How do you deal with toxic people
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
May 21, 2023 12:41am CST
I met toxic people in my workplace and they are hard to please. I cannot understand their attitudes. They like to be in hot water. Many dislike them and still, they cannot get the point. We can see how they act, how their faces look, and how they raise their voices. They are so annoying but in my case, I do not entertain them. I ignore them and feel they never exist.
There was one toxic employee that I greeted one time. I didn't know that she was labeled as toxic, and yes, my friends were right, she never responded to my greeting and never had looked at who was greeting her. That was a shame. But good news, one time she attacked one employee without knowing that the person was among the officials of the Board of Regents, and she was instantly fired 
. What a big relief people in the university were feasting with joy. She met her Karma 
What about you, how do you deal with toxic people?
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. What a big relief people in the university were feasting with joy. She met her Karma
What about you, how do you deal with toxic people?
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32 responses
@zainkhan121 (859)
• Pakistan
21 May 23
Your post is both amusing and serves as a lesson for toxic individuals. In my personal experience, whenever I've encountered toxic people, I chose not to retaliate but rather let it go and leave the accountability to a higher power, the Almighty God. I've witnessed that such individuals often face severe and unimaginable consequences. This approach, leaving it to God, is the best policy. God is the ultimate dispenser of justice, and all we need to do is have faith.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@zainkhan121, you're so right, we have to leave that toxic environment to God. He does the rest. Those toxic people must pray to be blessed and to change their bad attitudes causing trouble to people who like peace and harmony.
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@astutimeliana723 (4667)
• Indonesia
21 May 23
wow, I'm so happy to hear toxic people get fired. Indeed they do not deserve to be in a good place.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@astutimeliana723 correct hehe that employee deserved the penalty she has no manners and right conduct and she is now jobless.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@astutimeliana723 yes, she is so arrogant and pretender.
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@astutimeliana723 (4667)
• Indonesia
21 May 23
@cacay1 Sad, But that's punishment for her/him. 
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@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
21 May 23
Staying away and ignoring is good if you can do it . . . but I know it's not always possible in a working situation or when you have no choice but to see them all the time. Sometimes there is nothing you can do but deal with them. Oh but it sure is sweet when they are met with their own Karma 
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. . . they will get what is coming to them!!
@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 May 23
I am lucky as I do not have to mix with them. I can shut my door and leave them oustide.
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
22 May 23
@cacay1 They do and they get even more using you
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@jstory07 (139817)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 May 23
@RebeccaFarm That is the best way to handle them.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@RebeccasFarm, very good girl, clap, let us not waste our time and energy with toxic people. if we entertain them, the ore they become hostile.
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
21 May 23
I try to ignore and avoid toxic people.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 May 23
@LeaPea2417 maybe they have high blood pressure or it is really their attitude.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@LeaPea2417, they are hostile, no fear, no shame, so peace loving people like us must stay away from them to avoid head aches
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@Ronrybs , Because I am still working, I can not avoid toxic people even my boss is sometimes toxic, I mean my program head. Sometimes we cannot understand her attitude. She is mostly moody. We just ignored and pretended we didn't sense her mood.
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
21 May 23
I ignore toxic people and sometimes teach them a lesson.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@aninditasen that's right and they won't stop otherwise.
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
22 May 23
@cacay1 Yes, sometimes you have to teach them for they try to harm you for no reason.
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@happylearner (1569)
• Indonesia
21 May 23
I'll of course ignore them.
They don't even deserve my attention.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@happylearner , yes and they can also sense that people tend to stay away or ignore them once they are near hehehe. As if they are like a virus.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@happylearner, that's the best solution to ignore them. They're chaotic.
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@happylearner (1569)
• Indonesia
21 May 23
@cacay1 Yes. It'll just annoy us if we give them attention.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@zhangxueying , correct, sometimes I ride on with my toxic co-workers. And they like to be flattered, gosh, they cannot sense the irony.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@zhangxueying that's the best thing to do to ignore them.
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@zhangxueying (3339)
• China
21 May 23
@cacay1 We always encounter bad people our work and life, but we still need to work and live.
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@AmbiePam (93793)
• United States
21 May 23
I actually bought a book about this topic, and am about halfway through it. Sadly, I didn't buy it to learn how to deal with nasty co-workers, but toxic family members. I'm glad you realize it's not personal, and they'd be awful to anybody who had your job (like you said in your discussion).
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@wolfgirl569, it is also what everyone here is doing by avoiding them.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May 23
@Butterfingers , that is true, ignoring them that they never exist is also the best way.
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@Beestring (14679)
• Hong Kong
21 May 23
The best way is to ignore them. No need to waste precious time dealing with such kind of people.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@Beestring that's right let's better ignore them and let them do the blah blah blah blah without audience.
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@AlwaysClea (7)
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21 May 23
I've met people like this a few times, and every time someone replies to them, they seem to be happy about it, which means their hard work is paying off. By ignoring them, going one step by not fulfilling their wishes..
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May 23
@AlwaysClea, that's good to hear from you hoping that those toxic people need not be given special attention.
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