wasted efforts
@princessmarie (1082)
Philippines
June 9, 2024 8:59pm CST
sometimes we put to much efforts onto somethings that people never appreciate. they invalidated our feelings and emotions towards those things.
they see us as a threat to them and sometime they tell people stories behind our backs. our efforts are wasted and never appreciated.
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6 responses
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
10 Jun
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling unappreciated and invalidated. It can be really tough when others don't see or understand the effort you put into things. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to remember that your worth is not defined by others' perceptions.
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@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Thank you for validating my feelings it really means a lot to me.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
11 Jun
@princessmarie I'm glad my words could bring you some comfort, princessmarie. It's important to remember that you are valued and your feelings matter. Keep taking care of yourself and know that there are people who appreciate you.
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@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Thank you for validating my feelings it really means a lot to me.
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@zhangxueying (3339)
• China
10 Jun
Sometimes it takes some courage to stick to one's own ideas
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@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Yes, but sometimes even if we want to stick with our own ideas or theirs there are still things and thoughts that they wouldn't agree on it.
@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Thank you, and still I am dealing with those right now.
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@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Thanks. But as much as I want to stay away from them they are still my team. And as a team leader it is hard to deal with different attitudes and perspective in life.
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@judithml (405)
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10 Jun
I understand how tough it can be when we work hard on something, but people don't appreciate it. It hurts even more when they don't see our efforts as valuable and may even say bad things about us behind our backs. It's like our hard work is wasted, and it feels really bad. But we shouldn't let others' opinions bring us down. Our worth isn't based on what they think. Let's keep doing our best and believe in ourselves, no matter what others say.
@princessmarie (1082)
• Philippines
11 Jun
Thank you! Sometimes people will judge us with our ideas and things in mind. And still even saying thank you is very hard for them to say.
