My Wife Has Left Me

@porwest (92588)
United States
October 17, 2024 6:36am CST
Well, not for good. It's just another gambling trip. Not that she does them that often. Just twice a year. Usually once in June and of course, once in October. She left a few minutes ago and she won't be back until Monday. She'll be up North in Wisconsin, I believe if I remember right, somewhere around Keshena. Hopefully it will be a profitable trip. But of course, it's gambling, and it rarely is. Oh well, she will be with her cousin and some friends and will have a good time, so even if she comes back empty handed, at least I know she will have a good time. Plus, for whatever it's worth, it's nice for us to have a little break from each other too. We all need that from time to time.
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@wolfgirl569 (108143)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Oct
Wishing her luck
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
Thank you. Hopefully it will be on her side this time. lol
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@Shivram59 (36466)
• India
17 Oct
So you are "free" now and have sufficient time to hang out with your friends.Wish you a nice time.
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@Shivram59 (36466)
• India
17 Oct
@porwest I know from my own experiences.My wife sometimes goes to see her parents around 350 kms from here and I have to do all works.This is the story of every husband.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
@Shivram59 Yes. Indeed, it is. To top it all off, she leaves off for somewhere and I tell her to have a good time. She leaves me a list of chores. lol
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
Sure. Why not? But of course. But I will also get lots of "work" done too between writing and YouTube, and MAYBE even work on a song.
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@BarBaraPrz (47667)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Oct
Native reserve casino? How much does she usually win or lose?
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@BarBaraPrz (47667)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Oct
@porwest Good boy!
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
@BarBaraPrz lol. Gosh, almost her words exactly.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
It depends on the trip. I gave her $500 for this one.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
18 Oct
Did she go to a casino?
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
25 Oct
@porwest At least she didn't lose everything.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
27 Oct
@nela13 No. That would have been bad. Better to come back with something and have something left to play another day.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
22 Oct
Yep. There was one in Keshena that they went to. She didn't do too bad. I gave her $500 cash to take with her and she came back with $420.
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
17 Oct
When you guys are apart, do you cook differently? I remember growing up, whenever my grandparents were apart..my grandpa cooked things that she either didn't like or he knew she would say were too unhealthy for him lol
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• Defuniak Springs, Florida
22 Oct
@porwest I am not impressed with taco bell at all anymore.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
23 Oct
@thislittlepennyearns I can tolerate it. I hardly ever get it, though.
@porwest (92588)
• United States
22 Oct
I do actually. I won't make anything real elaborate, and a lot of times I will just go and get a bucket or chicken or something. I didn't do that this time, though. I mostly ate leftovers. One night I cooked On-Cor riblets and boiled some cabbage. On the last night I just went and got Taco Bell. I COULD have bought some salmon. My wife doesn't like it, and I hardly ever get to have it unless we are out somewhere that serves it.
• Cloverdale, Indiana
17 Oct
Your so right, separation helps the relationship but then again can also hurt 1 at the same time in other relationships, but Most the time it does a relationship good, that's why I love being in my own place & having the peace & quite I enjoy.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
I think all relationships need space. Just my two cents worth.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
17 Oct
@porwest Sometimes more than just space.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
@2ndchances24 When I traveled for work, it had its benefits. Let me tell you.
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Oct
Enjoy your bachelor time, Jim. I understand you wife. I´m a gambler too. My husband taught me to take to the casino only the money I wanted to lose. And never take a credit card or the like. Temptation is too big.
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@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
17 Oct
@porwest I have never understood why is it that when you lose 30 or 40 dollars it is so much. Yet when you win that amount it is miserable.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
Yep. That's it exactly. Go in with no intentions, and no money you don't fully expect to leave behind.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
@marguicha Or when you win $20 and feel like you won the lottery. lol
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@allknowing (137772)
• India
17 Oct
Are there no casinos around where you live?
