Is online korean boyfriend can be a lifetime partner?

@prexie (181)
South Korea
November 4, 2024 12:09am CST
Having a boyfriend in other nation and long distant relationship is one of the hardest part of a relationship. Trust and loyalty is important,i tried to hold on and believe by the magic of love hoping for someday that maybe he is the perfect right one. One month as an online lover we keep updating each other thru call,chatting, videocall whatever we do everyday, we always keep in touch just to feel the love that distance is never be a problem, time flies and nothing change until one day. He decided to come in my country just to see me, and finally we met at the airport by the way he is only 25 and im 21years old we both young right?. A week later he need to go back to his country and sad to say, i wll be lonely again and our love story will be online dove lover's again. after he cameback to his country ,a few weeks counts on and i dont get any single message from him, is it a sign of a goodbye and ending of my blind lovestories?. I have a friend and she always saying, dont believe in this kind of online dating, or else im just pranking my self and wasting my own time.???? what should i do ?
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8 responses
Shavkat
@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
4 Nov
We cannot generalize the idea, It can work with some people and others are not into.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov
@prexie How many months have been since he last texted?
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
i guess i just need to be patient and be positive like you thank you
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
@Dreamerby its been 3 weeks ??
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SIDDI KIMPOLE
@SIDIKIMPOLE (1818)
• Eldoret, Kenya
4 Nov
Long distance friendship can last long but when it comes to dating for marriage, you are likely to end up with disappointments! Rarely works.
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
thank you for your advice, i really appreciate it.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov
Yes that's exactly what I wanted to say. In friendship there are no expectations and commitments. So it lasts long.
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
@Dreamerby should i move on ?
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Nov
Good luck I hope it works out for you.
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
thank you and i hoping for it.
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rakski
@rakski (122891)
• Philippines
4 Nov
are you both Korean? well, a long-distance relationship is not for everyone. You both have to work hard to sustain it if you really love each other
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rakski
@rakski (122891)
• Philippines
4 Nov
@Dreamerby that's a possibility.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov
Should she text him first to know what's up? What's your opinion?
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
5 Nov
i am from malaysia and he is korean, i know we both have different time, but i believe that is not excuses because in whole day there is a 24hours and texting is just 1minutes to send a simple message . guess i need to move on tho
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83480)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
5 Nov
Don't judge right away. He might be sick or he might be in deep thought if he truly loves you. Since you've met personally, he might be having some final thoughts.
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Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
5 Nov
@prexie It's simple. He was never in for a relationship. Just move on from that sh*tty person. No need for explanation. Ok in this case I can suggest you to find another boyfriend.
Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
5 Nov
thank you i also think about that' but feels like he just ghosting me ,i hope there is an explanation ,i guess i deserve it to know it. appreciate your advice .
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A A
@anya12adwi (9360)
• India
4 Nov
Do wait till the mystery solves but don't stop living your life and don't make this relationship as the centre of your world!
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
5 Nov
thank you and i will try to move on
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A A
@anya12adwi (9360)
• India
5 Nov
@prexie Don't stop living life for any other guy in future as well!
Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov
So how many months have gone with no communication from his side?
Aparna Sen
@Dreamerby (5081)
• Calcutta, India
4 Nov
@prexie Have you messaged him?
Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
5 Nov
@Dreamerby i tried to reach him ,sending him a message everyday like we used to before, but sadly i dont get any reply.
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Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
4 Nov
its almost 3weeks..????
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Greenery8
@grenery8 (10592)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Nov
i haven't been in the long distant relationship. i'm glad you met but after 3 weeks, that's it, i think or his phone is stolen, which i doubt. really sorry i think you deserve someone better.
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Greenery8
@grenery8 (10592)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Nov
@prexie i must say that kdrama gave me the same feelings and jdrama and chinese drama i am glad you're in a stage of moving on,which is healthy. I hope you get your wish come true
Lee anne
@prexie (181)
• South Korea
6 Nov
maybe because im addicted about kdrama, that is why im dreaming to marry a korean hehe, honestly i have fantasy to myself seeing marry a diffrent nation and not my own people but its fine , they said if we really meant for each other then theres a way but idont want to wait him anymore, im in the stage of moving on :(
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