Arguement with a old friend,i am regreting.
By Mr.Yang
@jefferson126 (3314)
Shenzhen, China
May 10, 2024 3:14am CST
Today i was chatting to a old friend about certain things,at the beginning,we were chatting happily,but later,we had different opinion on one thing,the worse is she misunderstood my meaning,i don't know which word of mine irritated she,she became a bit upset when i insisted on my opinion.Subsequently,she began argue with me.Usually i can control my temper,but today i lost temper,we argued with one another,the argument end up with our unhappy emotion.Some hours later,i begin regretting,Initially,i should control myself,she was a nice and kind friend,i knew her for 8years.It isn't worth arguing to break our friendship,actually,arguement is meaningless but hurt.I don't know whether she will get angry at me,don't know whether we still can be friend.Wish she can forget unhappiness and we can still be friend.
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@pitsipeahie (5011)
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10 May
It's understandable to have disagreements sometimes. Apologizing and expressing your desire to maintain the friendship is a great start. Just let her know you value your friendship and hope to move past the disagreement. She'll appreciate the gesture most probably.
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@jefferson126 (3314)
• Shenzhen, China
11 May
thanks for suggestion,I will give a kind gesture,but not sure whether she will accept,wish everything will be ok between us,
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@Beestring (14675)
• Hong Kong
10 May
Maybe you can give her a call explaining that you were a bit out of control. Since she is a nice and kind person and you've known each other for 8 years, I think you two can still be friends.
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@jefferson126 (3314)
• Shenzhen, China
11 May
yes,i will call her some days later,for the moment,maybe she still get angry.So i will wait some days.thanks for advices.
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@popciclecold (39461)
• United States
10 May
Wow, I hate to hear that, perhaps you all can work it out. That happened to me and a friend and I was trying to explain what I meant, she would not hear me no matter how hard I tried. That was two years ago, we haven't spoken since.
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@jefferson126 (3314)
• Shenzhen, China
11 May
I am worrying maybe we haven't spoken ever since,maybe she never contact me hereafter.I would try best to make up with she,but i don't know whether she will accept me again.Anyway,try my best,then let it be.
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@popciclecold (39461)
• United States
11 May
@jefferson126 That's all you can do. I kept trying to explain my side to my friend, but she wouldn't hear me. I hate it ended like that, I have no regrets. She got hung by her tongue.
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@jefferson126 (3314)
• Shenzhen, China
13 May
@popciclecold ,sth once happened,would be irreparable.we have no idea just let it be.
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@jefferson126 (3314)
• Shenzhen, China
14 May
I am unsure whether we can maintain friendships,after days,i will try get in touch with her,but don't know whether she dismiss my message.
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@grenery8 (11064)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
14 May
@jefferson126 you can try and see it from there. fingers crossed