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@allknowing (137772)
• India
18 Oct
@porwest When we were holidaying in the US the place where you found them was Las Vegas - the sin city
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
Tons. In fact, about 5 of them. But it's fun sometimes just to get out of town and have a little change of scenery.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
@allknowing Las Vegas is still one of the bigger gambling spots in the country next to Atlantic City.
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@LadyDuck (472111)
• Switzerland
17 Oct
So you are enjoying some "me time" during 4 days. I hope she wins and brings back a present for you.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
24 Oct
@LadyDuck These days it's popular in Milwaukee, but probably not many other places, and probably not distributed outside the United States.
@porwest (92588)
• United States
24 Oct
@MarieCoyle All the ingredients are there. lol
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@MarieCoyle (38709)
24 Oct
@porwest I never really thought of it that way, but yes, it rather is.
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@rakski (126067)
• Philippines
17 Oct
So you will have your 'me' time?
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@rakski (126067)
• Philippines
17 Oct
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
@rakski And then about ten minutes before she walks in the door I'll be running around the house like a chicken with its head chopped off trying to clean up my bachelor mess. lol
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
Oh, you KNOW it. lol
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@lovebuglena (44721)
• Staten Island, New York
17 Oct
Why didn’t you go? Were you not allowed to come along? Did she leave you with chores to do lol?
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@lovebuglena (44721)
• Staten Island, New York
22 Oct
@porwest that should be easy enough to do lol.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
22 Oct
It's girl time. It's their time. Besides, I was looking forward to some me time. As for chores, she went easy on me. I was just told to make sure the house was as she left it for me. lol
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
23 Oct
@lovebuglena So you say... lol
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@NJChicaa (120122)
• United States
17 Oct
I can’t imagine spending a whole day gambling let alone several.
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@NJChicaa (120122)
• United States
17 Oct
@porwest Gambling bores the hell out of me. I’m bored before I even lose the $20 I put in a slot machine
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
@NJChicaa I don't mind it if they let me play a little bit. I am fine with losing the money, but don't just take it from me just because I am there. It's not like I'm expecting a life changing event. I am just looking for some quick entertainment.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
17 Oct
I have become less fond of gambling myself, but I used to enjoy it more. She still enjoys it, but I think these trips for her and more about the time spent with family and friends than the gambling.
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@thelme55 (77165)
• Germany
18 Oct
Enjoy your alone time. I am sure your wife will enjoy her trip. I hope she will win.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
I hope she cleans the place out. lol
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@Dreamerby (5892)
• Calcutta, India
20 Oct
Wow, the headline was kinda scary
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
23 Oct
@Dreamerby Actually, I was. That was my last job. lol Did it for 10 years, 14 if you add the sales element attached to the job I had before it. Made top sales one year in the one before my last one.
@RasmaSandra (80746)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Oct
I hope she enjoys herself and perhaps will hit the jackpot, Now you can have some quiet time,
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
Hitting a jackpot would be sweet. Fingers crossed it happens this time. I'll be doing some writing, working on some YouTube and might pick up the guitar and noodle around a bit. Everything is fair game for me when the boss is not around. lol
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@TheHorse (220245)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Oct
What is her "allowance"?
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
I gave her $500 cash and she's allowed to use $300 on the card.
@JudyEv (342103)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Oct
As you say, as long as she enjoys her time with her friends, anything else is a bonus.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
Yep. That's the way to look at it. Not so much about the gambling but just having fun with friends and family.
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@LindaOHio (181744)
• United States
18 Oct
I'm very different from my husband...he likes time alone sometimes...I do not. Enjoy your weekend; and I hope your wife comes back with fists full of money.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
Alone time for me is almost necessary. I have to have it.
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• Northampton, England
18 Oct
That what she told you .Shes gone to meet Rodrigo in Boise
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
I hope Rodrigo has a lot of money. lol
@JimmyDeen (250)
17 Oct
Hope she doesn't have so much fun at the casino that she decides to stay.
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@porwest (92588)
• United States
18 Oct
lol. Yeah. That would be bad.
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