Got mad with the message of my mother
@luisga814 (7140)
Quezon City, Philippines
August 24, 2024 7:07pm CST
After my hospitalization the other night. I've asked the presence of my mother even last night that my heart continues to burn but not that much.
The answer was "you can do it, no one will die now! Your siblings needs my help here specially your sister has no husband and still single!"
The case that I'm trying to understand it is the house of my mother is only 50 kilometers away. And no need for a plane flight. It will only one bus ride.
The case also is my sister is already 45 years old, my brother is 40 years old. Anyone of them can assist my 72 year old mother to send into my place.
Yes, I'm doing all my best not to die because of my family. I just need the physical and moral support from my mother and my sister and my brother.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
25 Aug
I'm really sorry you're going through this, especially without the support you need. It's tough when family is close by but feels far away. I'm glad you're staying strong, though, and doing your best for yourself and your loved ones. I hope they realize how much their support would mean to you. Hang in there, and take care of yourself.
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@luisga814 (7140)
• Quezon City, Philippines
25 Aug
Thanks. I'm taking care of myself. It's sometimes. Most of the times, I'm stressed because it's 9 days already and still no work
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
31 Aug
@luisga814 It’s understandable to feel stressed, especially when waiting for something as important as work. Just remember to take things one day at a time and keep taking care of yourself. Your perseverance will pay off, and something will come your way soon.
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@luisga814 (7140)
• Quezon City, Philippines
31 Aug
@annierose I appreciate fro the explanation. Just only mad for the decision of my mother as she's always in favor to my sister
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@pitsipeahie (5015)
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25 Aug
I understand that its tough when you need your family and they can’t be there, but at 72, your mom has her own obligations and limitations. As adults, we have to manage our expectations and seek support from others when our immediate family can’t always be there. Stay strong and take care of yourself. I hope you feel better soon! It’s challenging when your family can’t be there, but sometimes we have to lean on others or ourselves. Wishing you a quick recovery!
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@pitsipeahie (5015)
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25 Aug
@luisga814 Whatever the reason, it’s beside the point. The main thing is, don't expect and save yourself from hurt or frustration. If they’re available to help, that’s great, but if not, it’s something you can’t force or oblige. Sometimes even close family can’t always provide the support you’re looking for - that's the sad truth. 
It’s important to find other ways to cope and seek help when needed.
It’s important to find other ways to cope and seek help when needed.1 person likes this
@luisga814 (7140)
• Quezon City, Philippines
25 Aug
@pitsipeahie Yes, that's the sad truth.
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@luisga814 (7140)
• Quezon City, Philippines
25 Aug
Thanks for understanding. I totally got your point. However, when my mother is here, she will just stay here for about a day or two. The reason is, my sister needs my mother to take the laundry. When my mother is here, we don't allow her to take the laundry
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@LindaOHio (178225)
• United States
25 Aug
I'm sorry you're not getting any support.
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@luisga814 (7140)
• Quezon City, Philippines
25 Aug
I totally accepted it that I didn't get help even physically support because of her age.
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