I learnt something new!

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I had never heard of a booty call guy until I read the post by @NJChicaa! I had to look it up; I found that “A booty call is traditionally known as being quite literally a call (or text) made by someone to another with a sexual request.” Well that seemed clear enough. But then I actually read the instructions on WikiHow on 'How to make a booty call'. And after the first steps of ‘meet someone at a casual place such as a party’ and ‘flirt and make light conversation’ it then goes on to say ‘Initiate the booty call. Text them. Keep it short and straightforward. Invite them over or ask if you can come over. Do not meet in a public space. For example: ‘Hey! What are you up to? Want to come over?’ Now that is not so clear, because a message like that does not include a sexual request, just suggests a friendly get-together. And suddenly a light dawned. Because in the past I had a lot of male friends (and still have most of them). And we would often meet up for a drink and a chat. But now I’m wondering – when we got together, did they think it was ‘a booty call’? All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2023.