Bittersweet Moments
By Curlann
@annierose (21570)
Philippines
August 20, 2024 4:30am CST
It's my birthday today, but only a handful of people I know are aware of it. While I know I should be filled with joy and gratitude, there's a heaviness in my heart that I can't shake off. We're still waiting for any news on the fiancé visa we've applied for, and the silence is starting to weigh on me. Adding to this, my fiancé didn’t remember to wish me a happy birthday. But I can't blame him. He just underwent surgery and is still in the midst of a slow recovery. He’s been battling fevers and persistent coughing from the tube they had to place in his throat. Every step he takes is slow and cautious, and he has to be careful with any physical exertion due to the six incisions they made on him.
He knows that August is my birth month, but today, the exact day of my birthday, slipped his mind. It stings, but I remind myself that he’s dealing with so much right now, which is far more than I could imagine. So, instead of dwelling on my own sadness, I choose to be understanding and patient, knowing that his health and well-being are what truly matter.
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@2ndchances24 (9860)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
20 Aug
Happy Birthday, I hope he gets to feeling better soon
sounds like he has a long recovering to deal with which
I know it's not easy to recover from bad health issues.
I have had my fair share of health issues that struck
me out of the blue & I'm still trying to recover from after
& over a yr now, but I'm a lot better than I was a yr ago.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
20 Aug
Thank you, Gayle! Your birthday wishes mean a lot to me. I'm really hoping he starts feeling better soon too. It’s been a tough journey for him. I’m so sorry to hear about your own health struggles, but it’s inspiring to hear that you’ve made progress over the past year. Recovery can be such a long and challenging road, but it sounds like you’re staying strong and positive. Wishing you continued healing and strength. Thanks again for your kind words!
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
21 Aug
@2ndchances24 hat’s wonderful news, Gayle! I’m so glad to hear that your doctor is seeing such positive progress. I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed for good news on those blood tests. It’s clear that your faith and strength have been guiding you through this tough time, and I admire that so much.
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@2ndchances24 (9860)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
20 Aug
@annierose your very welcome, 
I went to the Dr this morn &
had a blood test & the Dr was happy to see how well I've been doing
she's going to see if she can take me off some of the meds I'm on
I'll know more in a few days from what comes back with the blood test.
I have had a long road to get through & the best thing I knew to do
is keep a open door to Gods words that has helped me through it all.
I went to the Dr this morn &
had a blood test & the Dr was happy to see how well I've been doing
she's going to see if she can take me off some of the meds I'm on
I'll know more in a few days from what comes back with the blood test.
I have had a long road to get through & the best thing I knew to do
is keep a open door to Gods words that has helped me through it all.1 person likes this
@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
23 Aug
Thank you so much @grenery8! Maybe we are all like that when it comes to the people that we love.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
31 Aug
@grenery8 Thanks for sharing that! It’s funny how we can be so eager about these things, especially when we’re younger. But in the end, it’s the thought and the gesture that truly matter. Better late than never, right? 
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@grenery8 (13051)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Aug
@annierose i agree. once my friend in high school congratulated me but gave me a gift 2 weeks later; i was on the edge back then.
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@BelleStarr (61155)
• United States
25 Aug
Happy belated birthday. I hope your fiance is better soon.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
25 Aug
Thank you Belle! Yes, he is trying to move because he needs to condition himself for work soon.
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@almostoveryou (4816)
• Philippines
24 Aug
I'm glad you chose to be more understanding of the situation even if it's your birthday. It's a sign of maturity. I hope you have a great year ahead and I hope you encounter some moments that may take out the sadness.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
25 Aug
Hi Macy, thank you so much for your kind words.Your encouragement means a lot. I’m hopeful that this year will bring some joy and memorable moments. Thanks again for your warm wishes!
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@almostoveryou (4816)
• Philippines
30 Aug
@annierose You are very welcome. Have a good weekend. It's about to rain here in Pasig.
Have a good weekend. It's about to rain here in Pasig.1 person likes this
@arunima25 (88824)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug
Belated happy birthday. I wish you a year full of good health and happiness. I wish you luck with your fiance visa so that you can meet him soon. It must be hurting. But happy to know that you are taking it so well with maturity and sensitivity. Your fiance is a lucky one.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
31 Aug
Thank you so much, @arunima25! Your kind words mean a lot to me. It’s definitely been a challenging time, but I’m staying hopeful and taking things one day at a time. I appreciate your good wishes, and I’m looking forward to the day we can finally be together.
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@arunima25 (88824)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug
@annierose It will be soon...I just hope and pray. Take care
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
1 Sep
@arunima25 Thank you, Arunima! Your prayers and positive thoughts mean the world to me. I’m holding onto hope and trusting that everything will fall into place soon. Take care too!
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@CuriousGab (3292)
• India
20 Aug
Wish you a very happy birthday @annierose.
You are an understanding soul.Just give yourself a treat.
Eat something you like,buy yourself a gift,wear a beautiful dress and do whatever you like.
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
21 Aug
Thank you so much, Jerr. Your kind words really warmed my heart. I think you're right! Your suggestion to focus on what I enjoy is exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks for reminding me to take care of myself too. Your birthday wishes mean a lot to me!
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@annierose (21570)
• Philippines
20 Aug
Thank you so much, Amber. Your words really mean a lot right now. I know he’s going through so much, and you're right, he's probably just trying to get through the day. I appreciate your kindness and understanding. I’m sure he’ll make it up to me when he’s feeling better. Thanks again for the birthday wishes!
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