Does making the bed matter?
By Fleur
@Fleura (31448)
United Kingdom
February 21, 2025 5:51pm CST
I get up in the morning and fold the covers down to air the bed - one of those old-fashioned pieces of wisdom that turns out to be backed up by modern science. Making the bed – i.e. putting the covers back in place right away – traps moisture under the covers, damaging the mattress and providing a breeding ground for fungi, bacteria and viruses such as Streptococcus and Norovirus.
The problem is that once I have washed and dressed and started on my day, I rarely go back to the bedroom until bed time. And then I’m tired and it’s late, and I get to the bedroom and see the unmade bed and that just makes me feel worse, like ‘Here’s one more thing I didn’t manage to get done today’.
In contrast if the bed is neatly made then when I open the door and see the bed all ready and waiting for me, I immediately feel kind of soothed and calmed. Freshly-washed sheets are a special bonus!
I know this isn’t universal. My partner doesn’t seem to care at all if he has to drag the covers into place as he gets in and never even thinks of washing them (except if I go away, when he hurriedly does so before I get back!). He thinks my pleasure in clean bedding is just plain unnecessary and would think it was downright weird if it wasn’t for one of the main characters in Terry Pratchett’s Discworld novels, who is known for his meticulousness and appreciation for clean sheets. Thank you Sir Terry!
Does this kind of thing matter to you, or do you think you have more important things to worry about?
All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2025.
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@much2say (57417)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Feb
I remember someone told me in my college years that having a made bed sets up the rest of the room. If the bed is made, it makes your room look nicer . . . if it's not made, the room looks messier. It is tiring to look at an unmade bed later on in the day. I open up our bed to air for an hour or so before making it. Oh yes, clean sheets feel great!
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@Fleura (31448)
• United Kingdom
22 Feb
I'm totally with you on this.
I remember when Big One was a baby, when I was at home on maternity leave. Some days I just spent the whole day hardly achieving anything, and I remember when my partner came home at the end of the day and I explained I hadn't even managed to make the bed yet! He looked at me rather strangely and I thought he was wondering how I had managed to get so little done (maybe he was - he found out when he subsequently took 6 months paternity leave!) but now I think he might just have been wondering why it mattered at all since he wouldn't even notice!
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@allknowing (143671)
• India
22 Feb
In the good old days I always had a counterpane matching the decor in he house but these days I do not use them any more but do make my bed before breakfast.
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@kaylachan (76835)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Feb
George and I used to make our bed after letting it air some. It made the room feel cleaner. After his stroke, and I had to start doing all of the work, I stopped bothering unless I washed the sheets. But, then I have to do it then so that I can tell by feel if there's enough sheet ant blanket on each side.
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@JudyEv (350734)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Feb
I can rremember some of Mum's old friends saying 'If it's as good when I get into it asit was when I got out of it, it'll do me'.
I rarely let it air. I know I should and we were taught that at school. But the rule here is: last out of bed has to make it, which causes a mad scramble sometimes. I remember Mum feeling bad if the beds didn't get made each day. Nowadays with fitted sheets making the bed is very quick and easy.

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@Fleura (31448)
• United Kingdom
23 Feb
@JudyEv When I first left home I had just a bottom sheet and a duvet - if it was really cold I would add another duvet. Nowadays I prefer a top sheet as well, because it gives us more options as you say, and also because it protects the duvet cover so I generally wash the two sheets every week but only wash the duvet cover once in a while. Removing, washing, drying and replacing a superking size duvet cover is about ten times as difficult as a single one even though it's only twice the size!
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@Deepizzaguy (108592)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
21 Feb
Making my bed look nice is important for me since I want to have a nice evening of rest at night.
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@Tampa_girl7 (52200)
• United States
22 Feb
I can’t stand looking at an unmade bed. I think of the dust and our kitty who likes to walk and waddle all over the bed. I really like the look of a neat and tidy bed with a pretty comforter or bedspread.
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@DaddyEvil (145797)
• United States
22 Feb
I'm usually back on top of my bed when I'm playing online, like on myLot... I want the covers to be nice and smooth under me when I'm on them... I usually leave the covers folded back while I'm showering, washing the dishes and cooking whatever I'm planning on eating before making the bed back up.
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@wolfgirl569 (114471)
• Marion, Ohio
22 Feb
I straighten the covers enough when I get up that they are easy to get. Except for that I don't worry about it
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@RasmaSandra (83878)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Feb
Being alone these days I just crawl out of and back under the covers.
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@Iam_jauntyjen (5301)
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22 Feb
It is scientifically backed that making the bed every morning benefits one's mental health. Since childhood, I always make the bed every morning and want my daughter to develop this routine.
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@aninditasen (16964)
• Raurkela, India
22 Feb
Yes, it does for me. I want my bedsheet spread evenly on my bed and I do that every morning after I leave my bed. I don't wash my bedsheet everyday but every 10 days.
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@jstory07 (143252)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Feb
I make the bed every day when we get up. I also wash the sheets one day a week. Nothing like a made bed.
