It's hard to live single life

India
January 17, 2025 9:43am CST
When i go to work...i need to wake up early..i need to prepare my breakfast and lunch for my work. When i get weekly off..my half day spent on cleaning house and washing clothes. It's not that i am not married but my married life was not joyful...it ended because we both were not happy. However, now whatever pain i take but it's only for me. I am happy because i am not in to toxic life. So what if i don't have anyone waiting for me? I am happy to take care my life this is what i have learned.
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@ekta54 (1345)
• Delhi, India
17 Jan
Stay happy!!
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• India
19 Jan
@ekta54 , Yes, thank you
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@ekta54 (1345)
• Delhi, India
19 Jan
@Vijay73 welcome!!
• India
18 Jan
Life in general is tough whether you are single or married. Single people have their own challenges and married have their own. Sorry to hear about challenges you had in your marital life. The most important thing we should understand is that there will be challenges and more of it to come as days and years go. Question would be how to overcome them. As fas as food is concerned , you could cook on weekends and have them on weekdays or hire a cook or buy food. Similarly for every problem , there could be a solution which is viable. The most important thing in life is to stay peaceful and happy in whatever you are and whatever you do. And you are already aware of it. Good luck!
• India
19 Jan
@RevivedWarrior though it's not easy but I am happy.
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18 Jan
The good thing about being single is you are only accountable to yourself.
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• India
19 Jan
@Iam_jauntyjen, Yes exactly and I don't regret it being single.
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@Rimps85 (2247)
• India
17 Jan
just enjoy your life....the household chores can be done part wise & not all at one go, that ways it reduces the load, else hire some help
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@Rimps85 (2247)
• India
19 Jan
@Vijay73 good then
• India
19 Jan
@Rimps85, Thank you but its ok, I can do my household work as you said part wise.
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@grenery8 (13525)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Jan
peace is and will be always more important so, yes, it gets lonely but it's your life.
@ck0704 (23)
19 Jan
yes, but life sucks even if u r not single
@mayka123 (16843)
• India
19 Jan
I have been on both sides and both have their pros and cons. I work from home and sometimes find it tough managing house chores. It was the same while I was with family too. Sundays are spent usually managing house chores and meal preps for the week.
@sjvg1976 (41705)
• Delhi, India
19 Jan
Yes, the life is better alone than to live in a toxic relation. I am married and it's not easy to take responsibility of a family. Sometimes I find myself tied with the family and cannot find space for myself.