I wish they’d make up their minds

@JudyEv (340139)
Rockingham, Australia
August 14, 2024 10:18pm CST
Most of my friends here know that my husband, Vince, has had heart surgery. There also seemed to be an issue with a lesion on one lung. Several health professionals saw the X-rays and scans and thought that it probably wasn’t much to worry about. So we’ve been sailing blissfully along, telling everyone he’s fine, which he is, sort of. But now the ‘lung lady’, as we’ve taken to calling her, has rung and highly recommended a biopsy. If they find anything, they’d remove the offending part immediately. There is a history of various cancers in the family which had an impact on the decision to do a biopsy. So now we’re back to the waiting game. The photo shows Vince having his heart stolen by a Shetland foal. He still has the pink coat.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Aug
It is a wise move to have it biopsied to determine its true nature, and early detection can help stop it from getting worse. I sincerely hope there will not be any concerns following the biopsy. Enjoy your time together while you are still in the waiting game.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks for your kind words. It is almost too small to biopsy so if it is malignant, it should be easy to remove it.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Aug
Yes, @JudyEv, I can imagine that, but it is good to have a check on it this early to eliminate any concerns.
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@sallypup (61150)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Aug
That photo is super cute, Vince is very photogenic! You two are going through a stressful time and I'm sorry for that.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thnks for the kind words. We were feeling reassured that the spot wasn't important but it's okay. We'll know soon what is next on our plates.
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@marguicha (223077)
• Chile
15 Aug
Biopsies can be of a great help when doctors want a diagnosis. Better be safe than sorry.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Yes, that's for sure. There has been a few occurences of cancer in his family.
@RebeccasFarm (89873)
• Arvada, Colorado
15 Aug
I am sorry to hear this..yes biopsy is needed most definitely. I hope its nothing Judy but what a worry. My son recently had a biopsy and it was negative, but he is not well, and I am not sure if they are 100% you know. I know what you mean.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks. Certainly a biopsy will put our minds at rest. I hope your son gets good news soon.
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@jstory07 (139723)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Aug
I hope everything goes good for Vince. I will pray for the two of you.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks very much. Your prayers will be much appreciated.
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16 Aug
Sorry to read about the hardship you guys are facing. I hope the reports come out all clean....yes definitely an assurance is always better. In my experience, I would recommend getting biopsy done twice from different places just so you know its 100%. The safer the better. Wish all goes well.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug
Thanks for your good wishes. It will be good when the biopsy is all over.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Aug
@Pinochino Thanks very much. Your prayers will be much appreciated. . I'll post again when we have more news.
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17 Aug
@JudyEv hope it all goes well, keep us posted. Will pray
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@AmbiePam (92778)
• United States
16 Aug
I’m glad they’re looking at it closer just to be safe. This way it won’t be a wonder in the back of your mind. Although, I would have been feeling pretty good about it too if that had been the first reaction I got.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug
We thought we were home-free but apparently not. Best to have it sorted now while it's so small.
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• China
15 Aug
The waiting game must be torture for you ! Hope the biopsy result is benign !
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thank you. It was a bit of a blow at first but now we're reconciled to just waiting for whatever happens next.
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@xstitcher (32489)
• Petaluma, California
18 Aug
Doctors of different types can sure give us the run-around. I hope all turns out well.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Aug
Thanks for the good wishes. We believe that basically all the doctors we see have our best interests at heart.
@wolfgirl569 (106362)
• Marion, Ohio
15 Aug
Hope they do it soon so you can know what is happening
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
It's ten days till his appointment but that is just a meeting. Hopefully the biopsy will be scheduled soon after that.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Aug
I hope the biopsy is non-cancerous. I love the picture. The pony would steal my heart too.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Aug
@JudyEv You're welcome.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks, Valerie. We're hoping for the best.
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@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
15 Aug
It is better to play it safe and go by expert opinion. I hope all is well.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thank you. Yes, best to have the lesion checked out. Then we'll know what we're dealing with.
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@LindaOHio (178780)
• United States
15 Aug
I'm glad that they are deciding on the side of caution. Praying that everything goes well for him. How is he feeling otherwise? How about you? That's a great picture. Try and have a good day.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks, Linda. He feels fine and we're both doing okay. I guess I'm a bit anxious. It's always the waiting that gets you down.
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@LindaOHio (178780)
• United States
15 Aug
@JudyEv You're welcome. Yes, I totally understand about the waiting. I hope everything goes well for him.
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@grenery8 (10717)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
17 Aug
i like this shade of pink; nice choice of your husband. i can only join you in your disappointment (not fair, i must say) and support you, hoping the doctor is being just a doctor, relying on theory more.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Aug
Thanks for the kind words. Vince bought the coat in Thailand in about 1998. It was the only one in his size. It has faded quite a bit over the years.
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@grenery8 (10717)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
20 Aug
@JudyEv welcome. thailand, that's cool.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50256)
• United States
15 Aug
The waiting game is not fun. I pray that the biopsy goes well.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks, Marie. Hopefully whatever it is will be benign or removed if it is malignant.
@xFiacre (13033)
• Ireland
15 Aug
@judyev I’m sure Vince isn’t thrilled about more treatment after surgery so recently. I do hope all goes well.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks. Hopefully it won't be too big a deal. We're keeping the hospital bed for the moment! lol
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@TheHorse (218918)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Aug
Awesome photo. I saw it before reading and thought "a good man." I want to see him healed soon.
@Dena91 (16634)
• United States
16 Aug
It is scary when someone tells you we want a biopsy...then you wait. Praying for a good outcome for Vince.
@MarieCoyle (37561)
16 Aug
I hope if he has to have a biopsy it is all clear with no complications. The waiting game is not fun. What a beautiful picture, Judy!
@Beestring (14556)
• Hong Kong
15 Aug
Hope everything goes well with Vince.
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@JudyEv (340139)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug
Thanks very much. Hopefully another few months and we'll be able to move on again.
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