Can you easily move on after a heartbreak?
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 9, 2023 12:43am CST
There are people who cannot easily move on. They are always carrying the pain in their hearts. I cannot blame them because I do not know how they were hurt and the experiences they have with the love of their lives.Others committed suicide because they cannot face the reality of being left by someone dear to their hearts. Will they be right? For me, it depends on the victims of love.
In my case, I can easily move on. I need to think deeply and decide what to do next rather than make my life worse. Nothing happens to my life if I keep on tolerating my miseries. But I have to be smart next time to avoid the same hurt.
What about you? Thanks for reading, caring is sharing.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
9 Jul 23
It's good I too can cry and move on forever
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 23
@Laurakemunto that must we do to move on and start all over again. 
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
9 Jul 23
Yes, thankfully I did move on from an ex boyfriend otherwise I would not have met my husband.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@LeaPea2417 , that was so sweet.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Jul 23
@LeaPea2417 wow so sweet follows after love gone.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
9 Jul 23
Every heartbreak is a lesson learned...or not. I got off of the dating treadmill years ago and have not looked back.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 23
@Starmaiden, that's good to know you have not looked back. There's no reason to revive the injury.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 23
@Laurakemunto, we need to take a break and wait for the right time.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
9 Jul 23
it's what is best for us I too decided to take a break and am hoping to meet a good person
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
9 Jul 23
Same with me I move on just move on if the person left me it's not about me but them and their choices which I respect totally
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 23
@Laurakemunto, we need to move on and accept the reality. At first, it's hard but time helps heal a broken heart.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Jul 23
@Laurakemunto that's true, we have to move on for our own good.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
9 Jul 23
@cacay1 yes time is everything when we trust it then we heal and move forward life must continue
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
10 Jul 23
Moving on is unique to each individual. There are people who love truly, and when they are put in situations like these, the agony is magnified because they have invested so much in the relationship. That is why it is said that while loving someone, you should love yourself first before loving others, since if you do not love yourself and rely on others, you will be the first to be hurt when things go wrong.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
9 Jul 23
I can easily move on.
Who says I have a heart?
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Jul 23
Easy peasy...I dump them in the trash where they belong. Not another thought about them.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
12 Jul 23
I have not dated in many years, I have just been so busy with family it's hard to find time. And I am very self conscious these days.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jul 23
@chrissbergstrom, Hi Chris, how's your bro? Keep my regard to him.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jul 23
@chrissbergstrom thanks, but what happens to him?
@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
13 Jul 23
@cacay1 he's doing a little better I wrote some new discussions that give a update on him
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@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
9 Jul 23
It really hurts to be rejected by someone you love, but I just turn to Jesus because His love is always there.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Jul 23
@misunderstood_zombie that's right, God heals our broken heart through prayers.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Jul 23
@misunderstood_zombie , yes , so true.It hurts to the bone.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jul 23
@Butterfingers that's right it's no use keeping the hurt. Better accept and move on.
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@summerscent (335)
• Philippines
10 Jul 23
I can say that I can move on fast. I also understand other people that need extra time for this.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Jul 23
@summerscent, that's a very good attitude can move on fast. It's not good to keep on injecting the pain. Enough is enough.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Jul 23
@summerscent 
you are very gid at decision -making. Hoping others can also easily move on. Life must go on.
you are very gid at decision -making. Hoping others can also easily move on. Life must go on.1 person likes this
@summerscent (335)
• Philippines
13 Jul 23
@cacay1 I've been down before, and bad experiences made me realize two things. First, there are other people whose problems are far more difficult. Second, the feelings will all pass; though you have to feel your pain at the moment, it will pass. Time will pass even if you don't like it to.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Jul 23
@allknowing, time heals a broken heart.
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