Life just isn't fair sometimes

@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
February 14, 2024 7:26pm CST
I am been feeling sad this evening, My daughter's friend just found out she has stage 4 cancer and there is nothing more they can do for her. Her cancer is aggressive and spreading quickly. She is such a good person, it breaks my heart. She is 35 years old and a mother of three. The kids are14, 13 and 4. My heart hurts so badly for her and her family. There are no words.
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@FourWalls (68888)
• United States
15 Feb
I’m so sorry. Wish they could figure out why younger and younger people are getting stricken with this dreadful disease.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
So much money goes into cancer research yet there are still no much unknown.
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@FourWalls (68888)
• United States
15 Feb
@Happy2BeMe — I know. They have made great strides in some types of cancer, but they take one step forward with one and two steps back with another.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
@FourWalls Yes it does seem that way.
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@rebelann (112959)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb
I'm so sorry your friend is in such dire circumstances, I pray she will not suffer.
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@rebelann (112959)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Feb
Sadly
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you so much. That is all we can hope for now.
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@kaylachan (71518)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Feb
Just be there for her, and make the best of the time you have. Be thankful for every minute she has left on this Earth.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you. We will do that.
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@Juliaacv (51452)
• Canada
15 Feb
Oh that is rough-I feel for you, you have such a big, caring heart. Try to be there for your daughter and the kids, and make sure that she can spend the time and energy with her friend while she is still here, that is all that she can do, try to make some memories.
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@Juliaacv (51452)
• Canada
15 Feb
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you. It is rough.
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@LadyDuck (471968)
• Switzerland
15 Feb
I am so sorry for your daughter's friend, she is so young and what will her kids do without her? Life is cruel.
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@LadyDuck (471968)
• Switzerland
15 Feb
@Happy2BeMe They are all too young to lose their Mom, particularly the 4 year old, poor kid!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
@LadyDuck Yes they are. It is so sad.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
My heart breaks for the children. They are so young to lose their mom.
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
15 Feb
That's very sad indeed. The children are a big concern.
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
16 Feb
@Happy2BeMe That's one satisfaction that they have a close family.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
16 Feb
@aninditasen yes for sure
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Yes they are. She has a close family but it is sad that they will grown up without their mom.
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@maclanis (2406)
• Belgium
15 Feb
That is horrible news. Life is unfair... I'm sorry for you, your daughter, her friend and her family.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you so much
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@RebeccasFarm (90295)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Feb
I am sorry..a friends bf has cancer too only 20 something
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
16 Feb
It is heartbreaking especially when they are so young.
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@wolfgirl569 (107859)
• Marion, Ohio
15 Feb
So sorry. That is too young to have that.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
I know it just breaks my heart.
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• United States
15 Feb
That is so sad to hear and devastating for her and her family. I will keep them in my thoughts and prayers.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you so much.
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@noni1959 (10104)
• United States
15 Feb
It's so heartbreaking when anyone has cancer but just seems so unfair a young mom with three kids won't get to see them grow into adulthood.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
I know that is what breaks my heart. They are so close and she is an awesome mom.
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@JudyEv (341701)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Feb
That is just so, so sad. How awful for her. And the youngest is only 4. Certainly it does really unfair. I'm so sorry but really - I have no words either.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
I know it breaks my heart that the little one will never really know her mom. She will have memories as she gets older but she will remember very little from being 4.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
15 Feb
That is so horrible, I'm so sorry you & them are are dealing with this pain, there's no words to comfort some 1 in a time like this, it's so sad.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
Thank you. I am just heartbroken for her and her family.
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@apsmine9 (362)
14 Mar
What were the symptoms? And have they taken a second opinion? I don't know. Most of the time, I don't rely on a doctor's diagnosis unless I've taken a second opinion.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Mar
She has been to many different doctors and specialists across the country.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
16 Mar
@apsmine9 not at all. She is actually trying that now. One of her friends recommended it.
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@apsmine9 (362)
15 Mar
@Happy2BeMe Hypnotherapy? they say, when nothing works, not even naturopathy, try hypnotherapy. i donno if I'm sounding weird.
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@jstory07 (139779)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
That is so sad. I hope she has family that will be there for her.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Feb
She has a very close family so they will be there for her.