The pain must have been unbearable for this person.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (37182)
July 25, 2023 10:45pm CST
Where I live, we have 3 interstates, and 2 of them lace through part of the city. In one particular spot, the traffic can get really wild and hectic, and in rush hours, many locals try to avoid that spot if possible.
For some reason, there have been quite a few people over time that use the busiest overpass (leads into a very busy section of the city) for a place to commit suicide. There is a walkway on the overpass on one side. Usually, the only people you see on that overpass is the occasional homeless person walking from one side to another, to change their position.
Last night, it happened again. Some poor desperate soul decided to jump down in the 70mph traffic to end their suffering. Unfortunately, no one can stop that fast, even if the person had survived the jump--and several cars hit the person. The whole thing was beyond terrible, state police had to shut down all entrances and exits there, as well as the overpass. People had to sit in their cars for hours and hours.
One of my friends was not far behind one of the vehicles that hit the jumper. She is one of the calmest people I know--a retired nurse practitioner, and it shook her too her core. Yes, she helped until the emergency vehicles came. She, along with many others, called 911. She said over the years she had cared for people in just about every aspect--from wrecks, accidents, illnesses, amputations, etc. All the bad stuff. And this one just really hurt so deep. To know someone needed help that badly and didn't get help, for whatever reason, to be that desperate...just cuts to the core.
This has happened at this spot over and over. And of course, in other cities there are places that it happens as well. It hurts to even think about.
Our country needs better mental health available to it's citizens.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
26 Jul 23
What a sad and tragic story. I agree. Mental health is gravely overlooked as a serious health problem. People need more than medication to help them cope.
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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26 Jul 23
It really isn't addressed as it should be, and many who need help never get it. The dancing around we do to get in to regular doctors now in a timely manner is bad enough, I cannot imagine how backed up the mental health professionals are now. It's just tragic to think about.
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@much2say (55537)
• Los Angeles, California
26 Jul 23
It is so sad . . . and it seems like we hear of this more and more . In the next county not too far, there is this particular overpass "spot" where people have jumped . . . but I think there is nothing below (but it's certainly high enough ). I think folks have been trying to get them put up barriers for preventing that, but truth is it is the people who hurt so much who need help, to not want to ever get to that point.
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@much2say (55537)
• Los Angeles, California
31 Jul 23
@MarieCoyle I know covid seems to have made matters worse, but I don't know if we would have come to the same point with this, with or without covid. Yes, our country is in trouble with so many people needing mental help - and unfortunately we don't seem to be making headway. Thank goodness for people like you who worked on those hotlines . . . it's good that at least that is available but there needs to be so much more - oh g MUCH more.
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@much2say (55537)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Aug 23
@MarieCoyle Covid sure did a number on everyone. Right - anger issues were up the roof - as well as depression, fear, etc. And we're all still feeling it - everyday I see/hear of instances that make me think that people have lost their minds completely. I think of myself as a pretty level headed person, but even I feel that Covid shook my emotions up. And how do we fix this . . . there are layers upon layers of complexity in how people/the planet is the way it is today .
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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31 Jul 23
@much2say
I completely agree with you, we need to do much, much more, and quickly. I think Covid did make things quite a bit worse. The anger had lots of time to build up. People didn't want to stay home. I don't recall seeing so many people with explosive tempers, fighting everywhere, yelling at store clerks and blaming teachers for everything when their kids do the wrong things. Maybe I am wrong, but I do think Covid played a big part in the anger build-up.
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@allknowing (136004)
• India
6 Aug 23
When they reach that stage I do not think any logic is used. Despair and logic does not go hand in hand
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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6 Aug 23
@allknowing
Hopefully, what they go through can help others, as well.
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@JESSY3236 (19912)
• United States
8 Aug 23
That's sad. Yeah everyone needs help.
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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9 Aug 23
I have read more than once that nearly everyone, at some point in their life, would benefit by speaking with a counselor. But yet the stigma is still there, and it should be long gone by this time.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Aug 23
Totally agree. And mental illness needs to be talked about more. Many are suffering in silence. And I agree, the pain was unbearable to get to the point of taking your life. A rabbit hole I cannot go down right now. But my heart goes out to everyone suffering. I hope they can hold on for a better day.
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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7 Aug 23
My main purpose of posting this, and some of my past posts, is to hopefully bring more awareness to mental issues and the need to have more people available for this. I hope they can hold on, too. Big hug, Carol.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
7 Aug 23
@MarieCoyle Good for you Marie. Talking can save lives. If they only realized tomorrow is a new day with new chances of hope. Dustin was too young to realize this.
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@MarieCoyle (37182)
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7 Aug 23
@CarolDM
It is every bit as important as just regular medical problems. The sooner society and everyone realizes this, the better. It's way, way past time to fix this.
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