Pumpkin's Rant of the Day: what time is lunch?

United Kingdom
August 25, 2024 6:21am CST
Hello to you all. This is a bit of a silly rant today. Lots of serious things going on, but I don't want to talk about those things. Today, we're meant to be visiting my parents-in-law. My husband made the arrangements with his mum. I'd been nagging at him to contact his parents for a few weeks. I think he only called when he did because I told him I'm not going to have any free weekends for a while. Anyway, husband told me it was OK for us to visit his parents on Sunday (that's today). I asked if he'd arranged a time. He said, "after lunch." He then waffled on about whatever the reason was for them saying after lunch. He did not, however, offer any time. I don't know what 'after lunch' means. I don't always have my lunch at the same time each day. I don't know what time my in-laws have lunch. If I'm arranging things with someone, I'll give a time if I can. Even if it's not an exact time, I'll try not to he vague. I might say that I'll be somewhere after work, but people I say that to will know the time I finish work. So I don't know what time we're going over. It's just after midday now. I'm guessing we'll be going soon (another word that doesn't mean anything). In my family, we have a unit of time that we called a 'granddad', named after my dad! That can be any amount of time between 2 minutes and 6 months. If someone is coming to me, I don't bother too much about the time. As long as I'm home and I have an idea as to when to put the kettle on! When I need to get myself somewhere, I prefer to know/for the other party to know the time I'm expected. How do you feel about vague timings?
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@Orson_Kart (6600)
• United Kingdom
25 Aug
I think families are like that. More formal affairs definitely need a specific time. I wouldn’t arrive until after 2pm at the earliest to give them time to have lunch and clear the dishes away. If you had been invited for evening dinner then you could leave it until a bit later. A 3pm cuppa sounds like what you should aim for. Also depends how far you have to travel. I love the ‘granddad’ time. Very typical of some people.
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• United Kingdom
25 Aug
We set off at 2pm. It's not very far to go. We were just going over for a catch-up. I'm sure the in-laws wouldn't have minded if we got there earlier.
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@LindaOHio (171927)
• United States
26 Aug
I can't live in a vague universe. I'm too anal for that. I have to know times and dates. Have a good week.
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