Vent Out Than Show Anger

@Shavkat (139152)
Philippines
October 29, 2024 8:55pm CST
Personally speaking, I prefer venting out than showing anger toward others. In this way, I can feel relieved. At least I do not need to spike up my blood pressure by being angry. Most of the time, I vent out through writing rather than blurting things out. I am not sure how you handle anger. For me, this is an effective way to prevent hurting other people's feelings. How do you handle your anger? Image Credit: recoveryways.com
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@Beestring (14459)
• Hong Kong
30 Oct
When I am angry, I play musical instruments.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
30 Oct
That is nice. I wish I could do that. At some point, I tend to watch some movies or listen to music.
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• Shenzhen, China
30 Oct
I do think venting is better than anger,mostly,i vent out bad emotions.tolerance will hurt our nerve for sure.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
30 Oct
This is what I am trying to refrain from showing my anger because it might her others. Or, I may say things that they cannot swallow.
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• Shenzhen, China
30 Oct
@Shavkat ,you are a kind person to avoid hurting others.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
22h
@jefferson126 I am trying to be one. I am still a human being that can snap anytime.
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@kaylachan (68196)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Oct
I let myself feel it. I might rant to George or take it out on the keyboard. So between mylot and my husband.... that's how I handle it.
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@kaylachan (68196)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23h
@Shavkat Botteling things up helps no one.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
30 Oct
For my immediate family, I do the ranting, or even here on MyLot. If it is work-related concerns, I will try my best not to say anything. However, if it is not worth it to endure, I will surely voice out my complaints.
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• Philippines
3h
I am very confrontational when I am at the limit. But sometimes when I can't really express how I feel I cry in anger in my room. Most of the time I always vent my anger to God, but of course I say sorry right away, because I don't think that is right and I fear that he might hate me too... which will not happen of course, but the guilt of me venting out to God the most understandable and loving Father that I know makes me feel guilty... so I say sorry.
@wolfgirl569 (104943)
• Marion, Ohio
16h
Writing is a good way to let it out
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
15h
I can agree more.
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@Shiva49 (26632)
• Singapore
16h
Everyone gets upset when others behave unreasonably. I try to shine the light and make them see what is right and fair. It is their life and what they sow, they reap.
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@Shavkat (139152)
• Philippines
15h
I only vent out directly to my immediate family. I seldom do this with others, especially if I really need to say something. There are some people tend to be abusive to my kindness. Thus, I need to call their attention to stop.
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@allknowing (134944)
• India
7h
I talk to the wall (lol)
@anya12adwi (8216)
• India
18h
I vent up and give silent treatment and then block them!
@grenery8 (9175)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
9h
venting in your diary or to the person who cause you anger? i also agree that venting is better. when you're angry, it seems you're automatically a bad person when, in reality, you aren't.
• India
15h
I do vent as well show anger. Unfortunately , not always I am able to control my emotions and at that juncture it depends on how the mind works. If the opposite person has caused enough issues that I cannot tolerate , I would take out my anger on the person and would think of the consequences later. However, if there are things to tolerate , I might vent out through calls or listening to music. It again depends on the type of issue and nearest solution my brain think of. These days I try to control anger thinking there is no point in fighting on certain things as we need to focus on valued things. Good to kow your thoughts. Have a good day ahead!