Another Heavenly Birthday
By RasmaSandra
@RasmaSandra (77609)
Daytona Beach, Florida
July 19, 2024 3:28pm CST
Today would have been my husband Martin's 73 birthday. During this time I have learned some truths, You never forget but as each year passes you learn to deal with it. It is nice to have the memories. I have a chair in front of my closet opposite the computer chair I sit in. Whenever anyone like my friend Nick comes upstairs and sits in the chair it creaks with the weight. This afternoon at a bit of a down moment the chair creaked and I was glad for the company because right away the heaviness lifted.
My evening is also taken care of. I discovered an old series on YouTube that I had not paid much attention to when it was on TV. However, now I find it enjoyable to watch Burke’s Law. I love the murder mysteries and how they are solved. It is amusing to see all the old actors and Dom de Luise is a regular. So while there are episodes I can watch I am enjoying it. For those who have never seen this series, I recommend watching some episodes.
The photo is a poetic meme I created
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@AmbiePam (88834)
• United States
19 Jul
@RasmaSandra That makes me tear up myself thinking about it.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jul
@AmbiePam and if I can get it together I will watch some of my home movies this weekend, You cannot imagine how it makes me feel to hear this voice,
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@MarieCoyle (34016)
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19 Jul
@RasmaSandra
How wonderful that you have home movies of him to watch, and to be able to hear his voice. I would be so happy to have that of some of my loved ones who have passed. I am sure it's heart wrenching, I am glad you do have good memories of him.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jul
@Kandae11 that was just it there was no one I could see but I knew my husband had come in spirit to comfort me, That frustrates me I so wish he could materialize if only for a moment, One of my cats Freddie was able to see him a while back cats have that talent,
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Jul
@just4him no you can find quite a few episodes on YouTube of Burke's Law you can watch for free,
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@Deepizzaguy (99643)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
19 Jul
I am sorry to learn that today would have been your late husband birthday today.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@Deepizzaguy that is the way in life the birthdays come and we remember them
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@LindaOHio (170715)
• United States
20 Jul
A lovely meme. I'm glad you have such good memories. Happy Heavenly Birthday to Martin. I don't know if I could handle my husband's passing as well as you have handled your husband's passing. Try and have a good weekend.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@LindaOHio I hope you had a good weekend
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@LindaOHio (170715)
• United States
22 Jul
@RasmaSandra Very quiet. Nothing going on.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@grenery8 the many memories help a lot
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@grenery8 (7248)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
22 Jul
@RasmaSandra i am glad that you have them.
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@GardenGerty (159754)
• United States
20 Jul
We are very blessed to have our good memories.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@GardenGerty having memories is the best way to get by
@popciclecold (37904)
• United States
19 Jul
I know how you feel. Sometimes, my cat Dennis just stares into space and I wonder if he sees my husband. Happy you got the comfort.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@popciclecold it is interesting that our cat Sid who is with his Papa now was so close to him, I always thought it was a male bonding thing, Now my cat Freddie has seen him in spirit and is always overjoyed when he sees him again and when I hear the happy meows I know Martin is with me in spirit
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@popciclecold (37904)
• United States
21 Jul
@RasmaSandra I am happy you have that comfort.
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@RebeccasFarm (88351)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Jul
Hello Sandra..Happy BDay to your dear Martin in heaven RIP
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
Thank you @RebeccasFarm just a quiet day for me and my memories
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@jstory07 both the memories and my home movies help greatly
@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@Juliaacv it helps so much to have those memories
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Jul
Your husband's Birthday, that's something nice to remember:) Burke's Law, I've never watched that series.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@kobesbuddy I think that you would enjoy those episodes if you like to see the old stars check it out on YouTube
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@kobesbuddy (78889)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jul
@RasmaSandra We don't have television at this time.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@Ronrybs I loved all the episodes I saw on YouTube
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@angelitovillegas (1340)
• Angeles City, Philippines
20 Jul
He may not be with you physically but his memories and legacy will forever be Reminisced and celebrated in your heart and his loved ones. Happy birthday in heaven!
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@snowy22315 that is how it is life has to go on but the memories help
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@kaylachan (65344)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jul
It's always good to have fond memories to look back on.
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@RasmaSandra (77609)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jul
@JudyEv by now I have learned to pick up all the signals
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