Friendship Red Flag

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How do you know if a person/ friend is a red flag? Do you always listen to your intuition? When I was a university student, a lot of my classmates have vices. I shun away from those who would encourage me to booze even though they know I don't drink. That is a major turn-off to me. Last year, an ex-friend called me just to tell me that she was invited to a birthday party and the guests gossiped about this certain woman who has a filthy house. She was so eager to know if the gossip were true. Thus she contacted me. My answer was, " You know what, this woman has two toddlers. A three-year-old son who is handicapped and another child who is only one year old. It is not easy to take care of two toddlers. But honestly, I should have told her " Mind your business".