Question: Do you think Santa should give more presents to poor children than to rich children?

@Shavkat (140102)
Philippines
September 23, 2023 5:18am CST
I was having my class with one of my students online today. All of a sudden, she asked me this question. I told her that children around the world should have equal presents from the Father of Christmas. Then she was insisting that rich children should not have more presents because they have everything in life. Instead, the poor ones should. I explained to her that every child should be treated equally. How will you respond to this kid's query?
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
23 Sep 23
Genuinely can't think of an answer I agree that father christmas should treat kids equally for sure. But, that being said, the rich kids would be getting stuff from their parents whereas the poor kids may not. Interesting question and not as simple as it first appears in my opinion
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I was caught off guard when she asked me this question. The panic mode did not pull me down, and I answered the most sensible statements in my mind.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
23 Sep 23
You are right, every child should be treated equally.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I have sentiments about this matter. When my siblings and I were kids, our father's siblings treated us unequally by giving us fewer presents or not at all as compared to our cousins. Of course, we were kids, and this mattered to us before. As we grew older, my siblings and I accepted the fact that they really did not like us.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat - I know what you mean. I have seen that happening in many families.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@LadyDuck Now, we do not need to deal with them anymore. We ended the relationship before the pandemic. What is the use of being connected with them?
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
24 Sep 23
My Santa does that each year This time I will be having 56 of them
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat The 'Santa' act comes in different forms and yours is one way I reach out in many ways too but this party is what I always look forward to This will be my nineteenth this year
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
This is a priceless act that I want to do in the future. The only thing that sticks in my mind is transferring my skills to others, which I did in Tajikistan. Now, they are still using what I have taught them until now, which is to treat people with disabilities (PWD).
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@allknowing I agree. Being Santa can be done in many forms. I have not tried to join a volunteer acts with this kind of activity yet.
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@DaddyEvil (137461)
• United States
24 Sep 23
The same way you did. Children are the same so should be treated the same.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I agree. Unfortunately, it does not happen in the real world. Perhaps she had seen this act within her family circles or community.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@DaddyEvil I assumed that she compared herself to her friends or classmates. In China, it is their custom to give lucky envelopes to their young ones, and the amount of money depends on how much is given.
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@DaddyEvil (137461)
• United States
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat Yeah, I know... Kids with parents who can afford more usually give more to their kids at birthdays and Christmas.
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@wolfgirl569 (107859)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Sep 23
The same as you
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
It is nice that we are on the same page.
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@Beestring (14672)
• Hong Kong
23 Sep 23
I think every child should be treated equally. There are charities which give presents to poor kids.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I also think so. It was so heartbreaking to see young ones who cannot have presents. I am sure different organizations or charities are planning to give something for these poor kids, especially the orphans.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
24 Sep 23
You did well my friend. That is a tough one to try to teach. It shows how adults should be careful how they act around kids. They very observant and seem to know more about life at that young age than many adults.
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• Mojave, California
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat I notice that too, world does not let kids be kids like when I was a kid. I am not sure your age, but in my day we roamed free and did not come home till dark. Kids these days cannot go anywhere in this country, not in a urban setting anyway. They get driven to school, we always walked, to dangerous here now.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@crossbones27 in my country, it depends if the child is studying in private or public schools. Most parents drive their kiddies to private schools. During my time, we walk and commute to schools.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I was also surprised when she asked me this particular questions. Nowadays, kiddies think like adults.
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
23 Sep 23
I think I have lost all hope for Christmas.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
Why not, Rebecca? I am sure we can still have a great Christmas. We still have time to make it great. We have more time to work on it.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Sep 23
All children should get equal amount of presents. Santa does not play favors.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
You are so right on this. I can still remember how my father's siblings treated us before. We were given an unequal amount of presents as compared to our cousins during our childhood years. My biological parents were to the rescue and gave us more presents, not to hate relatives. But then, we can still feel their hate for us, and they are even not going to give us presents to show how cruel they were before.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@jstory07 This is always what I think at a young age. Before the pandemic, we decided to end the familial relationship with them. Lately, they are trying to reach out. But I don't entertain it now.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat That was not right. Equal presents is the way it should be.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
23 Sep 23
How old was the child? My response would be appropriate for the child's age and the level of their belief in Santa.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
@DWDavis I also think so. If she doesn't believe, then it would be another story.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
She was a 7-year-old girl. I agree that it depends on a child's age. She still believes in Santa.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
24 Sep 23
@Shavkat For a child that young who still believes in Santa, I think your response was spot on.
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@cpefley (1926)
• San Jose, California
24 Sep 23
I agree with you, but I do think poorer kids are more appreciative of gifts than richer kids. I think a good tradition for children who receive more than others is to take one of their own presents to donate to a child in need, but Father Christmas should treat every child equally.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
For some rich kids, they are so open-minded.They tend to ask their parents to share their blessings to less fortunate ones.
@porwest (92403)
• United States
12 Oct 23
I would explain to them that since Santa is mommy and daddy, if mommy and daddy are poor, their presents will be dependent on what they can afford. lol
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
16 Oct 23
I also say to some teens who realized that Santa is just a myth.
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• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I'd say the same thing. Children must be treated fairly.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
25 Sep 23
It is a sad thing that some people are still doing it. They cannot even play a fair game with the kids.
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@Gilljane (2902)
• Sutton, England
23 Sep 23
I would say the same as you
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
23 Sep 23
I cannot think of any other alibis.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Sep 23
Only the good kids will get gifts.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
24 Sep 23
I also mentioned this with her.
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