A Child is Sizing Me Up: What?!?

@Shavkat (140177)
Philippines
September 22, 2024 6:33pm CST
I started my morning class by making a 10-year-old girl cry during the class online. The story goes like this. We were having the class when she was making a face that looked like she wanted to swallow me as a whole. In short, she is sizing me up, and the mother seems so overconfident of her child. Since I woke up on the wrong side and was not patient enough to handle this scenario today. I gave her a BIG lesson. I asked her to define all the key words in her lesson and make a sentence for each word. Does it sound like torture? In her mind, I am the evil one. Regardless, I showed her how to be polite and practice the word respect. Am I the evil one? Image Credit: classroomclipart.com
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@rakski (128471)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I think you made a good lesson for her
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
As expected, they gave me a low evaluation. I do not mind it. Whenever I can feel that a student is a "maldito" or "maldita," I will let him or her learn a big lesson. At least I had done something right for him or her, even if they failed me. I am so immune to this kind of scenario.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
@rakski You said it right. That is why I gave her a big blow while she's with her mother.
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@rakski (128471)
• Philippines
23 Sep
@Shavkat they think too much highly of themselves
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@Deepizzaguy (105326)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
23 Sep
You did the right thing since students need to be corrected by the teacher.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I also think the same thing. It is best to let her know who is in charge in the class. And it is not her to control me.
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@Deepizzaguy (105326)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
23 Sep
@Shavkat That s true since you are doing in rea life and a sitcom or cartoon.
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@popciclecold (39718)
• United States
23 Sep
Can you imagine what would have happened if you hadn't taken control. I'd hate to see it.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
Even the mom seems blind to how her daughter is acting during the class. At the end of the class, I received her feedback, which appeared to be in denial about how rude her child was during the class. I just brushed it off and am not affected by it.
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@RasmaSandra (81617)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Sep
I think you did the right thing and taught her a good lesson, I hope she learned from this,
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I hope she will. However, I doubt it. Right after I had her class, her mother wrote a feedback that it should be a fun class and not to ask questions about the lesson. The mother needs to have a big lesson, too.
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@JudyEv (343586)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Sep
Good for you. I hope she doesn't give you any more trouble.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I am sure she is not going to book my classes online anymore. There are some students like this. If they keep taking classes with me, then they are considered thick faces.
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@grenery8 (11751)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
28 Sep
you are not. you are not there to entertain them
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
2 Oct
You said it right. I am not a clown to entertain them.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
5 Oct
@grenery8 I am sure they do now.
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@grenery8 (11751)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
4 Oct
@Shavkat that's right. They should distinguish those 2 now
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• Philippines
24 Sep
Are you a teacher? That's so nice. Hahahaha I think you did the right thing, it is better to discipline a naughty kid while they are young and to set boundaries.
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• Philippines
24 Sep
@Shavkat hahahaha that's so funny. Sometimes it is not the kids that needs disciplining but the immature parents. I think parents of the 80s and 90s are better than the grown up spoiled brats that are now parents! I can still remember every quarter our class card is being released and picked up by our moms, and all we can hear is our parents giving permission to our school adviser to hit our hands with rod when we are misbehaving in class to discipline us. Those are the bad and good memories of our youth that save us from a lot of troubles.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
24 Sep
I am an ESL teacher. This is my way to revenge myself because the mother will give me poor evaluation eventually. At least I did something that they will never forget.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
24 Sep
@luisadannointed I agree. Modern parents are quite different these days. This "maldita" girl needs to be tamed and cut her sharp horns. If not, she will continue misbehaving like this. The mother seemed so proud of her spoiled brat kid. It is not acceptable for me, so my evil side comes out naturally.
@xstitcher (32970)
• Petaluma, California
1 Oct
Kids need to be taught more respect for authority these days.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
2 Oct
I agree with you. This girl needs to learn big time during the class. I do not mind if she cried in the presence of her mother. Her mother needs to do this in the first place.
@jstory07 (140851)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Sep
No the child needs to learn respect.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
23 Sep
I agree. I was trying to be cool as a cucumber, but cannot help myself to snap.
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@somewitch (1422)
24 Sep
Kudos for staying calm, what you asked her was part of the lesson and not mere retaliation. But I don't know what she's going to learn from the lesson if her mother keeps on defending her, I'm not too positive about that. At least you got your rev... uhm, you kept your cool and stayed professional. If this was a Reddit thread, you are NTA.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
24 Sep
@somewitch That is right. I told her that it is not a reading class and she should learn to make her own sentences with the new words. Besides, I need to tame her down for being overconfident. This is the best way for her to realize her weakness.
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@Shavkat (140177)
• Philippines
24 Sep
I was as composed as I could be. The reason is that I don't want to embarrass her. She is truly trying my patience, though. That's why I had to teach her a lesson and let the mother see it.
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@somewitch (1422)
24 Sep
@Shavkat Right, you just let her know she can't disrespect you. Even if you're a virtual teacher, you're still a teacher and therefore the authority figure between the two. If she's better than you, then she can run her own classes.
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