Quack Doctor: Who Me?!?

@Shavkat (139828)
Philippines
March 15, 2023 10:15pm CST
The visit of my granny's one-day wake was a successful yesterday. You read it right. It is so absurd that her children did this and the neighbours were not pleased with the idea. Speaking of a quack doctor, I was like the one when I arrived there. One of my uncles poked his eye and coughing, a cousin who got infected foot, etc. Despite being a physiotherapist in their eyes, I asked them to consult the right doctors. I was so overwhelmed but thinking it would be the last event being with them. The reason is that my granny is not here anymore. The familial relationship ended officially. By the way, I tried my best to show how polite to them. Despite the bad things they did, my family and I continued to be respectful and understanding. Can you forgive and forget everything? Image Credit: st.depositphotos.com
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@rakski (122314)
• Philippines
16 Mar 23
It is easy to forgive but not forget. As least you show your last respect to your granny as well as to them. You can leave more peacefully now
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I also said to my uncle's wife that this will be the last time to see them.
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@rakski (122314)
• Philippines
19 Mar 23
@Shavkat good for you
@shaggin (72116)
• United States
16 Mar 23
I forgive but I cannot forget. Things really eat at me it can be very tough.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I do agree with you. I am quite bothered when thinking them altogether.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
17 Mar 23
Forgiving others might take time, depending on the severity of the fault that they have done towards me or loved ones they have offended. Especially when those who obviously done what was wrong wouldn't even admit it or ask forgiveness. That's quite a bother to be honest. Then again, if they come around and sincerely ask to be pardoned, forgiving them makes it a bit easier. Then again, like a broken glass, even when you can put all the pieces back together, you can't deny that the damage has been done, so forgetting is entirely different matter altogether. That's why when we forgive, we ought to pray for it. The Lord will always give us the strength to do all things, even to forgive those who others might not even consider forgiving at all.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I must admit that I do not forgive easily. It needs time for me to do so. But then, I cannot forget the bad deeds did to me. Since I am an adult now, I need to brush off the idea of being in such a situation and deal with them in later part. It is unhealthy to dwell in such a situation.
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@rebelann (112780)
• El Paso, Texas
16 Mar 23
Forgiving is easy but it is much harder to forget.
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@rebelann (112780)
• El Paso, Texas
18 Mar 23
I understand that, forgiveness must come from the heart and sometimes the heart is not ready to forgive
@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
For me, it will take time to forgive but cannot forget them.
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@LadyDuck (471335)
• Switzerland
16 Mar 23
I forgive and move on but I never forget.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I agree with you. It is impossible for me to forget, unless if I have Alzheimer's.
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@LadyDuck (471335)
• Switzerland
18 Mar 23
@Shavkat I hope to continue to remember, I do not want to get senile dementia.
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
16 Mar 23
Forgetting is impossible, but I can forgive
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
It is not easy to forget, but we do forgiveness.
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@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Mar 23
I can for give one time but not over and over again.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
I can dig what you are pointing to. Forgiving others again and again is not healthy thing to do.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
16 Mar 23
They say wise people easily forgive. It's not easy always to forgive. I can forgive but never forget .
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
18 Mar 23
It seems like we are all on the same page on this matter.
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