Is 30 years old too old to get married for women?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being unmarried at the age of thirty. I know women who felt pressured to get married because of their age, and they turned out miserable. I am single, and happy. I absolutely want to get married someday, but I have not yet met the man God wants me to spend the rest of my life with. As for your grandmother: let her know you love her, and respect her thoughts. However, you don't feel like you are in a place in life where you are ready to settle down and get married. Say you hope she can respect your decision, because it IS your decision, and you need to do what is best for you.

When I got married at 23, many of my friends felt that it was too early. But I was sure that I am ready. There is no right age to get married. You should get married when you feel that you are ready for it. Readiness is more important than age.

As far as I know, there is no age for marriage. But here in India, I believe we should marry at the age of 25 years so that our kids may get settled till we get retired. It's hard when you get retired and your kids are still struggling in life. But if you don't then simply ask your grandmother that you still want some time to get prepared for marriage.

You are never to old to get married. Get married only when you find the right person for you.

I wasn't aware there was an age that was "too old" to get married if you want and can find an agreeable spouse. You can say, "Dearest grandmother, I still have many things I want to do before I think about marriage. There is no rush." and see if that will placate her. Do you know why your grandmother feels you need to get married right away? Edit to add: Would you feel it too rude of me to ask what country you're from? Knowing that might help us understand you and your grandmother.

Was your grandmother raised with traditions like match making? I'm thinking of Fiddler on the Roof. Be gente but firm: tell your grandmother that you haven't met your prince yet.

At exactly 30 years old, I got married. But I think I understood your grandma's worries for women as they pass the age of 30, getting pregnant may become challenging and at times with complications. I do not think it is too late for me as a man. I was just at the right time and mature enough to settle down and know the responsibilities of a married man. Of course, your level of health will determine this. Yet, if you claim that you are not prepared, do not push yourself, of course, as I believe that anything hurried may not make you happy in the end.

I believe 30 years old can be ripe for marrying unless you are matured enough to take responsibilities seriously. There is no clear age for marrying, except when you want to have kids, your biological clock will speak to it. Keep thinking and praying for it, when the right time comes, it will be all worth it.

I wish I would have waited til I was 30 to get married.

Do not listen to your grand mother. That was an old wife belief. Women now can decide at which age they want to get married and some prefer not to get married at all. Do what you feel is good for you.

It depends on the culture I guess but I see nothing wrong with not getting married early. I got married when I was 33. It should not be a rush to get married. Not should it be a rush to have kids. You do it when you feel you are ready and when you meet the right person and it feels right. Rushing into marriage may not end well.

LOL. Mostly people here in my country settle at the age of 32 or 33. I have seen successful people getting married at the age of 40 even. If you're physically, mentally and financially fit, you can get married at any age.

You can get married whenever you want to get married. Not only that you shouldn't be concerned if it hurts her feelings...

As an Indonesian person, I understand how it feels. Even though I'm younger than you, people around me keep asking, "When are you going to get married?" That question puts pressure on me because I'm not ready yet for marriage at the moment. Maybe you can tell your grandmother gently, explaining that you're not ready for marriage yet.

I don`t believe in such things. You must get married when found the one you love to be in your life because Marriage life is not easy to maintain if it don`t comes from your heart

Of course it is nothing wrong for you to think so. I think the most important is to find the right one. If you just get married because you are afraid it will be too old for a woman, then it is so risky. Marrying to a wrong one is a huge mistake in life.

Marriage is too important for someone else to make that decision for you. Don't be pressured until you meet the one you want to marry. I know it's different in various countries, but my granddaughter got married a year ago and she was 32.

I got married when l was 26 . The marriage did not last - he was not the right person for me.

she is only for future generations because in women's reproductive cycle tend to become weak after 35 so only she is forcing you. nothing else. She also loves you so he cares for you as she passed through your life span.

May be tell her the reason of not being married