Unexpected

@much2say (56522)
Los Angeles, California
January 2, 2025 10:51am CST
Last year, my mom was agreeable to taking senior tai chi classes (if I take them with her). Benefits would include having a routine for health, but I also thought it would be good for her sociability. Two office ladies who signed us up have been most helpful from the start. Each week when we go to class, my mom and I pass by their office doors to say "HI" . They have always been friendly and encouraging to my mom. During the holidays, I had my mom play Santa Claus to leave a card and very small gift on these ladies' desks . At the potluck party I spoke of in my last post, one of them thanked us. She asked if the other office lady "told us" . . . we had no clue what she was talking about. Apparently they arranged to gift us the next 8 week session of tai chi classes - we would not have to pay. This was most kind and unexpected . My mom is only delighted to continue tai chi . I wish you all good things and happenings in this New Year!
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@rebelann (113071)
• El Paso, Texas
2 Jan
Wow, that's totally awesome. I'm so glad your mom is enjoying these classes. Soon she'll start getting to know someone to hang out with .... at least I hope so.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
So far she only takes that 1 tai chi class per week. They just opened up a 2nd class on a different day, but she still only wants to go once a week. For her, that is a lot . . . I have never known her to ever take a class. Oh I would love for her to "hang out" with someone, but maybe that is a lot for right now too. We'll keep trying though .
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
@rebelann My parents dealt with family members all the time since we did have a pretty big family, so friends weren't really needed. But the extended family is just not a thing anymore, so we are left with just ourselves. I want my mom to see there are other people who can care other than family. And it's helping me too . . . to make sure I keep up with myself as well.
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@rebelann (113071)
• El Paso, Texas
3 Jan
Yeah, you're right, it is a lot for any elder especially when the individual had such a long and happy marriage where socialization wasn't a big deal in those years
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@allknowing (138414)
• India
3 Jan
It is just a reciprocation of your gestures I am sure.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
We had only given them each a chocolate teddy bear - a very small gesture on our part. The class for us both are substantially more - so we were shocked (but happy).
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
@allknowing Yes. We are grateful and will continue on with tai chi .
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@allknowing (138414)
• India
3 Jan
@much2say What matters is that it made you surprisingly happy
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@AmbiePam (94566)
• United States
2 Jan
That is SO cool! What a fantastic way to start off the new year.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan
We were shocked . . . had to do a double take on what was said because at first we didn't understand. Never has this happened to us before! Doing the James Brown "I Feel Good" moves .
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
2 Jan
That is wonderful, and glad to know your kindness was so appreciated
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan
And we appreciate them .
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
2 Jan
@much2say It was very nice.
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@DaddyEvil (138115)
• United States
3 Jan
Wow! What sweet ladies! I'm glad you and your mom are will keep going to the classes.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
Seriously, we expected nothing in return for anything - they have been great. Thank you - I hope my mom continues with this for a long time!
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@DaddyEvil (138115)
• United States
3 Jan
@much2say I understand. Sometimes good things happen to good people. I hope she does, too.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
@DaddyEvil Lifting spirits is always a good thing . . . may the New Year be full of that for all of us .
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@RasmaSandra (81194)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jan
That is wonderful and glad your mom wants to continue, I hope this will be a good year for you both,
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
Thank you - it's been a good thing for her ! Wishing you a wonderful New Year too!!
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@shaggin (72455)
• United States
3 Jan
Aww that was so sweet they gifted those sessions to you for free. Your mother and you I hope have a wonderful time doing them!
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@shaggin (72455)
• United States
3 Jan
@much2say do you go weekly?
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
We really couldn't believe it when she told us - quite surprising. My mom has been enjoy tai chi - which I'm hugely thrilled about - so it's a good thing .
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
@shaggin Yes, once a week. They did just open up a 2nd class on a different day, but my mom just wants to do 1 for now .
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@celticeagle (168932)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Jan
What a nice story. Always nice to find positive and kind people in life.
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@celticeagle (168932)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Jan
@much2say .....nice.
@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
I'm glad this happened when it did . . . it had been a rather rough year. This filled our hearts .
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@kaylachan (72663)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jan
Talk about what goes around comes around. Right?
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
2 Jan
Although it wasn't intentional, it's nice it worked out that way .
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@kaylachan (72663)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jan
@much2say That's the best kind in my opinion.
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• China
3 Jan
Happy New Year ! It is nice of them to give you 8 week session of tai chi classes for free ! The reason why the office ladies did so was that they felt beholden to you .
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
Thank you - Happy New Year to you and your family too! It is the one activity outside of home my mom has been agreeable to doing regularly - the good feelings motivate her even more .
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• China
4 Jan
@much2say Practising Tai Chi regularly goes a long way towards her health and she will soon identify herself with other practitioners of Tai Chi.
@rakski (127045)
• Philippines
3 Jan
That's great!
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
It was an offer we could not refuse .
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@rakski (127045)
• Philippines
3 Jan
@much2say I would not turn it down as well!!!
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan
That is wonderful news. I'm glad your mother likes Tai Chi.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
I am glad she took up a physical activity that she likes .
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
@just4him Mind and body for sure .
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan
@much2say It will help her stay active.
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@JudyEv (342670)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jan
How very, very kind of them. They obviously appreciated your kindness too. Hurray for you and your mom.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
Thank you! I am so glad my mom has enjoyed this whole experience of doing something for herself . . . the exercise, meeting people, and perhaps other life lessons that she would not get just being at home. We continue on in the New Year .
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@LindaOHio (183211)
• United States
3 Jan
That was a very nice gesture. Have a good weekend.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
We're so grateful for it . You have a wonderful weekend too !
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@LindaOHio (183211)
• United States
19h
@much2say Thank you very much.
@Fleura (30596)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan
oh how lovely! Glad this has all worked out so well! And happy new year!
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
Happy New Year to you too ! Yes, we are grateful and will happily continue on with tai chi .
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@nela13 (58737)
• Portugal
3 Jan
Those were nice gestures from them and from you and your mom too.
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
We are truly grateful . . . it feels like we won a prize . Happy New Year to you and your family!
@grenery8 (11336)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Jan
that's generous and lovely of them. also from you, exercising with your mum. happy new year and for more surprises like this
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@much2say (56522)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan
We are truly grateful - but I am still in shock they did this for us. It made my mom happy though . Happy New Year to you too . . . let's hope for only good surprises in this New Year !