Talked To My Ex
By Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (108780)
Marion, Ohio
December 29, 2024 6:04pm CST
He wondered if I knew what was going on. I told him son waited until Christmas day to tell me he wouldn't be here. My ex tried to tell him he can get in trouble but son has it in his head they won't do anything with him in another state. But if he just gets pulled over after Ohio has issued a bench warrant he will find himself back her facing contempt charges at least. And in the meantime baby mama can file for custody and as son will be a no show she will get custody. And then all she has to do is track him down and bring Adeline home with her.
Because of talking to him I wasn't paying attention to my show that I had on. So I will restart it. Maybe on a day when the internet isn't working very good.
I spent the afternoon in my escape room. It was warm and cozy. I fed the chickens early when I heard the rain ease up. By the time I got dressed it was raining hard again. I just got them done. The guineas were yelling at the rain 
. Of course not long after I got back inside the sun came out for a few minutes 
. Now the wind is getting stronger.
I had a good training session with Patch border collie after I put a leash on her so she couldn't roll over or circle me. I can go across the room now and then call her. She waits impatiently. But she is getting it. I also got the dishes washed so a couple of productive things done.
Hope you had a good day.
. Of course not long after I got back inside the sun came out for a few minutes . Now the wind is getting stronger.
I had a good training session with Patch border collie after I put a leash on her so she couldn't roll over or circle me. I can go across the room now and then call her. She waits impatiently. But she is getting it. I also got the dishes washed so a couple of productive things done.
Hope you had a good day.17 people like this
16 responses
@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
He might learn it after he is in jail. Not stressing me as we didn't see him much anyways and I usually didn't really enjoy when he did visit he spent most of the time complaining about her.
Now Patch and Fuzzy 
@MarieCoyle (39118)
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30 Dec
If she has court ordered visitation, which I guess she does or he wouldn't be doing what he's doing, and since he took Adeline and moved without telling her, etc. it will be considered parental kidnapping. The worst part will be when the authorities find him--they will arrest him, and Adeline will have to be with strangers for hours, possibly several days, until returned. Parental kidnapping usually carries a jail/prison sentence. He is shooting himself in the foot, and the little one will pay the big price.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
She just got visitation is the problem. He lost control and can't stand that. She is the one I feel bad for. Jail time is the only thing that might wake him up now.
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@MarieCoyle (39118)
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30 Dec
@wolfgirl569 I’m so sorry. I guess he didn’t really think it through, and now he will eventually be caught and pay a bigger price than he realizes. People wanting to be in charge and call all the shots often have their actions blow up in their faces.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
@MarieCoyle He believes being out of state takes care of all of it. It doesn't work that way
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@kareng (62600)
• United States
30 Dec
Those adult kids of ours have a way of rivaling the "teenage" years sometimes. I have one like that too. All we can do is try to get through to them. They have to listen, learn and accept and know that we are telling them the best way. Sending big hugs!
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@kareng (62600)
• United States
31 Dec
@wolfgirl569 And that just hurts the child and you, too of course with not being able to see her as much. So sad.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Dec
@kareng It will hurt her a lot as she adores him
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
He will learn the hard way when he loses custody. And maybe ends up in jail.
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@celticeagle (168801)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Dec
Kids. I am sorry to hear this. Lessons can come hard for some.
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@kaylachan (72394)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Dec
@wolfgirl569 Oh, I am sure you would.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
@kaylachan My ex didn't know he had left until he seen pictures from our son online that we knew wasn't from Ohio
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@GardenGerty (161157)
• United States
30 Dec
Your weather is like ours. Son seems to be making lots of stupid mistakes.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
He is too narcissistic to think anyone else is right.
She is very smart, just stubborn
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
She is the innocent one that gets hurt the most from this
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@LadyDuck (472258)
• Switzerland
31 Dec
@wolfgirl569 Oh my goodness, this is not at all good.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
He will have to pay big fines and or go to jail and still not learn
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@Tampa_girl7 (50743)
• United States
30 Dec
I hope that your son will make some wise decisions and not get himself into deep trouble. I know this must be weighing heavy on your mind.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50743)
• United States
30 Dec
@wolfgirl569 hopefully he comes to his senses.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
I am actually mad at him for being so stupid. All of this is because baby mama finally got visitation.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
I am actually mad at him for being so stupid. All of this is because baby mama finally got visitation.
@RasmaSandra (81089)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Dec
I hope that things won't get too crazy and the he will come to his senses, I mean it is also not good for Adeline which brings me to another question How are things with the new baby? Sounds like a real confusion all around,
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
He believes that being out of state he is safe. New baby mama is with him.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
Not really. I am not going to worry about what he has done to himself.
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@luisadannointed (6411)
• Philippines
30 Dec
I hope you are not stressing too much about it, and always be calm. Life is really hard but I hope you stay positive in everything and always see the right perspective.
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@wolfgirl569 (108780)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Dec
I am not. It will catch up with him and he will have to pay the price.
@LindaOHio (182925)
• United States
30 Dec
I'm sorry your son is causing you stress. I hope they can work things out. Try and have a good week.
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