Do you think that Valentine’ day is harder on people who are single?

India
February 14, 2025 11:45am CST
Happy Valentine’s Day to All! It is nice to remember on this day that we need to spread love, care and kindness to all who are special to us -soulmate, family, friends and people we care about in our life. Everywhere you look today, it is heavily implied on romantic relationships. From social media to stores, all are items to remind of togetherness. In office, people unofficially celebrate the day. I also noticed that few single colleagues and friends were quite serious today on the work front. I felt that deep inside, they feel left out or perhaps even inadequate. They would be experiencing loneliness when what they see is grand gestures, lavish gifts and proposals. Although I would like to tell them to celebrate self-love or friendships, I know most may not take things in the right ways. I am ware of few strong individuals who enjoy their single life and consider being single as time for self-discovery and freedom. They appreciate all forms of love in their lives. Ultimately, Valentines’ Day is what each of us make out of it and happiness can never be defined by relationship status. What’s your opinion?
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@TheHorse (224785)
• Walnut Creek, California
14 Feb
I think it can be a difficult for people who have lost a loved one. But if the sprit of love can extend beyond romance, I'm down with the day.
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• India
16 Feb
It is definitely difficult for people who have lost their loved ones or had a breakups. Sometimes , we are helpless in some respects.
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@TheHorse (224785)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Feb
@RevivedWarrior Many Americans feel helpless right now, regardless of relationship status.
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@ekta54 (1358)
• Delhi, India
15 Feb
When I was single , it did not bother me
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• India
16 Feb
You are few who never was bothered by the same. But then there are many who feel left out. Hope they find love and meaning in their lives.
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@ekta54 (1358)
• Delhi, India
17 Feb
@kaylachan (76370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
14 Feb
I agree. When I was single it was just another heaivly cammerilized holiday. I'm married, and other then the date, it's just a date.
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@kaylachan (76370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Feb
@RevivedWarrior Yeah! And, it is for me. George and I lve it.
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• India
16 Feb
Well, Valentine's day is a big commercial holiday and a big sales day. I agree , if you found true love , then Feb 14 is just a date in the calendar.
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@FourWalls (72795)
• United States
14 Feb
I’m single and it doesn’t bother me.
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• India
16 Feb
You are one of the elite who have no issues with such days and embrace the life that you have.
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@Juliaacv (52693)
• Canada
14 Feb
I believe that it would be difficult on someone who has just come out of a relationship. Valentines Day would amplify the feeling of being single. I remember spending the week of Valentines Day in the hospital one year, and on Valentines Day my husband had to work the 3-11 shift and could not visit me during the visiting hours. I felt very alone, and when a friend and her husband stopped by to visit me and give me flowers, I felt even more lonely for my husband. But her was there the next day and has been every day since, he just had to work on that day when I could have visitors.
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• India
16 Feb
Well, sometimes we are lucky to have someone in life. Even if we cannot meet our Valentine on Feb 14 , there are still 364 days in the year , we can be happy with our Valentine.
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@franxav (14050)
• India
14 Feb
Someone wished me a happy valentine day. Sadly, I didn't feel any joy.
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• India
16 Feb
At some point in life , we all get matured and began to realize the Feb 14 is just a date in calendar. Whereas we have challenges in our lives. So unless those are resolved , joy factor would be less.
@Orson_Kart (7194)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb
It’s definitely cheaper
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• United Kingdom
16 Feb
@somewitch It is better to give than to receive (so the bible would have you believe), and I’m sure, at the time, it felt right. So don’t regret money spent on lost loves. It’s good you are generous on your love, but it doesn’t have to always be with money. I find a “kiss” is worth a pot of gold.
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@somewitch (2325)
16 Feb
@Orson_Kart Good point! I might be a woman but I can be quite generous in relationships, don't get me started thinking of all the money I spent for "love". But hey, no time for regrets.
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• India
16 Feb
Well, there are less expenses when you have embraced your freedom as single.
@sjvg1976 (42007)
• Delhi, India
16 Feb
I am married and don't celebrate valentine's day. It's like a normal day for us.
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@sjvg1976 (42007)
• Delhi, India
16 Feb
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• India
16 Feb
Once hitched , most days are Valentine's day!
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@id_peace (15334)
• Singapore
15 Feb
Valentine day is not just a day to celebrate love. It is also a day to celebrate friendship and kinship Take the day to appreciate everyone you have in your life.
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@id_peace (15334)
• Singapore
16 Feb
@RevivedWarrior Ah yes, I agree with that. It does not have to be between just couples only.
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• India
16 Feb
Exactly! People should celebrate love in any form and thats how we should appreciate everyone in our lives!
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@RebeccasFarm (93139)
• United States
16 Feb
Oh no I think its peaceful..no one disappointing you or bossing you around.
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• United States
18 Feb
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• India
16 Feb
Yes, it is helpful when we embrace the life wholeheartedly and better being not in an unhealthy relationship.
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@jstory07 (142757)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Feb
Single people can enjoy Valentine day with each other.
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• India
16 Feb
I agree. Single people should not feel left out.
@rakski (134961)
• Philippines
15 Feb
looking back my single years, not hard at all. me and my friends will celebrate it together.
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@rakski (134961)
• Philippines
16 Feb
@RevivedWarrior we take care of each other
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• India
16 Feb
Well, you were lucky to have friends to take care of you during those times.
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@somewitch (2325)
16 Feb
I think it's a day where love in all its forms should be celebrated. No excuses for single people, they can spread love to strangers if they really care. I was sad I couldn't be around here and celebrate with myLot friends. No relationship should be given for granted, even the one with God so loneliness is mostly a matter of perspective. However, it takes time and perhaps a bit of luck to reach that inner peace that allows you to not envy lovebirds, especially on Valentine's day, no doubt! I hope you had a great day.
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• India
16 Feb
I definitely agree with your thoughts. It takes time for single people to reach the inner peace ,not to envy lovebirds . But theen no relationship can be taken for granted . In fact , nothing can be taken for granted.
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