I don't know what I or he want?

@sjvg1976 (41290)
Delhi, India
October 28, 2024 8:52am CST
One of my colleagues who is a womaniser often talks to me well. He is a lier and it's hard to believe on anything he says. But I like to be in his company and many times I have noticed, he always tries to touch me. I have noticed he touches his cheek with mine saying something in my ear. He touches my hand and hold my hand in his arm, forcefully taking me to the canteen even when I strictly deny to go. I don't know what should I understand by his behaviour but that's for sure I like his company because he Pampers me a lot and always try to help me with his wits and is always a first person if someone says anything wrong to me in the office. Any suggestions what must I take his behaviour.
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@Shivram59 (36687)
• India
28 Oct
You said he is a womanizer.If so;you can ask him directly what actually he wants from you.I'm sure he will tell you the truth.Then it will be up to you to oblige him or not.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct
I don't think I need to ask him, because I like him whatever he is. I don't want him to change as there are chances he may change if I ask him directly what he wants.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct
@Shivram59 Not always I like sometimes it is irritating.
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@Shivram59 (36687)
• India
29 Oct
@sjvg1976 You like him;so you know him better.If you think you should not ask him.But his activities made me suggest you.....OK;as you wish.
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@jobelbojel (36095)
• Philippines
28 Oct
Maybe he is just clingy. Ask him what he wants.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
28 Oct
Sometimes I think I should ask him what he wants from me but I fear he may not feel bad, I don't want him to go away as I like him, he is my crush
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@jobelbojel (36095)
• Philippines
28 Oct
@sjvg1976 Ask him nicely.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
28 Oct
@jobelbojel I will...I know he likes me , I can tell this because he shares many things about him and his family which he doesn't do with the others. I don't know why he does that, may be he likes me but never told.
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@snowy22315 (182478)
• United States
2 Nov
Maybe he swings both ways. It sounds like it
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec
Maybe
@thelme55 (77162)
• Germany
6 Nov
You can ask him what he wants from you. Would you believe his answer? Whatever that be.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
7 Nov
No, I won't because he is a lier.
@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
29 Oct
I would ask him.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec
I am also thinking to ask him.
@grenery8 (11172)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
29 Oct
i think you need to find out his real intentions. he can clarify just to stay as friends or something more but he should say something. you can ask him only once. fingers crossed from me
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
20 Dec
@grenery8 I have taken a decision to make a distance, he seems to be taking advantage of mine in many ways.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec
I am scared if I do so I may lose him as a friend.
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@grenery8 (11172)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
18 Dec
@sjvg1976 it's not fun when you're suffering. It's your decision in the end.good luck
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@wolfgirl569 (108478)
• Marion, Ohio
28 Oct
Just ask him
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
29 Oct
I need to ask him.
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