRIEND AND I HAVE TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT HIS WELFARE. I MUST WARN HIM AGAINST ALL ODDS AND SPEAK WHAT IS THE TRUTH,THE REST DECISIONS SHOULD BE LEFT UPON HIM,HE SHOULD THINK ABOUT HOW TO DEAL WITH THE GIRL AFTERALL ITS HIS LIFE AND HE MUST BE WORRIED ABOUT IT TOO.

definitely, no1 should be cheated be it whoever.

This is always a touchy situation. On one hand if you don't tell them and they find out they will be mad at you. If you do tell them they will not believe you and get mad at you. My husband and I talked about this. I personally would want to be told by my friend. My husband thinks if we know about it we should mind our own business. Especially if it was a one time thing. That all it would do would bring up bad feelings.

1st i would like to check truthness. then i would like chat this thing with my close frnd who r close of tat gf also. then i would got some +ve thinking from tat gf then m not goin tell anything to my frnd. but she would goin to do any mad thing then i m goin to tel this thing to my frnd. ya

I would do the same as you did. Afterall he has a right to know but it's best for them to hear it from the horse's mouth (so to speak) rather than a friend. I think you did right to give your best friend one day and tell them that if they didn't do it, you would. Although I do think all the "your just jealous" would kick in, had it been the other way round and you having to tell your best friend.

I would definitely tell him in a manner that I do not hurt his feelings and at the same time not hiding the truth. Or Just give him a faint idea and let him discover the rest. If he finds out on his own, He will believe it more than believing what others say

for me if i find that my bestfriends gf was cheating i will tell my best friends since he is my bestfriend no need for us to hide.

yes i would tell them because i think they have the right to know!!