Life is Not Easy
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
Philippines
March 16, 2024 8:28pm CST
Some young ones tend to get married so soon. They are not thinking about life after marriage. Despite being educated by their elders that marriage is not like a bed of roses, That is why some of them separated right after being married for a few years. Some of them will realize that it is not easy to have this kind of life.
What are your thoughts about it?
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7 responses
@zhangxueying (3339)
• China
17 Mar
Yes, life after marriage is not easy, we cannot take responsibility for this marriage, and many people cannot live happily together. So the divorce rate in our country is now 50%. Fortunately, we can get divorced and choose another person to get married and have children
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Mar
I also heard about this. Not only in your country, but it also happens in other countries. It was so easy to file a divorce case. In my country, we do not have this. It is possible to file an annulment case, but it will take years before it will be granted.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Apr
It is true that before getting married, a person should give it serious thought. Some people base it on how they feel. When they are in love, they leap into it without considering the consequences they might face later on and believe they can conquer the world. However, I believe that one should eventually determine whether or not they are truly into it. While some people truly do find the love of their lives, others would rather remain single. Even though they might not have a happily ever after, their marriage will be blessed if they both married when they were ready and mature enough.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Mar
Marriage was never in my list after I graduated from college and I have no regrets for staying unmarried. Marriage is like. getting into business. One must be prepared with a capital, a working snd revolving fund to keep it going and to be able to sustain it.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Mar
I can feel your concern. I am still single and open to having so-called singlehood. I had seen some people close to me who got separated for getting married so early.
I always believed in the saying that most of our old folks utter to us: “Ang pag-aasawa ay hindi katulad ng mainit na kanin na kapag isinubo mo at napaso ka ay puwede mong iluwa.” (Marriage is not like hot rice that when you take a bite and burn yourself, you can spit it out).
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
25 Mar
@florelway I hope their thinking will be changed into a good sense.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Mar
@Shavkat Absolutely correct and most are getting into it. Too much passion sometimes has negative effects as it derails the mind into thinking better.
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@2ndchances24 (9290)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
17 Mar
I have been married 3 times & my 3rd 1 I'm
STILL married to after 37 yrs, my 1st 2 I didn't
stay long with them they lasted 4 yrs each.
I tried to stay married to them but after 4 yrs
I seen it wasn't what I wanted in life so I left
my 1st 1 had a thing about beating me, my
2nd 1 was more into things that wasn't good.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
17 Mar
I think the most important thing is that you found the right one. I am sure some women would have the same situation. Unlike in my country, some married women cannot just leave their husbands easily. For the reason that we do not have a divorce system here.
