I Am the Villain: What?!?

@Shavkat (140177)
Philippines
October 18, 2023 6:23pm CST
Reflecting on oneself is not a bad thing.Since my parents passed away, I need to replace them in carrying out their parenting responsibilities.At some point, my younger sister can support me with this matter.But then, she is living and working in another city.I need to be the villain in the family alone.I am saying it literally.I can see myself in my old man as a fault-finder in a nice way.Thus, I am a fault-finder, which makes me the villain in the house.   Are you also a villain in your family? Image Credit: images.squarespace-cdn.com
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (90741)
• Arvada, Colorado
19 Oct 23
I am, but no one talks to me know. Oh well.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
21 Oct 23
Once I had a full-blown episode with my siblings, they will surely not going to talk to me for a few days.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (90741)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Oct 23
@Shavkat I am sorry, I know how this is. When I was in charge of my siblings, it was sometimes me the bad guy.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
@RebeccasFarm I am used to it. My mom used to be at my back when it happened.
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Mr.Yang
@jefferson126 (3362)
• Shenzhen, China
19 Oct 23
Occasionally,i play that role as well,in particular,i will find my son's faults,for example,his room is messy,he don't clean up floor,he dont tidy up textbooks.All of it upset him,maybe he think i am villain,but one day he will understand all the things i did is helpful for him.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
I think he knows it. He just doesn't want to do it. Most Chinese young learners keep on having a common excuse, which is that he or she is doing a lot of homework.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52226)
• Philippines
19 Oct 23
why do you need to be the villian in the family? there must be something more than that for you to decide to be the villian. I think i knew a bit of your history way back. nothing wrong with being alone. j
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
I think you misinterpret the concern. I had mentioned it in a good way. I am a villain in their eyes because I am correcting them. They might get angry in the process, but it should be done.
Anna
@LadyDuck (472386)
• Switzerland
19 Oct 23
OH NO!! I have always been the sweet one, my husband had the role of villain.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
21 Oct 23
I wondered why they think that I am the villain in the family. I have this baby face that can deceive them.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
21 Oct 23
@LadyDuck It is indeed what I promised to my heavenly parents.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (472386)
• Switzerland
21 Oct 23
@Shavkat Surely it is because you are now the one who tries to set rules.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (138952)
• United States
19 Oct 23
Not if I can help it... Pretty is 35, so is old enough that I shouldn't say anything, if I don't like something she's doing.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
I am sure some adults are childish and do stupid things in life. I can interfere and call their attention, unless they are my immediate family only. I do not mind the relatives and friends. It is their own business, and I should not be saying anything about their wrongdoings.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (138952)
• United States
22 Oct 23
@Shavkat Yeah, I understand. Sometimes Pretty ignores the bills and I have to say something to her about them... She's used to me paying for everything but I'm not the one with a job anymore... It can be annoying to get overdue bills.
Ruby Hawk
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
19 Oct 23
I’m alone so I can’t play the villain.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
@RubyHawk I can feel you. If I were in your shoes, I would not have visitors, but I need to be informed first.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
21 Oct 23
Since I am not married, I may say that I am alone. But then, I chose to live with my younger brother. He needs to be guided in having his family. It sounds weird, but I need to.
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Ruby Hawk
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
21 Oct 23
@Shavkat It’s yours and your brothers choice to live as you please. I like my privacy. I love having visitors but then I’m ready for them to go home.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (138925)
• India
20 Oct 23
All of us have played that role always point out mistakes of others in the family (lol)
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Anindita Sengupta
@aninditasen (16541)
• Raurkela, India
19 Oct 23
No, I am not the villain of my family and hate people who keep finding fault. My mother-in-law was like that and so everyone disliked her, me too.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
22 Oct 23
I am sure that I am not like your mother-in-law, who can be a monster for being a fault-finder. My patience is so long that it cannot reach the threshold of blurting out certain issues in the family.
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Anindita Sengupta
@aninditasen (16541)
• Raurkela, India
22 Oct 23
@Shavkat Yes, my mother-in-law was always at her butts to accuse people falsely.