Can you afford to beg for love?

By Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (83505)

Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

September 5, 2023 7:15am CST

It might be a silly question but it's a true to life happening. Many are doing this to save one's reputation if the girl is pregnant, but the girl also doesn't realize that begging for love doesn't solve her problem. If the guy refuses to save her reputation, the implication for that love doesn't exist only lust

. Even if you're married and learned your husband or wife betrayed you and wanted to leave you, don't beg. You don't deserve to be treated that way. Time comes happiness knocks at your door beyond your expectations. So, let us never beg for love. I never beg for love no matter how in love am I to the person. I just tell him I love you goodbye

How about you?

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@Raine38 (12250)

• United States

5 Sep 23

Nah, I will not beg for love. The other party will end up with the upper hand, and basically the one who begged will always be hurting for as long as they remain together. In every relationship, sometimes, love isn't just enough.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@Raine38 , that will surely be the consequence of begging for love. The other party will suffer until the end of time unless decide to quit and leave for good.

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@much2say (55669)

• Los Angeles, California

5 Sep 23

Begging for love is desperation. Real love needs no convincing. I wouldn't beg for love . . . it's almost like trying to force someone to love me back - it doesn't work that way.

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@much2say (55669)

• Los Angeles, California

6 Sep 23

@cacay1 Exactly. It could never be real love. Begging is rather pathetic, isn't it?

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

7 Sep 23

yeah more than a pathetic one. Why force someone to love us when he is not the only human on earth

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@much2say, it is the same as asking for a second chance that will never happen. Begging for love means a total mess as days go by for the other party will continue to abuse.

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@RebeccasFarm (89870)

• Arvada, Colorado

5 Sep 23

Huh? I had to think back to know and remember if I ever begged for love. The answer is no.

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@RebeccasFarm (89870)

• Arvada, Colorado

6 Sep 23

@cacay1 Indeed but many do this sadly.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@RebeccasFarm , it will be shameful, belittling the self, what a pride, no pride.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

7 Sep 23

@RebeccasFarm that is true, and they are not only kneeling while begging, I saw others crawling to give a dramatize effect but the guy never changed his mind.

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@LadyDuck (471456)

• Switzerland

5 Sep 23

I would have never done and my husband knew very well since day one that I would have not tolerated a "cheater".

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@LadyDuck (471456)

• Switzerland

6 Sep 23

@cacay1 There are situations that I cannot accpt.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@LadyDuck , no-one would ever accept a situation that breaks a heart and loses trust and love.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@LadyDuck , that was a very good condition set for your husband.

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@Kandae11 (55034)

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5 Sep 23

Like the saying goes : " Lots of other fish in the sea". I won't demean myself in that way.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@Kandae11 , that is right, never demean the self. The other party will continue to abuse.

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5 Sep 23

I would never beg for love. If you don't love me it's fine I'm sure I'll find one who will reciprocate.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

you are right, there is always someone better, the right match for us, so let us never beg for love.

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@AmbiePam (92865)

• United States

5 Sep 23

No, I would never beg. It’s demeaning, and I have too much self respect to ever think about doing that.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

5 Sep 23

@AmbiePam yes demeaning but there are people begging for love by kneeling which is insane. It hurts but the hurt shall pass by time as a great healer of a broken heart.

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@writerjo (2540)

• India

5 Sep 23

@cacay1 Great to hear from you that you never beg for love

I agree your statement about that we should never beg for love Stay bold always

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@writerjo (2540)

• India

6 Sep 23

Professor @cacay1

OMG I beg you, I kindly request you to love me

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

it's killing me

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@writerjo, what a shame saying to the guy, please love me, I beg you, please love me gosh.

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@jstory07 (139720)

• Roseburg, Oregon

6 Sep 23

If you have to beg for love than that love would not be real.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@jstory07, perfectly said Judy, the love is not real if forces the other party to love the first. It is unfair. there is no love chemistry.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@jstory07, perfectly said Judy, the love is not real if forces the other party to love the first. It is unfair. there is no love chemistry.

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@Tampa_girl7 (50273)

• United States

6 Sep 23

I wouldn’t beg for love . I’d want someone to genuinely love me.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

7 Sep 23

@Tampa_girl7, it is degrading if beg for love. I will also never beg for love.

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@sol_cee (38219)

• Philippines

6 Sep 23

I feel sorry for those who beg for love. I think it’s not something they want to do but

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

but the belly exceeds the limit lol. Begging is not a solution but acceptance of the reality.

@RubyHawk (99405)

• Atlanta, Georgia

6 Sep 23

No, I’ve never begged for anything and never;will.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@RubyHawk, we have a pride and shame. Why beg if sense the other party is cold as ice?

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

7 Sep 23

@RubyHawk , yes, we have to be smart in our decision. It is not good to beg for love the person will continue to abuse.

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@RubyHawk (99405)

• Atlanta, Georgia

6 Sep 23

@cacay1 That’s exactly what I think. If you have to beg, it isn’t worth having.

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@db20747 (43440)

• Washington, District Of Columbia

5 Sep 23

It's a sad sight to see a man or woman beg for love. There is desperation. The person might stay and treat you not as well because they think you are desperate. There is always your dignity. Hold on to your dignity no matter what

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@db20747, The family, friends, and neighbors will mock the person begging for love. It is not a good solution because love never grows if done that way begging as if like a loser.

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Mildred Tabitha

@mildredtabitha (16126)

• Nairobi, Kenya

5 Sep 23

Yeah it's true. We should never beg for love. I have ever done it once in my last relationship but the guy was clearly not ready for marriage so I stopped and we just remained friends. So I will never beg again.

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@cacay1 (83505)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

6 Sep 23

@mildredtabitha, we have pride, and no matter how we cry for our lungs, the other party will never be convinced. Love is love no matter and in the absence of love, never beg to be loved What a shame,

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