Closure
@allknowing (135362)
India
August 31, 2023 9:41pm CST
he closure I am talking about is when there is a break up with any one. - be it your own partner, your family member or friends.
When that happens with me I will never make up unless the matter is taken up, thrashed out, apologies exchange where necessary and the matter closed to start reconnecting.
But not so with the present generation I notice They will wait for a while and start reconnecting without much ado. How can they do that?
What is your modus operandi?
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@RebeccasFarm (89741)
• Arvada, Colorado
1 Sep 23
Yes I had that before, them acting like nothing ever happened.
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@allknowing (135362)
• India
1 Sep 23
I just cannot accept it until the situation is redressed
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
1 Sep 23
My mother and I had a strained relationship. She criticized everything about me and I still don't know why. I tried and tried to please her and get her to talk about her 'problem' with me but to no avail. I was at her hospital bedside when she had her stroke and she pushed me away. 3 days later she passed on. Whatever unfinished business there is between us, the majority of it is hers.
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@allknowing (135362)
• India
1 Sep 23
That is a one sided blockage I could say You wanted to clear the air but she did not allow it I feel for you.
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@allknowing (135362)
• India
1 Sep 23
It is normally those who have hurt initiate the reconnect
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@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
1 Sep 23
I am quite like you but these days I feel I am getting mature LOL and I try to start reconnecting after sometime but that does not happen often
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@allknowing (135362)
• India
1 Sep 23
There ae some situations that can be forgotten but not all.
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