How Do You Deal With Friends Who Have No Idea?

United States
September 6, 2023 4:44pm CST
what they're talking about? There's a musician who actually admits she never watched the news until 2016, and she tries to be some expert now, having no idea of basic definitions. I will sometimes correct her in a way that's nice and whatever, despite me telling myself not to. She contributes vocals in my studio, a good singer, and besides being late, she does the job very well, but I just can't seem to allow stuff like "Chinese are buying all our land is Communist" slide when it's the very opposite. "Actually, it's free-enterprise, but I understand the sellers' point of view who has the freedom to sell to whoever they want". I probably do that to ease any differences, but will use 'freedom' to squash her argument regardless of what she says, usually, "All I know is life is getting harder and harder" but I'm never the one who brings current events up, local news, crime, etc.. And then things that are interesting -- I could say almost anything, and it's like I said nothing, and on to her 20-something year old kids who get catfished for the 7th time. I feel bad and hate seeing her cry but she's been a horrible example, but, she can sing, but when she starts ranting about black people, I get pretty uncomfortable and wish she'd stop ONLY mentioning bad drivers who are black.
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@RebeccasFarm (89870)
• Arvada, Colorado
7 Sep 23
She sounds quite a handful to deal with, but you are great to be able to. Well if I had friends, I suppose I would have to figure that out but for now, no worries dealing with anyone. I mean in the real, not online
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• United States
7 Sep 23
She's more of a co-worker. We never hang out when we're not recording. But I also don't deal with anyone.. they're only going to let me down eventually, anyway.
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• Arvada, Colorado
7 Sep 23
@PinkFloydFan I understand why you feel that way.
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@RasmaSandra (79929)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 Sep 23
Not to upset anyone and not to say the wrong things I guess she should just concentrate her life around her singing,
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• United States
7 Sep 23
:)
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 Sep 23
I don’t believe I could call a person like that a friend. In fact I know I couldn’t.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 Sep 23
@PinkFloydFan Co workers are another thing. You must get along with them if possible.
• United States
7 Sep 23
well, we never hang out when we're not working, so I guess we're more co-workers than friends.
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@Ada2021 (105)
• China
7 Sep 23
As a Chinese, I am really happy your have positive idea about the news. If everybody could take attention on how to be better person, how to make their own life well, the world will be better and better. We can't control what other people think, and it's best to have fun every day right now.
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