Sharing is Caring

@Shavkat (139411)
Philippines
October 7, 2024 4:49pm CST
Some people are so stingy, and others are not. It is a fact that makes the world balanced. At some point, sharing is a way of showing our love to others. Although we still need to love ourselves first before caring for others. It is a life cycle that makes us as whole individuals. Besides, if we do share, some people will abuse it. It needs to be balanced. What are your thoughts about it? Image Credit: media4.giphy.com
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@rakski (120723)
• Philippines
8 Oct
Life is a give-and-take that creates that balance.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
It is indeed the same principle.
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@rakski (120723)
• Philippines
9 Oct
@JudyEv (338786)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Oct
I agree that some people take advantages of others when they try to share. It's a pity but that the way it is.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
I agree with you. I had experienced this concern for a couple of times. Now, I am still learning to back off if something is not right from them.
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@allknowing (135410)
• India
8 Oct
I think I am born to give than receive
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
I can also the same thing. I had tried to give more to others through rendering my free service in Tajikistan before.
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@kaylachan (68590)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Oct
Oversharing is a thing and a real problem.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
You said it right. We need to keep things balance as much as possible.
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@jstory07 (139358)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Oct
I give and take and share when I can with others.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
There is nothing wrong with caring and sharing, as long as they will not abuse our good nature to spread kindness.
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@innertalks (21873)
• Australia
8 Oct
Sharing is also showing a non-selfish attitude too. We need to realise that others are living here too, and that we all share life together. It is better to love, and care, for others, and for ourselves too, of course, as you mentioned too. Some people will take advantage of us, but we should be more aware, and try not to get caught, while still treating them respectfully, if we can too. We should not fire abuse back at someone, and try to be more withstrained in our outbursting of anger, for wrong treatment, if we can.
@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
It is indeed a selfless act, but we need to know if it is worth caring about and sharing. That is the problem of the others. They tend to take advantage of our kindness and sometimes do not know how to be grateful. At some point, they can blame us despite having good intentions towards them.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
9 Oct
@innertalks Indeed. If it happens, it will always a lesson to learn. Through the years of existence, I am trying my best to stay away from these people when seeing red flags not to share or care about them in certain levels.
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@innertalks (21873)
• Australia
8 Oct
@Shavkat Yes, life is mostly about the problems of the others, and how they interact with us, and we are learning all of the time, hopefully, how to handle this problem better, without blowing off too much steam at them, or bottling up the steam inside of ourselves too.
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• Philippines
14 Oct
Same. You cannot give what you do not have. And we should give the right amount at the right time so people will not abuse us.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
17 Oct
Through the years of existence, I learned to be like this. It is because some of my friends were so abusive to my kindness. Now, I tried my best not to involve in letting them borrow money from me. I do not want the relationship to be tainted because of it.
@Juliaacv (50869)
• Canada
7 Oct
I have found that depending on what I share and who I share it with, it poses no threat to me, it always comes back again.
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@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
8 Oct
I agree that it depends to whom we can share things. It is given that I cannot be stingy to my immediate family. Aside from them, I need to weigh things up before I can care and share.
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• India
10 Oct
We need to share things with people who deserve the same and not will all individuals and not all things. There re certain things or individuals with whom we should never ever share anything. If we share with these people , as you pointed , there are chances to be abused or even worse things can be done. Every one has a choice to be sharing or stingy. People who share things all at times gets things shared among them . That may not work in case of one is stinky. I also agree ith you that we must love ourselves first before loving others. Else there is potentail to get hurt at least emotionally. Well, you have a great day ahead!
@Shavkat (139411)
• Philippines
10 Oct
It is a sad thing that even if we helped, some of these people can still blame us for doing so in the end. In this modern world, we need to be vigilant with this kind of people. If we can only determine them at first glance, we can avoid them. However, we cannot because some of them are good actors. They can still deceive us despite being cautious.
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@prexie (48)
• South Korea
4 Nov
give and never expect in return