Sometimes you just have to be ?
@2ndchances24 (9318)
Cloverdale, Indiana
December 13, 2024 4:57am CST
Yea I know it's been a minute or so since I posted
anything on here, I've been just popping in here &
there responding to those that have responded to
me & I've been kind of hitting random post on here.
Some that I respond to back & forth on some certain
topics & some just to get their response back at times
& here lately just more or less just checking out things.
I've been more in my own little world of what's going
on with the cabin & how long is it going to be B-4 I
can get back to cooking again & getting things in
place & getting back the space I miss so much.
I miss not having the cabin like I use to have it B-4
I went in the hosp, now it's just a unorganized mess
I have stuff still in box's that I would like to use but
can't cause I have no where to use them, I have
stuff I have no idea what to do with till I get things
back in order to know if I have a place to use it.
Right now the only thing I can do is play on the
computer & sleep in my bed & look at all this
mess & keep thinking about when I can get all
this organized the way I need it to be that's it.
It's just like I "knew" I would be when winter got
here, stuck till the weather gets back where he
will want to get something done but right now O.
He rather sit in his place where he has everything
he needs, a place to cook wash dish's, use the
bathroom everything in order & be content & me ?
I just have to wait till the weather gets right again.
I knew all along this would happen WAY B-4 & I
kept saying it's going to get cold & you won't be
wanting to get out in it & all he would say is no
I will get it done, REALLY ? yea tell me another 1.
Yes "Sometimes you just have to be" (fill in the blank)
you tell me what you would do or how you would feel
better yet what would you think if it was you ?
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8 responses
@LindaOHio (181821)
• United States
13 Dec
I hope you will be able to get the cabin how you want it very soon. Great picture. Have a good weekend.
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@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
14 Dec
@2ndchances24 My cabin is always "work in progress."
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
15 Dec
@TheHorse Yep, that's right, till I get it where I want it.
@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Dec
Yea me too but we know how things go at times.
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@porwest (92624)
• United States
14 Dec
You make your bed and you have to sleep in it is something I try to live by. Whether that be financial, health or otherwise. A lot of the time (with some exceptions of course), we have a lot more control over our situations than we realize, and so when we DO realize it is when we can make the changes we want. If I didn't like a job, I made sure to be able to afford to quit. If I didn't like where I lived, I made sure I had the means to move. My pursuit in this world has always been to be happy and be able to find it if it didn't exist in any current place or situation.
Most people won't do that. On the flip side, many people can't do that. But it's their bed. They made it. Now they have to sleep in the bed they made.
Life is about choices and actions. We have to do both in order to find that special place. We decide what we want to do, and then we have to take action to do it.
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@porwest (92624)
• United States
15 Dec
@2ndchances24 I know. But at the same time, if you want something bad enough, you find a way. Not ALWAYS possible. I get it. Like, if I wanted to become a major rock star. No matter what I do it is not likely to happen. But you get the idea.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
15 Dec
I get all that, but there's times & situations you can't do
anything about cause you can't do what needs to be done
BELIEVE ME if I could do what needs to be done I WOULD ! ! !
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
16 Dec
@porwest That's what I always try to do & won't give up
till I get what I want IF it's within my mission of getting it.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
18 Dec
I won't do anything. If it's that cold, I would have my coffee and soup. But i would make list on what first and do it the next day. one part of the place at a time.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
19 Dec
sometimes you have to bite the bullet & do what needs to be done no matter
what the weather is, & there's NO getting around it.
@RasmaSandra (80783)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Dec
Only way I get by is content myself with the situation I am in, find things that make me happy, and count my blessings,
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
14 Dec
yep that sounds about what I do most the time.1 person likes this
@TheHorse (220275)
• Walnut Creek, California
13 Dec
@2ndchances24 Heh. If I am sitting on a hiking trail, staring at a tree, and listening to the wind, I am happy. I think I am easy to please.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
14 Dec
@TheHorse that's me, but just sitting at some kind of water
a lake, a pond, a river, creek, or even watching the fish in my
4 ft 75 gal aquarium playing.
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@aureategloom (10988)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
13 Dec
i'm sorry about the mess. you said you were in a hospital, are you better now? are you able to "clean the mess" yourself?
i'm sorry about your experience, i hope the weather is "right" soon and you get it all the way you imagine
if it was me - i would feel annoyed and do things myself and ask for help if needed. if it's something i can't do, then i'll annoy you until it's done. specially if we already talked about it
i'm sorry about your experience, i hope the weather is "right" soon and you get it all the way you imagine
if it was me - i would feel annoyed and do things myself and ask for help if needed. if it's something i can't do, then i'll annoy you until it's done. specially if we already talked about it1 person likes this
@aureategloom (10988)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
14 Dec
@2ndchances24 i hope you can get the place to be functional again. take care!
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
15 Dec
@aureategloom Thank You, I will & by this time NEXT YEAR
Come h3ll or high waters IT WILL BE in order 1 way or another.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Dec
"you said you were in a hospital" yes I did, & as far as what needs to
be done to get the place in working order, there's a lot of stuff it takes
2 people to do it, I can go through the box's & stuff like that, but not till
the bathroom & kitchen are set up with the cabinets that we don't even
have yet TO set up the kitchen nor the counter top or sink to work with
cause there's all my dish's pots & pans that have to be washed.
@Marilynda1225 (83103)
• United States
13 Dec
I'm sorry that the cabin isn't where you want or need it to be. I would probably be very frustrated.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Dec
That's where I am with it very agitated, but I don't want to rock the boat &
shake the tree so say, cause I know he's just as unhappy about it as I am.
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@2ndchances24 (9318)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Dec
Not with what I have to get done to get things back together
but it's not the point of hurrying I'm talking about.
