Vent Out Than Show Anger
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139152)
Philippines
October 29, 2024 8:55pm CST
Personally speaking, I prefer venting out than showing anger toward others. In this way, I can feel relieved. At least I do not need to spike up my blood pressure by being angry. Most of the time, I vent out through writing rather than blurting things out. I am not sure how you handle anger. For me, this is an effective way to prevent hurting other people's feelings.
How do you handle your anger?
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@Beestring (14459)
• Hong Kong
30 Oct
When I am angry, I play musical instruments.
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@jefferson126 (3252)
• Shenzhen, China
30 Oct
I do think venting is better than anger,mostly,i vent out bad emotions.tolerance will hurt our nerve for sure.
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@jefferson126 (3252)
• Shenzhen, China
30 Oct
@Shavkat ,you are a kind person to avoid hurting others.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
22h
@jefferson126 I am trying to be one. I am still a human being that can snap anytime.
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@kaylachan (68196)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Oct
I let myself feel it. I might rant to George or take it out on the keyboard. So between mylot and my husband.... that's how I handle it.
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@kaylachan (68196)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23h
@Shavkat Botteling things up helps no one.
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@luisadannointed (5705)
• Philippines
3h
I am very confrontational when I am at the limit. But sometimes when I can't really express how I feel I cry in anger in my room. Most of the time I always vent my anger to God, but of course I say sorry right away, because I don't think that is right and I fear that he might hate me too... which will not happen of course, but the guilt of me venting out to God the most understandable and loving Father that I know makes me feel guilty... so I say sorry.
@RevivedWarrior (1903)
• India
15h
I do vent as well show anger. Unfortunately , not always I am able to control my emotions and at that juncture it depends on how the mind works. If the opposite person has caused enough issues that I cannot tolerate , I would take out my anger on the person and would think of the consequences later. However, if there are things to tolerate , I might vent out through calls or listening to music. It again depends on the type of issue and nearest solution my brain think of. These days I try to control anger thinking there is no point in fighting on certain things as we need to focus on valued things. Good to kow your thoughts. Have a good day ahead!