Are you believe to love at first sight?
By Meli
@astutimeliana723 (4638)
Indonesia
May 26, 2023 5:45pm CST
Hello guys, good morning.
Today I'm going to invite you to discuss "Love at first sight." Are you believe it?
I really don't believe in the term love at first sight, because usually it's just lust. Because this love is usually related to the physical, while a charming physique is not necessarily a good heart and attitude that will make us able to love him.
I can't love someone until I know that person's character, usually the physique later that is important is a good attitude. LOL
What do you think about it?
Today I'm going to invite you to discuss "Love at first sight." Are you believe it?
I really don't believe in the term love at first sight, because usually it's just lust. Because this love is usually related to the physical, while a charming physique is not necessarily a good heart and attitude that will make us able to love him.
I can't love someone until I know that person's character, usually the physique later that is important is a good attitude. LOL
What do you think about it?10 people like this
11 responses
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 May 23
@astutimeliana723 It would be very rare.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
Yes Maybe, But I think that's rarely.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
28 May 23
@astutimeliana723 It didn't work out. Perhaps we met in the wrong time.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
28 May 23
Does love last? I don't think it's just temporary puppy love.1 person likes this
@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
27 May 23
No, I don't. I believe in lust at first site and that can turn into love with a lot of work and commitment.
The physical body changes with age and "love" based on the body won't keep someone with you as you get older.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
27 May 23
@astutimeliana723 Yes, exactly. I might notice them but just go on with my business.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
@DaddyEvil Yes, just saying "Oh he/she is handsome/beautiful" but there is no feeling of liking let alone love.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
Yes, I am agree with you too. 
I'm not easy to fall in love, if a handsome person passes in front of me, it's normal Nothing special. LOL
I'm not easy to fall in love, if a handsome person passes in front of me, it's normal Nothing special. LOL 2 people like this
@YrNemo (20255)
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27 May 23
I fall in love at first sight all the time, but I leave my emotion at that stage and move on (alone), so that I can continue fall in love at first sight or first hearing again and again. 
You are right re: love/lust. Guess the Creator of this universe makes things so intentionally, or there will be no or very few new generations on this earth if everyone is cautious and wise. (I have so many young friends in the USA, UK, Australia, et, who are still single at 50+, they are not interested in having a partner at all. Career + money + assess + security + internet etc are good enough for them.)
You are right re: love/lust. Guess the Creator of this universe makes things so intentionally, or there will be no or very few new generations on this earth if everyone is cautious and wise. (I have so many young friends in the USA, UK, Australia, et, who are still single at 50+, they are not interested in having a partner at all. Career + money + assess + security + internet etc are good enough for them.)1 person likes this
@YrNemo (20255)
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27 May 23
@astutimeliana723 Among my cousins, there are plenty who have decided not to marry or having a relationship. They are all very level headed people, quite highly educated too. (Therefore, our world does rely a bit on those silly cases which confuse love/lust and just promptly produce babies, even if they quickly divorce/breakup soon later. )
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
@YrNemo If they don't marry, they don't have children. Then what about their old days? Who do they live and live with?
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
Yes, sometimes there are people who are not interested in getting married. I also wonder how they don't feel lonely. How do they channel biological needs.1 person likes this
@thebos (5960)
• Kisumu, Kenya
28 May 23
@astutimeliana723 mostly people think that attraction is love
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
28 May 23
@thebos Yes you are right. But for me that's very different.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
Yes, like does not mean love, right?
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 May 23
@astutimeliana723 No like does not mean love.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
28 May 23
Yes, that's right. I am agree with you.
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@zainkhan121 (859)
• Pakistan
27 May 23
I totally agree with you on this one. Love at first sight seems more like "lust at first sight" to me as well. It's easy to be attracted to someone based on their looks, but true love goes way beyond that. It's about connecting on a deeper level and getting to know each other's personalities, values, and attitudes.
Looks can change over time, but a strong foundation of love built on shared values and compatibility is what lasts. So, taking the time to understand someone's character before diving into love is definitely a wise approach.
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@astutimeliana723 (4638)
• Indonesia
28 May 23
Yes I am agree with you. That's good advice from you. Thank you very much.
@spiritedgal (94)
• Indonesia
27 May 23
I don't believe that it's love. I think it's just a physical attraction, as we are only attracted to their physical appearance.
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